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hey heres a lil' bit about me
yew may wanna knoe!

!nIcK nAmE! Sammi

*AgE*13

!bIrThDaY! Oct.10,1991

*HeIgHt* about 5'2

!hAiR! DARK!brown

*LoCaTi0n* Florida!sunshine
state!

!sEx! thongs and bras!:-D

*SpOrT* soccer n skateboarding
with friends (not on a team!)

!b/F iNfO! taken by Matt!
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!sToRe! tha mall!!omg whut
kid muh age doesn't lyke tha
mall! i love pac*sun in tha
mall.. i hate stores lyke
aropastal n limited 2...
but i have alota friends
that shop there...

*PlAcE tO eAt* duno nemore

!hOlIdaY! holloween!its not
reallie a holiday tho
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!wHy I wAnNa HeLp YEW 0Ut!
i always hlep muh friends
out n now and then i'll
hear a thanx n that i help
them out alot when they
need it n all n that im
good at it... n i made this
to find out if i reallie
can help people.. so RATE
ME if yew think im worth
it! thanx!! *!SwEeTbAbI!*
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E-mail: DumbSpanishChick@loveable.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: middle school
Age: 13
AIM: GhettoSk8erBabi or DcLoSeRsOwHaT
Member Since: October 23, 2004
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Last Update: November 21, 2004
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ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13!

i think he should talk to her and find out whuts up wif her... and if he still thinks about breaking ^ wif her then he should...

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okayy ... so like at school i`m not popular at all .. but my two best friends kinda are.(we`re all 13 and girls) and well they've already had many boyfriends, their both pretty and they have soo many friends ..but i dont have many friends, i never had a boyfriend and people sometimes think im a "goody-two-shoes" anyways im kinda jealous of them cuz thier really pretty and popular .. so my question is do u think that i should be jealous and do you think there is anything i can do to become more "popular " like them?

no dont think yew shuld be jealous...but i do think yew sud let ppl get knoe knoe yew better...then yew will get more friends..im sure yur a great person..as far as guys...yew dont need to have a bf...but if yew want 1 just talk to tha guys and let then get to knoe yew..and popular..i hate that word...ppl used to always say i was popular..i always got madd...but theres reallie nothing wrong wif it...nor is there anything wrong wif not being poular
hope i helped yew
*SwEeTbAbI*

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How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male

talk to her...let her knoe yur there fer her and that yew care...and hang out...just be nice and sweet..and if it helps i dont only think guys want sex...

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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?

sometymes... it depends on if its safe friendly flirting wif friends... or flirting lyke yur going out wif them and reallie bad if yew dont knoe tha guy...

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okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body?

i would say just exercize alot and an eazy way to do that is run fer about an hour every day (if seen it work.. its a GREAT idea) and then theres that hole eat health thing

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okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?

thanks

ok heres some answers:
a-yes but that doesnt mean its ended fer that week
b-i wouldn't and dont think yew can
c-pretty sure
d-um...yes... but yew may have to get used to it to...
e-XTREMLY bad pians in your sides and around your stomache area..
f-doesn't matter... but yu\our morelykely to get hurt wif a tampon
g-yes
h-umm.. i dont think so but i do think your parnter would want blood all over his penis

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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking?

yes i deffinately agree

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Ok this is how it goes...This past friday night this girl, lets say her name is sarah invited me to her house.. I was wit 2 of my friends and we were only gunna go there for a couple minutes..While we were there me n sarah kissed and during us kissing she said she didnt want it to seem like she was leading me on and that we were friends with benifits..i dont really wanna b friends wit benifits and now in her info she has sumthin that says "crushing"...is that about me or about some one else...i asked her and she didnt tell me, idk if it was bc i was wit my friend or wat but i want answers..please help

um i think its about yew but keep asking her to find out

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well i've been dating this guy for almost an entire month and i like him soo much and he is constantly telling me he loves me alot but the only time i can talk to him is when im at his house becuz all he ever does is get on the computer and play 'call of duty' and he never has time for me! he hangs up with me for his game!but i dont kno what to do becuz i really love him.is there anything you can advize me to do instead of dump him becuz this is reallie important in my opinion. thanx!!!

hmmm... well i guess yew cud tell him that it seems lyke he cares more about his games and stuff then yew and its not fair to yew... or just poiint out in yur oun way how yew feel

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hey i need some advice...i like this guy but iono if he likes me r not but he likes him ex gf still and i dont no wat to do!!

well if yew lyke him let him knoe!!!! god every1 is so secretive thenthey iss their chance... tha guy may realize he lykes yew if yew tell him... and if he dont.. then get on wif lyfe and more then lykely he will lyke yew!!
!Sweet Babi!

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i hate my friend he punched me in my face now wat should i do?

ask them why they did that then talk to them about it

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well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop??

im 12 in tha 7th grade and have skipped a few years... even when i was in 5th.. so id say yew can untill yur around hmm.... yur last year of high school....maybe...but yea fer ryte now enjoy it while yew can...if yew want to then go ryte ahead theres no shame in it!
!SwEeTbAbI!

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Situation: I'm involved in a long distance relationship.. Neither of us can drive right now.. and my parents wont let me date yet. His mom doesnt have her license right now (not sure why) so we dont have rides to see each other. My older sister doesnt approve of me dating him.. so she wont take me to see him.. and i barely know anyone that lives in his town.

Can anyone think of a way we can make this relationship last.. we're deeply in love.. but its hard not being together...

we've asked friends for rides.. and they wont take us.. Could someone please tell me how we can be together.. and it not be so hard on the both of us?

Thanks!

i have tha same problem... im lyke totally im love wif muh boyfriend n im not going to speak fer him but im pretty sure he lykes me alot to... but yea anyways i rarely seem muh b/f to... all i can say is tell yur parents and hopefully they will understand and let yew see him... and if not... plan to go somewere thats between were tha 2 of yew live n meet each other there... lyke tha movies or something... hope i helped yew out!
!SwEeTbAbI!

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why you getting off???

tha only tyme i get off lyne is b.c muh mom tells me 2...

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I like this boy a lot but I don't think he likes me back. I want to go out with him so bad. What should I do.

i think yew should just go ryte ahead n let him knoe yew reallie lyke him... then if he hasnt asked yew out yet then hang out wif him alot n let him get to knoe yew.. then eventually ask him out(dont b scared) thats whut i do n would do.
!SwEeTbAbI!

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I decided Im goin to break up with him but how should I do it or wut should I say?

just tell him that yew just wanna b his friend... and then explain to him why yur doing it... so he understands... and then most lykely yew 2 can just become good friends... seems lyke a good thing comeing out of it... well yea there yew go here to help anytyme!
!SwEeTbAbI!

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hi.my names jaylene and i my parents recently just got divoreced and ever since that ive been getting into drugs and cutting myself and my parents(mom mostly) abuse me and call me stuff like a whore all the time. my brother hurts me and does the same as my parents. everyone i no thinks im so happy and i just want to let it all out and tell all of them that im not! and i want to get out of my life and start a new one but thats not goin to happen...theres one good part i love my boyfriend weve been goiing out for 6 months and hes the only one that keeps me going everyday or else who knows whered id be but yeah i dont no wut to do about drugs and abuse and my parents so please HELP me!!! ps i love shawn!!

im sooooooo sorry!! omg... abuseing a child is never a way to hlep anything!! but dont worry but life sux to... not as bad as yurs tho... and muh b/f keeps me going to (johnny)... all i can say is stay outta their way till yur outta that house n try not to cut n do drugs anymore... i hope i helped yew...
!SwEeTbAbI!

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Ya I have this situation with this girl. Like we hung out a couple times and it was an awesome time. Like we both cuddled with each other made each other laugh and kissed. Then the last time we hung out which was 2wks ago, like i kept in touch with her always asking her to c if she wanted to do something and she says ya but when it comes down to it, she always has something else to do. This just didnt happen once but a couple of times during the 2wks. I know she doesnt mean to cuz she is always apologizing saying she is srry that she couldnt hang out and when im always online, she will always i-m first just sayin hey. Like i know she wants to c me more and she knows i have feelings for her and that i like her but i wanted to know what u guys think about this situation.. Hope u can give me some advice for this... Also she like rlly never calls me. Like i feel im always the one to call her and i hate that. Im sure some of u guys know what im talking about. lol but if u anyone has advice to give i would like to know what u think. thx -TiM-

tim.. sounds to me that yew should just go ahead and make plans ahead of tyme... then she'll have plans n hopefully wont break yall's... and sounds lyke yew 2 reallie lyke each other so dont wrry it'll work out
!sweetbabi!

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Ok well to start off the question...I have a boyfriend named..lets call him bob....well we broke-up over a really dumb reason, but we got back together yesterday....I like him a lot but He is always rude to me and He told me [when we broke up] that he was thinkin about it a week be4? and I think now that were goin out again hes just screwing me over I dont kno!..well plz help me
Also I have feelings like I just want to break up with him because I love bein single and I have a crush on sum1 else!

well i think that yew 2 should break up... not tryig to be mean but if hes gunna be lyke that n yew lyke another guy it makes sence...
!SwEeTbaBi!

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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~

well shadysladys001 your only 14 so i think yew should tell yur parents insteada keeping it frum them and have tha baby... and yes yew can have an abortion but i reallie dont recommend it.. either way yur parents are bound to find out so just have tha baby hope i helped !sweetbabi!

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