IMPORTANT! ( im soo sorry its long) but its very important!
Question Posted Saturday November 20 2004, 11:09 pm
ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13!
MeadowLark answered Sunday November 21 2004, 8:58 pm: Have you considered she might be afraid...try getting friendlier with her first for a few more months, if she's still shying away then ask her why...then the worst/best thing that can happen is she gets mad and you break up and find another girl who's better maybe for you. [ MeadowLark's advice column | Ask MeadowLark A Question ]
SweetBabi answered Sunday November 21 2004, 4:56 pm: i think he should talk to her and find out whuts up wif her... and if he still thinks about breaking ^ wif her then he should... [ SweetBabi's advice column | Ask SweetBabi A Question ]
hailebop answered Sunday November 21 2004, 6:50 am: It sounds like your friend and this girl want rather different things from this 'relationship'. It sounds like the girl really isn't ready for any of the physical stuff that comes into a relationship (even kissing and cuddling), whereas her boyfriend wants these things. To be honest, if she's still not wanting these things after 6 months, it's probably because she just doesn't want that level of things at this stage in her life. That's her buisness, she's only young. It definitely doesn't make her a prude if she doesn't want to leap into proper boy/girl stuff when she's only twelve or thirteen.<p>
As for what your friend should do, that depends on how he feels. If he's happy just being good friends with this girl, than he should just continue as he is. If however he really wants more from a relationship, he should explain this to the girl - tell her that though he likes to spend time with her as they have been doing for the past 6 months, that isn't enough to be a relationship for him. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
ScapegoatWax answered Sunday November 21 2004, 1:28 am: maybe his breath stinks. or she's with him for charity(as in, she feels sorry for him and thats why she agreed to go out with him)
punkchick767 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 1:15 am: uhh i think shes really prude..6 months and she wont even hold his hand or kissed or hugged! omfg..thats horrible! lol thats really crazy..uhh either he accepts the fact or tell him to move on [ punkchick767's advice column | Ask punkchick767 A Question ]
buckems answered Saturday November 20 2004, 11:20 pm: Iight well it might be a good idea for him to break up with her? but other wise tell him to talk to her! Tell him to ask her why she wont kiss him?!? Like 6 months is a long time to go out wiht a girl and she not kiss hug or nothing! Now i can uder stand her not having sex or any thing but kissing and things like dat is childs play! Hope i helped keep me updated [ buckems's advice column | Ask buckems A Question ]
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