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Q: Where can I buy a pedometer?
at a store

Q: hi theres this guy that likes me and wants to have sex with me cool!!!! but theres one problum hes 35 and i'm 14!!!!!! :~( what should i do he said if i don't i'll be sorry help!!!!!!
omfg.. why the hell would u want to have sex with a 35 year old? oh yeah.. you wont be sorry.. you should turn him into the copz

Q: i have been feeling bad for a while.. i think i have the disease depression... im almost 16 years old and until recently i havent told anyone except my best friend... i want to tell my mom and go to the doctor to find out for real but im scared... im afraid she wont understand or not take me seriously or get mad... some of my symptoms are: alot of insecurities with myself, feeling empty, trapped, i always wanna stay home and sleep, i hate myself, im sick of my life, and i have alot of regrets.... im not so bad that im thinking of suicide though.. i would NEVER do that.... the thing is i think i have a pretty good life and im lucky for the things i have and that makes me feel really guilty about feeling bad..... i have a good house, im healthy, i have a family who loves me, my parents are together, and i have alot of stuff but i still feel depressed....... i no there are people who have it so much worse than me and all that makes me feel so much worse about how i have been feeling.... my questions are do u think i am really depressed like.. do u think i have the disease or do u think im just a moody teenager? and do u think i should tell my mother? please please time one million answer my questions!!!! i reallyyyyyyy need help!
you could just be goin thru a stage in ur life..im 13 and i feel like that almost everyday..lifes tough isnt it?

Q: im 13 and i have had sex three times but i have never made out with a guy. there is this really hott guy i like and he likes me but im scared to go out with him because im scared hell think im a really bad kisser. i have no clue what to do will you PLEASE HELP!!
well okay..how the fuck did that one happen? lol jk i kno alot of girls that have had sex and havent kissed a guy in their life..its a lil odd but i can understand..so anyway..you should go out with him..and he knows that a lot of girls our age have never made out with anyone.and besides..ur first time is always wierd..so be happy and go out with him and dont worry bout maybe bein a bad kisser! hope i helped = )

Q: ok so u kno dis boi rite.. n da first tyme u meet him u do all dis shyt widd him cuz he told u dat he lovez u n u believe him.. den ova da summa u start ta feel uzed thinkin bout dat day.. so u stop takin to him..iight.. den he meetz up widd dis gurl who used to be hiz girl.. n den hez all lovin her.. but he tellz u da same shyt cuz u waz friendz n she told u dat he tellz her he missez her n all dis shyt.. but u talk to him again after about 10 mothz.. n u start ta lyke him. bbut dat bytch keepz telin u shyt. but he sayz itz not true.. do u bleive da gurl. or da boi.. lyke wut do u do!?? i needz sum help now.

thx fo da help ladii.
i would talk to the both of them and see what happens..sorry..it was kinda confuzing

Q: ok this guy is like cute and i like him but things have been goin on like every1 is sayin that he said this n he doesnt like me i kinda believe but i duno it jus doesnt sound like him wut shood i do PLEASE HELP

well instead of listening to what other people think..you should get up the guts and ask him yourself..talk is really cheap..so hear what he thinks...from his own mouth! = ) hope i helped!

Q: theres this one kid on my bus and hes mexican. i have nothing agains mexicans but he is really annoying. but i feel bad 4 him kas he gets harrasses so bad on the bus. every one makes fun of him. i laugh at it sometimes because it is a little funny but i still feel bad. what can i do to stop them frim makin fun of him?
tell them that they're not perfect either and ask them if they want you to name their imperfections..that should get to them..and then they should quit = ) hope i helped..

much love

Q: Theres this really cute guy in my global history class...lets call him L. Well the teacher is kinda strange and he talks to L about his ex girlfriend all the time. He was talkin about her again today and he picks on me all the time cuz ive had a couple different boyfriends...ppl that he knew since school started. So then the teacher was like ok, L is available..any takers and nobody said anything. But then a couple mins later he was like hey..(my name here)you should date L..hes a good kid. then he turned around and smiled at me. And like all day when he saw me he kept smiling at me and bumped into me in the hall once...he said sorry. kinda lame. But ok. Heres my question. From all ya'lls point of view do u think hes intrested, i want a second opinion and if so do you think i should persue getting to know him better?
yeh. i definetely think you should keep talking to him and maybe you guys could tie-the-knot..if ya kno what i mean.haha well i hope ya helped..he sounds really nice and sweet!

Q: ok, Me and my friend have been BEST friends since 5th grade....and now I am going out with this guy....I love him sososo much!! and I think that she is getting jealous over him b/c I dunno....but she like plays childish games with me...like (sry, this is long) on friday night, i was talking to my b/f and hse was over at my house and we were in the same room and she calls me on her cellphone to tell me that she has to pee....WTF?!?! and I love her to death...I would never choose him over her....how do i let her know that without actually telling her....
i would just kinda talk to her more..and then get the two of them to hang out with you at the same time..and just see how things work out..and if things dont work from there..just come out and tell her

Q: My friend moved out to Colorado a year ago. I'm 15/f and he was my best friend. Yesterday he told me he had sex for the first time. Which is totally different from when he lived here. He never would have done it. I understand that he changed because of the different people. I get that. But, its just the fact that sometimes, when I talk to him online, he's drunk. And alone. When he's sad, he tells me he WANTS to be drunk. I'm afraid I'm going to lose my best friend.
What should I do? Just get over it?
you need to talk to him when hez SOBER..lol tell him how you feel..i know..its hard dealing with friends once they change dramatically..it seems like u lost them..so talk to him dearie!

Q: Does anyone know of any good blush that stays on all day without having to reapply it all the time? Or does anyone know how to get regular blush to stay on all day? Like putting lotion on ur face first or something?
ooh! the jane blushes and makeup items work really well! you can buy them at walmart..pretty much anywhere! = )

Q: I sweat under my armpits A LOT!! and i just want to find out a way nto stop because i always have to wear sweatshirts to cover it up. HELP ASAP!!
use deodorant..but it never works on my sister sometimes..i think you guys have the same problem

Q: Hi My name is Nicole, Well most of my friends do drugs and well i dont because i have head on my sholders.Anyways so i told my bestfriends boyfriend that she was still smoking and later on she came up to me and yelld at me. And well her and her bf broke up because she lied to him and i guess there was more to the story so yea.....anyways so now she got allof myfriends agenst me for some stupid reason and i dont even know what i did to the rest of them....Do you guys think i made the rigth choice by going to her boyfriend and not teacher because she would be grounded for the rest of her life if her parents found out..... so what can i do to get my friends back..
PLEASE HELP PLEASE
i think you did the right thing..well you were just trying to help her..drugs are really bad..she has no reason to turn ur friends on you..you were just trying to help..so talk to ur friends and explain what happened..hope i helped!

Q: this girl i used to be friends with, lets just call her bob, i dont like anymore. shes really annoying and really really nerdy and scary looking and has become really mean. i dont want to hang out with her anymore but she wont leave me alone! what should i do?
just confront her.
haha sorry this is so short..but that is simply what i would do

Q: Hi. My names Kylie and this is my situation. I live with my older sister because my dad left and my mom died when I was born. I'm 13 and she’s 29. Anyways when I was 4 one of her friends was watching me while she went out and he was touching me sexually. I didn’t tell her and the next time he babysat me he did it again. He did it 4 different times that I can remember. Anyways I never told my sister about it. And they’re still really good friends today. He comes all the time so I see him a lot. And I feel really awkward around him. What I'm wondering is should I tell my sister about it? I don’t know if shed believe me and if she did I don’t know if shed do anything about it. I know its sexual abuse but can he actually get in trouble for it? Like since it happened a long time ago?

Please reply. I really don’t know what to do here.
Please email me if you think you can help.
hollisterhunni0628@yahoo.com

- Kylie
yes hun...he can still get into trouble for it..you seriously needa say something..im just tryin to tell you whats best..that is seriously not right..you need to tell your sister ASAP

Q: ok well my mom is a slut and always sleeps with guys she meets online. she never spends time with her kids and whenever we try to talk to her about it she gets all kissy kissy and does it all over again. she stays out until 7 pm to 3 am and comes home with dumb lame and unbelievable excuses. we really need help from someone because she is going to end up hurting herself as well as her kids. please help!
wow..that really seems like a problem..try talkin to a school counselor or whoever..maybe you should try talkin to your mom and tell her how you feel.or talk to child protective services if it gets out of hand

Q: whenever someone talks to me my face like turns red and i feel like i cant prevent it or make it stop.. but im not even embarassed or anything, i \t just turns red for no reason. like even if im talking to my best friend or something! how do i prevent this cus it keeps me from raising my hand in class and from talking 2 ppl a lot @ school! help!!
thatz a lil odd..i think maybe u have a low self esteem...do you feel odd when they talk to you? i get like that sometimes..i'll feel stupid when im talking to friends or i'll feel like theres somethin in my hair or teeth..i think you just need to get more into the crowd and talk..don't be a loner and dont be afraid to be odd at times! i hope i helped somewhat

Q: ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13!
uhh i think shes really prude..6 months and she wont even hold his hand or kissed or hugged! omfg..thats horrible! lol thats really crazy..uhh either he accepts the fact or tell him to move on

Q: ok this guy made me feel like crap and all i think about is him. I cry alot and my friends are jus liek suck it up ur fine but im not what shood i do
well..if he made you cry..he's not worth it..some guys don't kno that they hurt you.but you should let them know..if you cry over him all the time..just forget about him..cuz obviously..he's not worth it..you should go find urself a man that ur happy with and forget bout him.

much love..joey

Q: oh boy.. i like this guy aton and he tells ppl he likes me.. and all this junk.. but for the past few days hes been igroning me. everything makes me think of him and idk what to do. ever since he started ignoring me ive been crying everyday and i cant help it. people tell me to write him a note and i finally did but he hasnt answered yet and im scared to find out whut hes gonna say. whut do u think i should do about all this?
well..stuff like this always happens..but you can't give up..maybe he does like you..he's prolly just nervous around you..so give it some time. and notes are not the answer..i think face to face is better becuz when you pass notes..they think about what they wanna say more and might not really answer you question.but when its face to face..they say how they feel and they dont really have time to think bout it..i dunno it depends on the person..but just give it some time and see how it goes.

over and out..joey

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punkchick767
yeah, my names joey and i opened this to help people and get advice. i like to hang out with my friends, rock out, and talk to my incredible boyfriend = )

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