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Because of drugs i lost my friends.....!
Hi My name is Nicole, Well most of my friends do drugs and well i dont because i have head on my sholders.Anyways so i told my bestfriends boyfriend that she was still smoking and later on she came up to me and yelld at me. And well her and her bf broke up because she lied to him and i guess there was more to the story so yea.....anyways so now she got allof myfriends agenst me for some stupid reason and i dont even know what i did to the rest of them....Do you guys think i made the rigth choice by going to her boyfriend and not teacher because she would be grounded for the rest of her life if her parents found out..... so what can i do to get my friends back..
PLEASE HELP PLEASE
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Dont get in her business let her tell the ppl she wants to know... not you.. its her prob not yours
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I know, I know, this is going to sound really harsh, but you need to tell their parents. Even if they do get grounded, they will thank you later that their parents made them stop. I really do feel for anyone that has to go through something like this because my cuz had to go through this to. Your friend shouldn't have yelled at you for telling her b/f. He needed to know. IF you didn't tell him, he would have found out the hard way (which would have been bad!). She also shoudn't have gotten all your friends against you. (This is also sound harsh but,)If those people were really your friends, they wouldn't have turned against you. Hope this helps some!
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i think you did the right thing..well you were just trying to help her..drugs are really bad..she has no reason to turn ur friends on you..you were just trying to help..so talk to ur friends and explain what happened..hope i helped!
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No, I for one don't think you made the right choice. She should have been the one to tell her boyfriend. That totally screwed up their relationship. I can definitely understand her anger. I completely agree with Dr.Anqel. You need to talk to some of your friends and try to figure out why they're mad at you. Then explain yourself and then I'm sure they'll start to forgive you. A lot of anger is spread from miscommunication.
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you absolutly did the right thing, and sooner or later your friend will realize that. she's just angry at the fact that you told on her, though maybe you might have wanted to talk to her first and just give her a small warning as to what you would do if she didn't stop. she'll get over it, as for your other friends if you didn't do anything to them then you've got nothing to worry about, they are just being sheep, keep your head up and just stay positive
*~*shan*~*
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yeah! you did the right thing!. Ok well first of all theyre not your real friends because they got all pissed off when you were trying to help! Start hanging out with other people sooner or later theyll realize what they did. GooD luck!
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Well I've had friends like that before and we're not friends anymore because they made poor decisions. If I were you... I would find people like yourself to be friends with. You have a good head on your shoulders and I'm glad.. just find better people to hang out with. You'll be so much happier that way. And don't even worry about those other "friends". They obviously not very good friends if they cant see that you care about them and dont want them doing bad things. -hope this helps!-
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i personally think that you should beg for your friends forgiveness, because you really shouldve talked to HER first and foremost, if she wasnt going to listen to you, then you should tell someone like a school counselor, dont do anything to get her in trouble, but since you've already made that mistake, the most important thing is to talk to your friend and try to straighten things out, let her know that your only looking out for her, but remember, she wont stop just because you tell her to, just maybe talk her into cutting it down a little, if she absolutely refuses everything you suggest, then go to a higher authority, like a school counselor, hope i helped: good luck! -Angel
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