ok well my mom is a slut and always sleeps with guys she meets online. she never spends time with her kids and whenever we try to talk to her about it she gets all kissy kissy and does it all over again. she stays out until 7 pm to 3 am and comes home with dumb lame and unbelievable excuses. we really need help from someone because she is going to end up hurting herself as well as her kids. please help!
lildesidevil143 answered Thursday December 16 2004, 8:01 pm: well, first you should just tell her to sit down and tell her how you feel, don't be afraid, tell her that he doing this is ruining her reputation and that its hurting her kids too. She might be just wanting someone that can love her but taking it to fast. You should tell her that she needs to slow things down a bit, and spend more time with her children. [ lildesidevil143's advice column | Ask lildesidevil143 A Question ]
KeLsEyS_PaGe answered Tuesday November 30 2004, 9:31 pm: your mom is just wanting to feel love by something that she doesn't have. she probably just doesn't want a relationship, so she goes out and does stuff that will not only affect her but her kids. i think that you should be firm with her and tell her she can't go out. stand strong and don't let her bring you down...good luck! [ KeLsEyS_PaGe's advice column | Ask KeLsEyS_PaGe A Question ]
Lanie answered Monday November 29 2004, 3:55 pm: Hi,
This sounds like an awful time for you guys. I really think that you need to speak to an adult that you can trust about this one. Do you have any relatives that you could go to, or even a counsellor at school? Maybe they can speak to your mom, as it is possible that your mom has some problems of her own that she's not dealing with very feel. However, what your mom is doing is putting herself at great risk of getting herself into harmful situations and is also putting pressure onto you guys. Although, not everyone is perfect - not even moms'. Maybe she doesn't realise what she's doing is wrong - this behaviour does not mean that she doesn't love her children, but it does mean that she will have to build respect from you all again. You really have to speak to someone about this, as I think that your mom has to be made aware of the consequences of her actions. PLEASE speak to someone about this. Hope everything works out. [ Lanie's advice column | Ask Lanie A Question ]
dinoold answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 4:06 pm: Your mother needs some freaking help. Ok what kind of example is she setting for her kids.
Maybe she has a sexual addiction ..if so she needs to go see a counselor and find out why she sleeps around..
As far as staying alone at night..do you know that department of social services can TAKE all of you away??? She abandons you..to go meet men?/
i am so sorry..I am a mother and i do not even go out at night as I would NOT want to leave my kids for any reason....YOU come first...as a child..you all COME first
Any adult who does what she does needs SERIOUS help...screwomg around wiht people on the net is not only dangerous..but could kill her..hello AIDS anyone..
MedicatedSanity answered Monday November 22 2004, 5:27 pm: dude... live with your dad? ehhh maybe if you ever get into a fight with her you could yell at her that she's a slut... then say "oh I was just mad." Then she will forgive you and at the same time think about how she's been sleeping with so many guys. [ MedicatedSanity's advice column | Ask MedicatedSanity A Question ]
confusedbabii answered Sunday November 21 2004, 1:01 pm: you need to get someone from social services or whatever that place is. i think she needs to go to rehab. not to sound mean but you never know, one night she may never come back. if you need to talk to someone, im me on sxybellydancer91,k?
i don't want you or your siblings to get hurt because of your mother. hope i helped!
JJbear answered Sunday November 21 2004, 12:24 pm: ypur mom is problet sad about your dad what happened to your dad? you just have to sit her down and look her straught in the yey and tell her jow you fell. leave little notes telling her that you love her and try not to let her out of the house. [ JJbear's advice column | Ask JJbear A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Sunday November 21 2004, 1:26 am: Keep on getting on her case about it. Show her what it's like for you to see her like this. Drill it through her head what type of person she's becoming. Call her on her lies. If she still doesn't change, you'll have to get professional help. This lifestyle isn't healthy at all, let alone when you're raising children. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
punkchick767 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 1:21 am: wow..that really seems like a problem..try talkin to a school counselor or whoever..maybe you should try talkin to your mom and tell her how you feel.or talk to child protective services if it gets out of hand [ punkchick767's advice column | Ask punkchick767 A Question ]
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