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i dont like you. (link)
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why don't you like me??? i haven't done anything to hurt you in anyway!
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I have this really weird fear of phones, I don't know why it is because I'm naturally a very outgoing person and talking to people in public is just fine and dandy, but when I dial somebody's number my heart starts racing and I get all tongue-tied and start blushing. This is really bad considering I have a boyfriend and I believe that communication is key in every relationship. It's especially bad because his phone clicks over to answering machine after two rings so that they can know who it is, and I have a tendency to ramble when I'm on an answering machine. Is there any way I can get over this? I REALLY need to! (link)
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haha...i'm sorry i think thats really funny. dont worry i used to have the same problem but i fixed it! i stopped leaving a message or just said hey *name* its... call me back! and then hung up! so don't worry everything will work out! i promise!
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i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say? (link)
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i think that you should. just go up to her and appologize and tell her that what you said you shouldn't have said it. maybe she was right. maybe ya'll might just be friends forever! you can always tell who your real friends are when they stand right next to you through thick and then
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I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice? (link)
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don't feel bad. i never had a boyfriend till 9th grade. and now i'm in 10th. its not that big of a deal, and heres a little secret. having a boyfriend isn't really the best thing in the world. in a way their kinda like another set of parents that you can make out with. and you have to put up with their little timper tantroms. i wish that i hadn't started dating till i was older, but times have changed. don't try to be all on them cause then they'll start to thing your trash. and also...don't pursue the guy, let them come after you. it makes them feel more te! good luck!
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i am having a birthday party so0o0on wat r good pary ideas? i am turning 14 (link)
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you can always through like a lual...(the hawaiian kind) or just something fun!
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There was a kid in our school who was 14 and he died. Many Ppl knew him so our school has this big assembly, we didn't have to go to class for weeks, we didn't have to do any work or anything like that. 6 months after that when one of my Verry close friends died, it was like the teachers and schoolboard didn't even care. My mom told them my friend and i were upset that there was nothing for him..no assembly..and a ton of work. it wasnt fair.. They told my mom they weren't going to do anything because "nobody signed a sign we made" but 100's of kids signed it! its bullshit! and its not fair.. what can i say to the school people to make them at least have an optinal assembly! (link)
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its really upsetting when someone gets one thing, but someone else doesn't get the same privillages. your schoolboard isn't the only thing that holding you and everyone else back. you have to be in school for a certain amount of days and hours. if your not you have to go to school instead of having your summer. i think that the schoolboard gave you to many days in the first place. i no that you and your friends are very sad, and i'm sure that this is not the things you want to here, but just tell you schoolboard what you feel from your heart and don't say that it isn't fair cause then it really isn't going to happen.
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My friend always cuts himself on his wrists and throat n evrything.. i always try talking to him and he say's he'll stop.. but he keeps doing it and cutting himself more. I don't know what els to do..if he has nobody to talk to he might kill himself..but what can i say that he might actually listen to!? (link)
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talk to him. don't let go of him. ask him why he does it and tell him that if he does it, it will not only ruin his future, but his life. people may seem like they are rude and impatient, but if you just talk to him and don't let him go. i hope that this will help you! Good luck!
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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!? (link)
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People just aren't as accepting about his lifestyle as other people. So what he is gay. Don't let them take advantage of you and your brother just because of his path he has chosen. When people do make fun of you, just smile and tell them well at least he isn't as immature as you. and then just simply walk away. Avoiding it is also another opption. Good Luck!
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ok well my mom is a slut and always sleeps with guys she meets online. she never spends time with her kids and whenever we try to talk to her about it she gets all kissy kissy and does it all over again. she stays out until 7 pm to 3 am and comes home with dumb lame and unbelievable excuses. we really need help from someone because she is going to end up hurting herself as well as her kids. please help! (link)
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your mom is just wanting to feel love by something that she doesn't have. she probably just doesn't want a relationship, so she goes out and does stuff that will not only affect her but her kids. i think that you should be firm with her and tell her she can't go out. stand strong and don't let her bring you down...good luck!
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my friend ( i just found out ) hasnt eaten in 3 days....we think she is trying 2 become anerexic...even though she is really skinny....she said she cuts herself 2...me and my friend malerie dont no wat we can do 2 help her....i offer her food but she doesnt take it....and she always seems depressed (link)
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don't abandon her. something is wrong that she just can't cope with. help her and pray for her. it seems she is headed down a dark rode, tell her that she means so much to you and express to her that what she is doing can really hurt her future, her family, her friends, and her relationships. don't lose faith in her
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I have been cutting myself for a while now. My best friend Dylan knows about it and he wants to me stop. It is very hard to stop doing because it is addicting. Dylan and I got in a big fight last friday because he found out the night before I slit the crap outts my arms. He cares about me alot but I honestly dont want him to care. He always tells me that he loves me and I tell him not too. I hate when he tells me he loves me bc he only loves me as a friend and I wish that he loved me as more. I am in love with him. He hung up on me last friday and it is monday and we havent talked since. IDK what to do. Is he gonna stick by me through these times of pain or abandon me. If I love him should I stop doing what I have been doing and try to get some help. PLZ help me! (link)
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i honestly don't relly know what to say, but i can tell you this i think that maybe he does really love you and you just don't want him to take the time to tell you that. you really should stop. not only for you, but also for your friends and your family. you never no what kind of oppertunities you will have in the future, so don't hurt yourself.
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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um... i don't really think that you will be, but it never hurts to take a pregnancy test.
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Hey there. Um ... I can't take a test until next week to see if i'm pregnant or not, but i'm a little anxious. What are some signs you should watch for if you are in fact, pregnant. Some things I've experienced in the last week is not having any energy, very sore boobs, body aches, stomach has been bothering me, and i'm just very ... tender. Also, my boyfriend and me had sex last night, and after my lower back and lower stomach pained. Advice please! (link)
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if you do skip your period then that is one sign. if that is your boyfriend and you find out your not pregnant than you need to ask for a test to make sure that you don't have a type of STD. good luck and i hope everything comes out ok
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HI,
Here's the story. I met a guy online from some site and we met up with eachother but only once. Hes a great guy and when we met, It didnt go well but regardless of that we decided to continue with this and see where it goes in the future knowing fully well that it may end badly considering hes Bengali and his folks want a Bengali girl but he said u never know so I didnt give up hope. hes from Montreal, we started calling eachohter and talking etc.. then all of a sudden I dont hear anything from him etc. and then I contact his friend. and it continues from there.
I have been contacting his friend regarding THE GUY.. and he said that when he tried talking to him he didnt want to talk about it. I don't understand why he would act like that. I have been nothing but nice to him. Yes, I've been a bit crazy with the emails and stuff..asking him what is the status of our relationship. But that was in the past. You would think that knowing what I have done that he would be more accepting. He emailed me once and told me this: You don't need to worry about me too much. I have some family issues that I need to deal with. I will talk to u later. and after that I got no response. Those messages I sent were before he sent that message to me. I don't understand why hes got to be soo secretive that he can't even share things with me.. His friend tells me: Do you think you should hold on to him especially if hes not responding to you? I don't really know what to do.. its hard lettting go.. especially whenever I hear from his friend. I somehow subconciously beleive that there is hope when I hear from his friend.. I dunno. I think im crazy.. wat do I do? pls help
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you met him online. don't get to caught up with him. if you really want to get over him then go to a local church or something and get involved if you already aren't i'm sure that you will find someone who is really worth holding onto
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Hi! I'm Matt and I live in chicago! I just went to the movies with a few friends and I saw this girl who I used to have been MAJORLY crushin on her. Well, she was getting me super jealous by talking bout her friends and how cool THEY were and how hot THEY were! Not girl/friends but guys! That I knew! She seems to also be ignoring me kind of. Well, we dont go to the same schools and were about the same age. How can I get her to notice me and like me? By the way I think shes soo beautiful, funny, and when she talks to me nice. (link)
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ok so your crushin on her majorly? well don't just force yourself on her. be yourself. if she can't see that you are a wonderful cool person then she is missing out. dont get jealous cause more than likely it isn't true!
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I'm a 14 female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. His reason was he wanted to concertrate on school and didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse! After we broke up we still talked for another week and we were supossdely going to get back together but never did because one day I called him and he was a totall jerk to me and he started to ignore me for a whole week. Whenever we saw each other we would give hugs and say hey. He still knew I had feelings for him. The next day at school I found out that he made out with some other girl. He knew I found out and we haven't talked since. Even though what he did was totally wrong I still love him, but I don't know how he feels about me and I'm not gonna go chase after him. I don't know if I should wait and find out if he has the same feelings about me as I do about him or should I just try to move on? Any advice?? Thanks! (link)
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keep on going. he may still no that you like him, but if you just play hard to get. dont' get all ty and try to win him back, because then it will lead into things with him and other guys. if you really "love" him then you will no just what to do
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I know I've seen a question similar to this before, but I haven't been able to find it. So, I'll just ask it again. I'm usually have my period anywhere in between 21 and 28 days. Well, I'm a bad, stupid little girl and I forgot to mark my last one down on a calendar. I'm pretty sure the last time I had mine was on November 2, but I'm not sure. That would make today Day 27 if I'm right about the last one ending on November 2. I'm still kind of nervous about it though. I've never -- well, I have once -- missed a period. I'm a 13 (nearly 14) year old virgin female. Is this normal? I've had my period for about two years. (link)
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yes its very normal. expecially whenever your first starting you will skip. if your still a virgin then don't be nervous or anything. another thing that makes it skip is if your very active. meaning if your into sports and stuff like that. that can also make it skip!
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My mom is very overprotective & strict. I'm 15 years old and can barely even go out with friends. She worries about me because I do have "bad" friends who are into drugs, alcohol, trouble, etc. I think she should trust me more because I have never done any of these things and I don't give into peer pressure. She doesn't even allow me to get into a car with anyone. She has some points in her argument, but I know how to stay safe and what not to do. I'm a teenager and I want to have fun right now. How do I explain this to her and get her to allow me to do more things? She's just mostly worried that I'll get hurt or something bad will happen to me. (link)
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if she doesn't like your friends its for a reason. don't have a grudge on your mom for being overprotective. she loves you and just doens't want you to get hurt. she knows about your friends and doesn't want you to give in to stuff like that. maybe you should make friends that don't do stuff like that and then she will give in!
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my best friend is a guy that i have always kinda had feeelings for. i want to get him a christmas present that shows him i care but doesnt drive him away. he is really important to me and my family, and i want to show him that. if i ruin it ill never live it down, he is truly one of a kind. any suggestions? (link)
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i don't think that you getting him a present will scare him away. just don't get him something that says i love you or anything musshy like that. i'm sure that he will find it very uplifting!
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Hey, I need, some help, all the time i get this achy feeling, i never have any thing to do. it seems like all my friends are slipping away from me. My mom is all stressed out, and i can't get anyone to listen to me. My ; classes used to be easy, but now they are hard. I'm sooo confused, please, what should i do?!?!
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well if you don't have anything to do, then take that time and study. you say that your grades are getting harder and your friends are slipping away. don't let little things like that pull you down. so your mom is stressed out! don't do things to make it worse. if you come home before she does, then make dinner or clean the house. just let her know you love her and that you'll do whatever she needs you to do! good luck
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