I'm a 14 female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. His reason was he wanted to concertrate on school and didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse! After we broke up we still talked for another week and we were supossdely going to get back together but never did because one day I called him and he was a totall jerk to me and he started to ignore me for a whole week. Whenever we saw each other we would give hugs and say hey. He still knew I had feelings for him. The next day at school I found out that he made out with some other girl. He knew I found out and we haven't talked since. Even though what he did was totally wrong I still love him, but I don't know how he feels about me and I'm not gonna go chase after him. I don't know if I should wait and find out if he has the same feelings about me as I do about him or should I just try to move on? Any advice?? Thanks!
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russianspy1234 answered Tuesday November 30 2004, 1:18 am: yeah sorry i had the same thing happen to me, it is jsut an excuse. i suggest getting over him and miving on, it will be hard but you shouldnt waste your life on some jerk. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
ciara answered Monday November 29 2004, 10:43 pm: gurl you can do better. guys are like that they use the stupidest excuses to get out of a relationship and then they move on. oh well 4get about him and move on and sweetie you are gonna feel like this for a while and i know it sucks. this one guy told me he didnt want a girlfriend and then he went out with another girl the same day as he broke up with me and i have liked him for a long time even though we didnt go out for that long. well all guys are gonna do it sweetie so get ready for a lifetime of hurt so guard your heart well and try to keep away from guys that are gonna hurt you!hope u feel better!!! [ ciara's advice column | Ask ciara A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Monday November 29 2004, 6:10 pm: sounds like my story...
but i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. tell him how much it hurt you then decide whether you need to move on or what. if he does apoligize and tell you hes sorry and stuff then go for it - ask him if he wants to go out again. hope this helped and hope everything works out for you. ~stef~ [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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