I AM A 13 YEAR OLD GURL WHO IS ALWAYS LOOKING TO GIVE SOMEONE ADVICE. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE OUT WITH THEIR EVERYDAY PROBLEMS. I AM AN AQUARIUS. MY B-DAY IS FEBRUARY 4. I LIVE IN NORTH HIGHLANDS, CALIFORNIA AND I LIVE WITH MY MOM. I HAVE 3 SISTAS AND 1 BROTHER. I HAVE ONE OLDER SISTA AND SHE IS ON THIS WEBSITE AND HAS AN ADVICE COLUMN TOO! SO NO QUESTION IS TOO STUPID FOR ME TO ANSWER SO DROP ME A LINE AND ILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU OUT.XOXOXOXO
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i was with this guy almost 3 months ago and i luved him a lot but he broke up with me 3 days after valentines which broke my heart. he told me if was becuase he was getting bad grades but i didnt belive him so i had my best friend which is one of his ex ask him y he broke up with me and it turns out he got with me to make my friend jelous. im still friends with her but i just cant get over wut he did plz tell me ways i can get over this situation (link)
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girl i just had the same thing done to me so i know how it feels ok i really loved this guy and i cut my wrists and everything over him and he still cheated on me and lied and hella used me so im sorry but there is someone better just remember that ok you deserve way better than someone like that asshole ok so im so sorry for you but you won ok youll see in the end ok if you ever need to talk i am here for you ok my # is 916-470-1599. ok so call me if you need to ok peace out!
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How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is. (link)
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Just talk to him about it and see what he wants because thats the only way to know for sure.ok and you should never be afraid to talk to him about it because that just says you feel like you cant trust him which is bad ok so just straight up ask him ok.good luck hope i helped you o and drop me a line and tell me wat happens k peace out!
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actually it has recently got a bit more tough than that he has booked a one way ticket to barbados and he may or not go but in the meen time we both keep giving each other false hope ..i think we both love each other but know its got to end , it's so hard though. why do you have to be selfish and a "bitch" to get over someone. i know 10 years is a long time but something has got to give. (link)
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o well i know sweetie but ya know its gotta happen i know i really know how you feel and it is hard but you ave to move on becuz there is a guy that will treat you a whole lot better i know becuz i have moved on and have a better boyfriend now who will treat me right so its up to you its yr life just make the right choice and ya know remember that you dont have to settle wit anything you could have anyone you want if you want that person that bad well hope i helped sweetie later
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i have been seeing someone on /off for the last ten years . recently moved out because the depts are way to much for me, i know he cheats on me so why do i feel like i cant move on??? (link)
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well i was just in the same situation recently and i cut myself over the guy and everything but he cheated on me once and because i was in love i took him back. but everyone kept telling me that he was cheating on me and even though i belived it i tried not to let it show. But you have to thinnk about what is right for you and just do what you think is right if you wanna move on then move on but if you still wanna be wit him then you both have to make it work good luck hope i helped!!!!
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First of all, me and this guy have been best friends for 4 years and have hooked up once. When I first met him, he had a g/f but that only lasted a month, and now he is back with her and they have been together for 4 months. Then me and him are together, we get along so good and I really like him. I think he feels the same way about me too because of how he looks at me at times and how when he talks to me and gentely rest his hand on my when he talks. Its burning me up inside because of how I feel about him and he has a g/f. I wanted your advice whether I should tell him how I feel. But I'm affraid that it might ruin our friendship if I do and he will feel akwared about being around me after. What should I do, just wait and see how things go with them or tell him how I feel and may lose his friendship because of it? I dunno what I should do. I think his relationship now is going pretty good and getting serious. (link)
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ok well let me tell you that i know all about what you are going thru becuz i was just in a situation like this ok me and this guy named tony were friends and we were like best friends and i had found out that he liked me well i felt the same way about him so then we started going out and we were going very well but then we hit a very big bump when he cheated on me wit my best friend and i dumped him but being in love i took him back then now i just broke up wit him for good and idk if we are still friends becuz he says he still loves me and he wants me back but idk whats gonna happen so just do what your heart feels like doing and tell him i am pretty sure he feels the same way about you so go for it girl peace out
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Me and my friends, (L), (S), and (E) are planning to perform in a lipsync. The song (S) picked out is highly innapropriate!! We all agree except her. We still haven't told her. We don't want to hurt her so what do we do?? I rate high!!! (link)
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well just tell her ok how bad could she take it yr only telling her how u feel and she shouold accept it if she really is a friend so good luck peace out
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ok, im 15/f and i think i like one of my really good guy friends. he flirts with me all the time in math or atleast it seems like he does..one of my really good friends cant believe i like him..what do i do cause i dont know if i can talk myself out of liking him like i do a lot. please help!! (link)
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ok well what i think you should do is u should just talk to him over the phone and see if u still like him like that so good luck peace out
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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that? (link)
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i would feel really special if my boyfriend told me i was beautiful and bought me stuff like a bracelet with his name on it and i got him a bracelet with my name on it and we were always wearing them. its not the stuff thqt they buy that matters to me its just the thought that matters to me. i just want to be able to tell people that i am going out with this guy and then show them what he got me and everyone would say aww he is so sweet.every gurl wants a boyfriend like that.hope i helped and drop me a line and tell me how it goes!!!!
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i am being forced to move from my home in texas, to the cold and mean streets of chicago. my mother got a new job, and she is carting me up there in february. however, my father lives here in tecas. i have the oppurtunity to live with him, but i never have, and we arent very compatible. should i go with my mom, or stay with my dad? (link)
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i think that you should go with your mom who knows you might just like it and plus she doesnt want to go there and live by herslf. so you need to be there for her and help her out. you are her daughter. so think about it.
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Hey, I'm stuck in this bad situation. I like two guys. Well, one guy I like is really sexual, like I've never done anything with him, of course since I'm only 14.. And the other guy well hes like great, he always calls me beautiful and really cares for me but always says that I like the other guy. Who would you choose? I think I have an idea, but I'm not so sure. Thanks! (link)
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okay well i would choose the one who is always telling you that you are beautiful and stuff. they are usually the ones that you have a long lating relationship with.the other guy if he is very sexual then thatr means that that is alll he is gonna want and he doesnt care about who it is with. he dont care about who likes hi just as long as he gets what he wants. so just thnk long and hard about it and u do the math!!!
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I've been tring to use a Neutrogena deep pore cleanser when I take a shower to keep my skin looking good. When I put it on my face, it feels normal. After maybe 20-30 seconds it begins to burn to the point where I have to wash it off. I don't know if it's because I'm doing something wrong, or if that is supposed to happen because it's cleaning out my pores. Does anyone know why this is happening? Thanks alot! (link)
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it is cleaning out your pores that is completley normal. dont worry its working fine just the way it is supposed to and ill bet your face looks really good now since its working so good!!!!bye!!
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Hi! I'm Matt and I live in chicago! I just went to the movies with a few friends and I saw this girl who I used to have been MAJORLY crushin on her. Well, she was getting me super jealous by talking bout her friends and how cool THEY were and how hot THEY were! Not girl/friends but guys! That I knew! She seems to also be ignoring me kind of. Well, we dont go to the same schools and were about the same age. How can I get her to notice me and like me? By the way I think shes soo beautiful, funny, and when she talks to me nice. (link)
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well take it from my hon i am a gurl myself, i think she is trying to make you jealous on purpose. dont let her get to you she is also playin hard to get.. you need to spend some alone time with eachother. then you can maybe feel the vibes she is givin you. i can tell she likes you. does she know you?if she does she probably likes you. so spend some time around her and talk to her. then when you are convinced that she likes you ask her out.
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I'm a 14 female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. His reason was he wanted to concertrate on school and didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse! After we broke up we still talked for another week and we were supossdely going to get back together but never did because one day I called him and he was a totall jerk to me and he started to ignore me for a whole week. Whenever we saw each other we would give hugs and say hey. He still knew I had feelings for him. The next day at school I found out that he made out with some other girl. He knew I found out and we haven't talked since. Even though what he did was totally wrong I still love him, but I don't know how he feels about me and I'm not gonna go chase after him. I don't know if I should wait and find out if he has the same feelings about me as I do about him or should I just try to move on? Any advice?? Thanks! (link)
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gurl you can do better. guys are like that they use the stupidest excuses to get out of a relationship and then they move on. oh well 4get about him and move on and sweetie you are gonna feel like this for a while and i know it sucks. this one guy told me he didnt want a girlfriend and then he went out with another girl the same day as he broke up with me and i have liked him for a long time even though we didnt go out for that long. well all guys are gonna do it sweetie so get ready for a lifetime of hurt so guard your heart well and try to keep away from guys that are gonna hurt you!hope u feel better!!!
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HI,
Here's the story. I met a guy online from some site and we met up with eachother but only once. Hes a great guy and when we met, It didnt go well but regardless of that we decided to continue with this and see where it goes in the future knowing fully well that it may end badly considering hes Bengali and his folks want a Bengali girl but he said u never know so I didnt give up hope. hes from Montreal, we started calling eachohter and talking etc.. then all of a sudden I dont hear anything from him etc. and then I contact his friend. and it continues from there.
I have been contacting his friend regarding THE GUY.. and he said that when he tried talking to him he didnt want to talk about it. I don't understand why he would act like that. I have been nothing but nice to him. Yes, I've been a bit crazy with the emails and stuff..asking him what is the status of our relationship. But that was in the past. You would think that knowing what I have done that he would be more accepting. He emailed me once and told me this: You don't need to worry about me too much. I have some family issues that I need to deal with. I will talk to u later. and after that I got no response. Those messages I sent were before he sent that message to me. I don't understand why hes got to be soo secretive that he can't even share things with me.. His friend tells me: Do you think you should hold on to him especially if hes not responding to you? I don't really know what to do.. its hard lettting go.. especially whenever I hear from his friend. I somehow subconciously beleive that there is hope when I hear from his friend.. I dunno. I think im crazy.. wat do I do? pls help
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okay well maybe his mom or dad just lost someone in his family and maybe he needs to be there for his parents or he is going through a really rough time right now!so just leave him alone for a while and he will respond to you if he really likes you. if he doesnt then i guess it wasnt meant to be. i know that sounds weird but still it makes sense. so when he is ready he will do what he feels like doing until then leave him alone!!!
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I have been cutting myself for a while now. My best friend Dylan knows about it and he wants to me stop. It is very hard to stop doing because it is addicting. Dylan and I got in a big fight last friday because he found out the night before I slit the crap outts my arms. He cares about me alot but I honestly dont want him to care. He always tells me that he loves me and I tell him not too. I hate when he tells me he loves me bc he only loves me as a friend and I wish that he loved me as more. I am in love with him. He hung up on me last friday and it is monday and we havent talked since. IDK what to do. Is he gonna stick by me through these times of pain or abandon me. If I love him should I stop doing what I have been doing and try to get some help. PLZ help me! (link)
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okay well this guy oviously really loves you and you should stop.if not for him then for yourself.its very dangerous and you should try to get some help!!!its very hard to quit i know but you need to stop and if you dont then you will kill yourself if you lose enough blood.stop!!!there are other ways to deal with stress and pain. so talk to this guy and tell him how you feel and see what he says who knows it might all work out the way you want it to!!
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my really good friend just called me and her cousin goes to my boyfriends sschool and she said her cousin said that MY BOYFRIEND HAS TWO OTHER GIRLFRIENDS........and that she seen him kissing on girls and stuff...... im so upset i dont know what to do..i was just on the phone with my boyfriend and he was like i love you so much and i was like i love you too and he was like no i love you more...hes so sweet i cant believe this....what do i do?? IM GOING TO CALL HIM UP BUT IM SO UPSET IM CRYING AND WHAT DO I SAY...=( oh my god...hes the only good thing in my life....this is aweful PLEASE HELP (link)
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okay well i think you should confront him about it and maybe he is just talking sweetly to you is so he thinks that you wont find out. you need to go talk to him about it and if he doesnt give you a straight answer then dump him cuz he oviously isnt worth it so you need to get someone who will treat you better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do? (link)
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well just tell him that you want to watch a movie or something with him and if he keeps trying to kiss you then you need to tell him you want to watch the movie and if he gets mad or pouts about it then he oviously doesnt care about you srry but its probably true and if he gets mad then dump him because then you dont get hurt so and he will realize that he screwed up and will come back to you admiting he made a mistake
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I've been talking to this guy for the past month. We've gone to the movies and to some basketball games. I am really starting to like him and i think he likes me back. Well even though we have gone out together we havent really talked about being boyfriend and girlfriend. I asked him what he thought we were friends or more, and he said he wants to be more, but that really is as far as we took it. I brought it up again a couple of days later and he asked me what he thinks we should be and i said i wasnt sure. Well i've been thinking and i really want him to be my boyfriend. We dont go to the same school right now but we will be in 4 weeks. What should i do, ask him to be my boyfriend now or wait untill we start school together? If i do ask him to be my boyfriend now how should i do it??? Please help!!!! (link)
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okay you should just tell him that you really like him and that you guys should hook up and go out and then when you start school then you will be together and you guys can walk don the hall holding hands and be together during lunch and you guys can be comfortable being around eachother because you know how couples get like the first few days of their relationship they are all quiet around eachother. so hook up and go out you guys sound so cute together already!!!
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me and my bf got in a big fight on wednesday....and i hung up on him and everything he hasnt called me or got online since then and im not gonna call him bc it was his fault that we had the fight...how long should i give him to call me? i dont wanna wait to long and lose him...but i wanna work it out but let him no im mad....when do u think i should call him n b lyke ok we really need to talk...and blah blah...he usually ALWAYS calls me...but idk he hasnt yet....so how long do i give him? (link)
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TELL HIM EITHER HE NEEDS TO TALK TO YOU OR YOU GUYS NEED TO BREAK UP LET HIM KNMOW WHO WEARS THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND THAT WOULD BE(HOPEFULLY)YOU!!!! GURLS NEED TO TAKE CONTROL NOT ALL THE TIME BUT MOST OF THE TIME. JUST ASK HIM WHY HE NEVER CALLED YOU BACK AND JSU START HAVING FUN AND JUST FROGET THE WHOLE THING EVER HAPPENED. THEN IF HE ASKS YOU Y YOU ARE IN SUCH A GOOD MOOD JUST SAY Y WOULDNT I BE AND YOU JUST MIGHT GET HIM TO ADMIT SOMETHING!!!!
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Okay, its like this..
I really like this guy (Mike)- & well..he likes me too. Theres this party coming up in a couple of days and its like a huge party.. he told me he wants to get with me there - but thats just the good news.
One of my best friends (Laura) likes him..shes liked him for a long time..but shes the type that likes almost like everybody. Well, she told me that she doesnt like him that much anymore..but I just KNOW she still likes him. I really want to go out with him but I know she'll probably never forgive me. but shes not really a good friend but i know that ill feel horrible if i go out with him..i also wanna get with him but i dont want her to find out..
so can someone help me by giving me ideas of how to go out with him/get with him with out makin my friend mad?
(sorry its so long)
xoxoo (link)
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WELL YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR FRIEND THE TRUTH AND IF SHE GETS MAD AT YOU THEN SHE IS REALLY NOT WORTH IT. SHE NEEDS TO GET OVER IT IF SHE TOLD YOU THAT SHE DOESNT LIKE HIM ANYMORE THEN YOU ARE FREE TO GO OUT WITH HIM. SHE HAS NO SAY IN IT AND IF SHE GETS MAD THEN LIKE YOU SAID SHE IS NOT REALLY A GOOD FRIEND!!!!
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