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I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do?
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ok, what you need to do, is sit down and talk to your boyfriend about what you are comfortable with. if you feel like you are being pressured at anytime you need to let him know. if the only reason he is with you is so that he can get something, then thats not right. if you let him know how you feel and he is ok and understanding about it, then everything will be ok and you wont get hurt. if he is however just with you to get some, then you need to get rid of him before he gets the chance to hurt you.
<3 Jena
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well, you enjoy hugging kissing cuddling...ect, but i also think a good relationship needs communication, so talk to him for christ sake! tell him how you feel and if you have and he hasnt done anything about it, he is not worth your time!!!
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well ask him if he wants to go alittle farther and if he doesn't appreciate it and hope that you guys last along time. and tell him about your past. maybe he will understand and want to help you get out of your curse.
i hope i helped xox manda
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Well communiate to him what has happened to you before and that ure afraid that it might happen again... and if ure wanting more then that and hes not wanting it then you should respect that... but Other then that id sey to communiate with him becuase thats the best way 2 go
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talk to him tell him about your previous relationship and how you don't want it to happen again... again.. communication is the key to trust in a relationship
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well just tell him that you want to watch a movie or something with him and if he keeps trying to kiss you then you need to tell him you want to watch the movie and if he gets mad or pouts about it then he oviously doesnt care about you srry but its probably true and if he gets mad then dump him because then you dont get hurt so and he will realize that he screwed up and will come back to you admiting he made a mistake
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Tell your current boyfriend about your fears. Let him know that you don't want anyone to get hurt, and that you're just a little worried because he seems to have some of the same characteristics as your last relationship. If you tell him that, he can talk to you and assure you that this one will work out better. (Guys are good at that. Trust me.) I had freakout periods when I felt like my current guy was going to break it off or whatever, and I told him I was nervous, and he assure me he wasn't going to - and we're still together over a year later. I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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maybe u could hang out iwth ur friends. i mean do u like doing all this with him cuze if u are ur fine. but its when u dont. if u like it keep doing it but when u feel u want to go out and be free and play tell him or something
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maybe you ahould ask him what his intentions are, maybe end things now so when yall do break up , u wont be hurt....all i can say is to remember that a guy isnt evrything in your life...SORRY BUT UTS TRURE ....maybe this guy isnt like the other one tho, maybe he wants to hold your hand cuz he loves or something...DO WHAT U KNOW IS RIGHT
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want your bf wants from you is normal. but if you are scared about it (because of your ex) then you should talk to him. tell him what happened last time, and that you don't want it to happen to you guys. good luck! hope I helped,
Lauren
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What your boyfriend wants is normal. Every boy wants it. If you aren't ready tell him that and if he understands thats great! If not you may want to reconsider things. If you think this guy will hurt you he's not worth your time. Hope I helped! Good luck!
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u should either tell him tht u want to break up or just take it slow or tlk to him about it.
i was hurt when tht is all i did with a guy it was so cute then just one day he sprung it on me tht he wanted to break and i didnt even no tht we did until 3 days l8er when this gurl says im so srry bout u and xxxxxxxx.
so i wouldnt get too attached because many hearts have benn broken cause the words i love u were spoken.
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..hey just do what ut heartsays do what u feel is right...ur a gurlu have ur own power......
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Well i think you should sit your boyfriend down and talk to him about what he wants to do in your realationship.... sometimes you just have to give him time, maybe he isn't ready for anything more just right now.... i know my boyfriend seems to want to just do the same thing (hug, kiss, hold hands, and cuddle) well it seems that way but you or i won't really know unless we ask and fine out for ourselves! Well keep me updated on whats going on.... Good luck :)
-Katie-
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As for your question, talk to your boyfriend. Maybe he's just shy about going further, or wants to be absolutely certain that you're okay with doing new things before he tries anything. If you reassure your boyfriend that you're happy but would like to try new things, I'm sure he'll open up a bit more: honesty and communication go a huge way in relationships. Good luck.
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Well, your boyfriend could just be a very affectionate person. OR, he could just be using you. Try talking to him more and do fun things with him and if he isn't willing to spend less time being touchy feely then talk to him. Explain that you want more out of a relationship than just the passion. If he doesn't want to spend more time getting to know each other more, talking, having fun and stuff then maybe you too aren't meant to be.
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