Question Posted Saturday November 27 2004, 4:27 am
Um, theres this guy at my skool (he's yr10, I'm yr8) and I wrote him a letter letting him know my feelings. He got it, and read it in private as i requested. 2 days l8er, my woodwork teacher said he takes this guy 4 metalwork and he heard about the note. My teacher asked the guy if he was interested and he said yes-i was thrilled. But then he started giving me little smiles and waves and stuff, and my m8s said he kept looking at me when i wasnt looking (ironic-i was doing the same!). Now he has finished school 4 the yr, as yr 10 finishes 2wks before yr 8's do. He has gone 2 the Sunshine Coast-without leaving a response. I dunno if he IS really interested or not, and i dont wanna let myself be hurt, yet i cant stop thinking about him!! Im infatuated, and evry1 says hes shy, but im not sure. Help!! xoxo Shadow
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CoffeeBeanz answered Monday November 29 2004, 10:40 am: Hey, you know, when i read your question, i felt like i was reading a question i would have asked three months ago. I am in Year 9, and, three months ago, this guy was in Yr 11. I wanted him to know that i liked him, but, instead of sending a letter with my name on it, i wrote anonoymous notes (cowardly, i know, but he is like this ultra-popular guy!). He found out it was me though, because one day, i suddenly found a note in my locker saying that someone wanted to see me after school at the local restaurant, and, when i went there, BAM, there he was! He told me that he liked me too, and now we are going out! I had to wait FOUR MONTHS before he finally answered me; i think, from the information you have given me, that you have not had to wait as long. My advice to you is... HANG IN THERE. If you think he is really worth it, then wait on. [ CoffeeBeanz's advice column | Ask CoffeeBeanz A Question ]
CrimsonAngel answered Saturday November 27 2004, 12:51 pm: the fact that he's giving you little smiles and everything is a definate good sign. Also the fact that he keeps looking at you when your not looking. He definately likes you. If he's shy it may take a little bit to actually get the courage to confront you about it. I think next time you see him and he's alone that you should walk over and start a conversation with him and see what happens. [ CrimsonAngel's advice column | Ask CrimsonAngel A Question ]
lauren3 answered Saturday November 27 2004, 12:09 pm: if this guy has been smiling and waving at you that is a good thing. you should try talking to him about it, and see what he says.
Hope I helped,
Lauren [ lauren3's advice column | Ask lauren3 A Question ]
Texas_Babe_007 answered Saturday November 27 2004, 10:20 am: dear shadow,
if the boy has been lookin at u and smileing at u then tht is a good sign,
and u should go for it!
and i do no how it feels to be hurt and it doesnt feel to good but mabe u could also rethink the age and go to a guy more your age.
or just be happy with this one,
id say to get to know him and then mabe just mabe one day would hook up. [ Texas_Babe_007's advice column | Ask Texas_Babe_007 A Question ]
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