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Ok..theres this guy that likes me and we aren't going out but we have been friends for a while now..well he asked me to go to a movie with him and I said no because I had to go Christmas shopping but my friends asked me what my answer was and I told them and thats how he found out I guess but I don't know if they told him about shopping and now hes mad because I said no and I have no idea why unless he doesn't know the reason why I said no!What do I do? (link)
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I say that you should tell him why you couldn't go and see how he reacts. If he says he already knew then ask what his problem. If he didn't know he should cool off and understand.
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hey thanx for the advice you helped me out a lot most of the people told me to kill my baby and dont get married to him and i cant do that i cant kill a baby that didn't do anything wrong i just cant do it and my dad said that if i marry him then he will want nothing to do with me ever again and i cant have that so im kinda stuck right here in the middle between someone i love and my dad and parents so can you help me out on this one please i would really appriciate that
Much Luv
Tosha (link)
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I really think you should get married to him. You want your baby to grow up having both parents there for them right? You dad'll get over it in time. He won't stay mad at you forever. In time he'll forgive you and see that it was all for the best.
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okay...well thier is this guy i that i really like. alot of people like him too! should i go for it or just forget about it? (link)
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i think you should go for it. You never know if you don't try.
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theres this really cool guy that i met. i talk to him all the time and we talk for hours on end. i talk to him more then i talk to my boyfriend! my friend doesnt like my boy friend thou and i was talking to him the other day and he was like "y dont you dump him? you can do alot better" and then he said "and you can get a guy sooner then you think". he flirts with me alot. would you say he likes me? i dont really know if i like him thou. (link)
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from what you said that he says i think that he definately likes you. and i agree with what he said. if you talk to him more than your b/f then you should probably be with him because he probably knows you better than your b/f. it might be better to just be friends with your b/f.
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Okay, its like this..
I really like this guy (Mike)- & well..he likes me too. Theres this party coming up in a couple of days and its like a huge party.. he told me he wants to get with me there - but thats just the good news.
One of my best friends (Laura) likes him..shes liked him for a long time..but shes the type that likes almost like everybody. Well, she told me that she doesnt like him that much anymore..but I just KNOW she still likes him. I really want to go out with him but I know she'll probably never forgive me. but shes not really a good friend but i know that ill feel horrible if i go out with him..i also wanna get with him but i dont want her to find out..
so can someone help me by giving me ideas of how to go out with him/get with him with out makin my friend mad?
(sorry its so long)
xoxoo (link)
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I went through the same thing. I felt bad at first and at first my friend hated me. But she got over it and so did i. now we're still really good friends and i'm still with the same guy.
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i dont know what to do.. ive told this guy that i love him.. and he told me that he loves me back.. but now its like he got a girlfriend when he was drunk.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean he broke up with her already.. but how do i know that he didnt just go out with her cause he still likes her.. i dont want to talk to him about it.. cause i dont want him to be all weird with me.. i havent been talking to him very much.. and he sees me with other guys.. and he thinks im going out with someone.. but i told him that im not.. but maybe he doesnt believe me.. and thats why hes being all weird.. but i dont know what to do.. should i talk to him.. tell him whats going on.. tell him what i feel.. or just let him wait to talk to me.. and what if he doesnt believe me.. what should i do?? (link)
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I think you should definately tell him what going on. if you don't then he's going to keep thinking that your cheating on him or whatever. this way he knows why your not talking to him as much and he'll be able to reasure you that he loves you and everything can go back to normal.
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Ok I want to get a cellphone and I can get one for 20 dollers ( a flip phone ) but thats not the problem the service is. Like its expensive and crap. And we have to pay rent and bills so I dont know how we're or I am gunna be pay for the bill. Do you guys have any suggestions or any servies like cingular or something that has cheap plans. Thanks. (link)
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I think the best thing you could do is save your money and get a pay phone. that way you can decide when you pay and when you buy a card you can activate it onto your phone and get the minutes. that way the bill isn't to high.
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heyy, i started guitar a few months ago and im havin sum truble gettin the really fast, like quarter knotes and 1/2 quarter knotes down i just cant get my hand to go that fast! lol any1 hav any addvice?? (link)
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You have to start out slow and gradually go faster. That way your figures get used to moving in that particualar pattern. Trust me it works, i go through that all the time.
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha (link)
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That's pretty much all dad's. They never think that anyone is good enough for their little girl. If i were you i would marry him. I would want my baby to grow up with two parents, together. I wouldn't want them to have to travel back and forth between the two, and if you love him then i say go for it. Your dad isn't like anyone you bring home so don't let him stand in the way.
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im so shy and quiet sometimes, how do i get myself to be more outgoing around other people, i can get really like that sometimes, but only around my really good friends and stuff. i cant just be hyper around people i dont know, but i want to. (link)
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I used to be just like you so i know exactly what you mean. I think the only cure for this is growing out of it. I'm begining to grow out of and i'm starting to act totally different. I do things i would never normally do, and i love it. Just start to work at it and you'll gradually grow out of it.
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im going out with the best guy ever his name is paul i love him 2 death he calls me almost everyday and i just love everything about him. I dont know if my friend is jealous or just mad. Well my problem is im sick of hearing that my friend says the me n paul are like married just because we hang out we go 2 eachothers houses, go to movies,mall, and friends house's. i mean i think she is jealous bc her bf austin doesnt call her talk 2 her or do anything with her the only thing they have dont together in the 5 months that they have been going out is that they say one movie and saw eachother at a foot ball game well i just want 2 tell my friend 2 shut up bc she's jealsous but i mean i dont want 2 be mean bc she is my friend i just dont know wat to do help me plz (link)
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I think you should confront her about it first and tell her that you really don't like her saying what she says. She should stop, if she doesn't then you need to just tell her straight up. She may be mad at you for a while but she'll get over it.
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ok i have a boyfriend and my old best friend reallllly likes him and i haent talked to her in 3 yrs but still she realllly likes him and i do too but i dnno and heused to like her but now he says he doesnt and i dont hink he does help....... (link)
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if he's with you than i highly doubt that he still likes your friend. I think you should stay with him though even if she does like him. Especially if you haven't talked to her in three years. Love doesn't wait for anyone.
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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if you've been taking b/c for a while and took it the day that you had sex than your probably not pregnant. But it never hurts to be sure, buy and take a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side, even though i don't think your pregnant.
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Um, theres this guy at my skool (he's yr10, I'm yr8) and I wrote him a letter letting him know my feelings. He got it, and read it in private as i requested. 2 days l8er, my woodwork teacher said he takes this guy 4 metalwork and he heard about the note. My teacher asked the guy if he was interested and he said yes-i was thrilled. But then he started giving me little smiles and waves and stuff, and my m8s said he kept looking at me when i wasnt looking (ironic-i was doing the same!). Now he has finished school 4 the yr, as yr 10 finishes 2wks before yr 8's do. He has gone 2 the Sunshine Coast-without leaving a response. I dunno if he IS really interested or not, and i dont wanna let myself be hurt, yet i cant stop thinking about him!! Im infatuated, and evry1 says hes shy, but im not sure. Help!! xoxo Shadow (link)
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the fact that he's giving you little smiles and everything is a definate good sign. Also the fact that he keeps looking at you when your not looking. He definately likes you. If he's shy it may take a little bit to actually get the courage to confront you about it. I think next time you see him and he's alone that you should walk over and start a conversation with him and see what happens.
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pleaz help me, i dont no how much it hurts to get you belly button pirced! pleaz help me... i rate high! (link)
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My friend got her belly button pierced and said that it hurt like hell. But she said it was worth it.
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ok , heres the thing , i got mad at my friend and now shes pissed at me and then i thought i should call her but i got no answer . anyway that part doesnt matter much cuz heres the important part , i got mad at my other friend for like using me to send notes to the many guys she likes cuz i like kno all the guys in my skool . ( or at least in the 7th and 8th grades ) and so the other day she wrote a note to a guy and asked me to give it to him so me and my friends went and like wrote stuff on it like the girls name , phone number and ect. and me and my other friends are going to put it in his band locker . does this make me sound like a bad friend or someone whos really angry ? should i send it or not ? im confused
( and tired from typing all this stuff) please help !!! (link)
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If i were you i'd send it. Maybe she'll learn her lesson and stop using you to send messages.
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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!! (link)
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if i were you i wouldn't be her friend again. I mean she did it once, what's to stop her from doing it again?
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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do. (link)
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I think what happening right now is your just going through a stage in puberty. I know LOTS of chicks that do the same things that you said you do. You should just deal with it. If it gets to bad then you should talk to your doctor. That's what i did and she gave me some medicine for it and i'm not so bad anymore.
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(14/f) Okay, say I really want to see a rated R movie but my mom won't let me.. If I just go to like Walmart or Target to buy it, do they require you to be 17/have an I.D./have parental supervision? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Yes. Sad enough, they do require an id or parental permission. Believe me, i've tried to buy R rated movies. If your parents have like a blockbuster card, then you can go and rent it with their card. You don't have to have and id or be 17 to RENT R rated movies. That's how i get to see them all.
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Ok here is the thing.. this guy at my school likes me right.. but i dont like him. he kept askin me out and i kept sayin no so the other day he wrote me this note and it said i really like u so do u wanna go out with me if u say no i will leave u alone .. and i felt really bad for him cuz he sounded sooo sad so i said yes.. but he keeps callin me and i keep giving him excuses that i cant talk on th phone. . but yesterday he called me and his friend started talkin to me and sakin me questions about him like if i love him or not and i said i dont know then they both got mad at me.. i really want to break up with him but dont know how to put it.. can some one PLEASE help me! (link)
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I know exactly what your going through, it's happened to me before 2. You have to let him know though, you can't let him start getting "attached" to you under false pretenses. I know that you might feel bad about doing it but it has to be done. If you don't he could turn into like some kind of stalker or something, and that's not good.
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