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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!!
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I wouldn't recommend becoming friends, just tell them nicely that you aren't interested.
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If you miss having them around go ahead and say yes. Keep doing stuff with other people though and slowly start trusting your x-best friends again, make them prove that they won't do the same thing to you again.hope i helped..
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if i were you i wouldn't be her friend again. I mean she did it once, what's to stop her from doing it again?
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I don't think that it would be a very good idea to reunite with your x-buddy. Stick with the friends you have now!
(i hope i helped) :)
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ewwww, why would u be friends w/ that jerk when you can become bestest friends with a gay pink bunny
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well it depends if u want to become friends with them. If u don't want to be friends talk to them and maybe say after what u did to me I don't want to be friends anymore. If u do want to become friends again then tell them.
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wel if u sey yes, what do u mean get hurt agian? do u think she would go and hurt you again, if so then find new frineds or something ure freinds are suppsoed to be the ones you can go to not the ones you DONT wanna go to.. I dont think Holding a grude is a smart thing to do ne ways that jus makes it more diffucult! Id jus try hanging out with different people and see how it goes..... hope i helped..
xoxox
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Forgive them. Forgiveness is good for the soul. Unless they're really hurtful peoples, then you shouldn't hang out with them again. But if they've changed, and things seem alright, you'll find that you'll feel better if you are the mature person and forgive them.
I'll pray for you hun.
-Farren
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if i were u i would try to become friends with them again.
if tht goes rong then get new friends tht u can trust.
unlike the other ones tht would break u into peices.
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aww i wuld give them one more chance becuz u cant ever have too many friends and u dont have to become BEST friends with them again!! good luck sweetie!
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well im goin through the same my friend runied ma life..and now im not frineds with her becasue she has been 2faced...but if she is doin alot wrong to you then dont be cool with her...i mean if she has been that bad then dont be anythin to
deal with her...when she talks to you dont talk to her treat her how she treated you..well hope i helped..
:)tasha
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YOU SERIOUSLY NEED TO HOLD A GRUDGE AGAINST THEM REALLY I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING ONLY THEY ARE NOT ACTING LIKE THEY WANT TO BE MY FRIENDS AGAIN. WELL ONE OF THEM IS AND ONLY WE ITS ME AND HER. SO DONT TAKE THEM BECK IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE GONNA GET HURT AGAIN. THATS A LOAD OF CRAP REALLY IT IS AND IT MAKES ME MAD. JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE AND DONT BE FRIENDS WITH THEM AGAIN. THEY ARENT WORTH IT.
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Friends are like...shoes. You can grow out of them especially if they hurt you. If your shoes aren't not comfortable, you don't get them, right?
Same with friends, if you aren't comfortable and you don't trust them, don't be friends. Don't risk getting hurt again. Find someone you CAN trust and you CAN be yourself with. It doesn't matter if they beg you to come back to them. It's their fault.
Tell them...friends are a privilege. If you lose that privilege, you don't get it back.
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Neither. be friends with them. but dont put your all into it. keeps your eyes open and dont put all of your trust into them just yet. that way if they do fuck you over, youll be ready, and you wont feel so bad.
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Ok, i was in a similar situation... this is what i did... they had been really rude and were ruining my life, so i talked to them about it. Then i gave them a second chance, but one blew and one didn't! So my advice:
1. Give them a second chance, forgive them, but don't forget what they did and watch out for replays of the past
2. If they blow their 2nd chance screw them they're losing the friend... find new friends... ignore them... but wait and watch... they'll probably want you back!
xoxo *mwah* - Amber
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I would not be friends with them if they did somting that horrible to you... then you can never trust them... and like you said "do i say yes n get hurt again". my answer to that would be yes you would get hert by them, but i would not hold a grudge. just dont call them or talk to them to give them the idea that you are friends with them again. im sorry about what happend to you, all your other friends there for you! hope i helped!
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Tell the that u forgive but dont forget, give them a second chance but make sure they no that if they do that again then u shud find new friends.
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okay everyone deserves a 2nd chance. But i would talk to them about it jhsut to clear the air.
-beccers_boo
keep my readin
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You should forgive them anyway.
But whether or not you want to be friends with them is up to you. What if they didnt mean to hurt you?
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well u need to think for a min. u could say yes and it could go well or u could get hurt again. my friend was like this and she hurt me we got in fights before we split. the second time doesnt always hurt as much as hte frist. if u say neither idk what to do. if u hold a grudge that could be pretty bad id say yes
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well thats a tough one... well they could really want to be ur friend again or they might try to trick u and then get u in BIG trouble... i guess u just have to trust in ur instincs and see if u can trust them.
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well it depends in what they did. if u want to be friends with them than forgive them for what they did. but if u want to hold a grudge on them than do so. but did they mean to do all of that stuff. good luck
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