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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?

well i'm not going to give you some bullshit answer and lie to you .. i'm oging to be straight up .. don't be shallow .. i mean if hes a nice guy and he treats you well .. well then yea pretty much every girl wants that .. and you shouldnt really care what people think of you or how people judge you . .i mean just be yourself .. if you like the guy and you're ahppy with him then why would you ruin your happiness just because of some stupid people who might judge you?? the only question here to ask .. is:: are you happy with him?? if you are then there should be no problem .. but if your not then yea dump him.

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okay so i have known this one guy for a while now and i dated him in the past and we had a great relationship and everything. nothing bad at all except the distance. he lived about 30-45 minutes away. well we broke up b/c i wanted to and just to go out with another guy who lived here. and i know that was my very first mistake. i thought my feelings were gone for him and everything. well after we broke up we stopeed talking and then a couple months later he IMs and we were talking and i told him that i still liked him well i had a boyfriend at the time and it bothered him that i said that so he stopped talking to me. well just recently i was laying in bed and my friend called me and told me that taylor wanted to talk to me. i was like why to apoligize for not calling me back 4 months ago? and he kind of laughed and right when he started talking again i instantly started to like him all over again. every single time this happens. he moved and now lives 2-3 hours away and it sucks. he might be coming down for spring break. he is worried about me b/c of things i have been doing that i know i shouldn't be doing but i do it anyways so he told me last night and had a talk with me and he asked me why i liked him and while i was telling him it hit me that he was the only guy that i truly liked. i want ideas to prove to him that he can trust me enough to date me again. i stopeed talking to the guy i was doing bad things with so he would trust me... good idea and what else could i do?? 14/f and 14/m

just tell him the truth about it all .. and if you guys really do like eachother that much .. then you could make a relationship work .. good luck ./.

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Ok, so I've known this guy about 4-5 years; we met through a friend. We've always had a flirtaious kind of relationship, but never really anything more until recently when I've approached the idea. We both went to different schools and hes 2 1/2 years older soo group of friends were different. He always seemed to have a girlfriend back in the day or I always seemed to be friends with the girl he wanted. Until recently he had this evil bitch girlfriend who cheated on him and abused him emotionally, but because he was so in love he couldnt see it. He eventually woke up and realized what he was doing to himself and got out of it, promising me and himself not to go back to her. We started getting closer, but then hes been getting shady lately. Picking fights, getting extremely moody over little things I say, just isnt acting himself. Ive asked him plenty of times if he wants more than friends or just benefits, he says more but wont go farther than that. He tells me he loves me and says he thinks about me and cares for me, but he wont take the next step. I don't think I should have to, because I've layed myself out several times telling him how I feel yet he tells ppl I'm the one who is confused... What should I do?? Is he getting moody maybe b/c of the ex is back in the view?? I'm not a guy, I can't read their signals so help me please!!!!

i think that he's the confused one .. maybe he's not sure what he's feeling at the moment and just wants to chill .. give him a little bit of time .. and if he doesnt realize anything within a little while just move on .. but that might make him jealous .. good luck

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I have lots of best friends. But three that are really close. Two of them are guys. One is Steve and I've complained about him before. But I really like him and he's going out with my other really close best friend, Haley. My other best friend, that's a guy, Jeff just told me he liked me on New Year's Eve. He said his Goal for 2006 was to try to win me over from Steve. I LOVE STEVE SOOO MUCH! But how can I let everyone know how I feel with out losing any of my friends?
Okay so here are my main questions:
1. How to tell Steve that I really like him
2. How to tell Haley that I'm like in love with Steve
3. How to let Jeff know that I'd rather just be friends
Thanks a lot!

first of all .. if steve's happy with who hes with .. don't you want him to be happy? and telling him taht you like him might make things awkward between you guys .. just tell jeff that you don't think of him as anymore than a friend .. even though he might be a little mad .. he should realize taht you're friendship is more important ..

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Alright so in the past few months 5 students at my school have died from a car accident. I wasn't close to any of these people but I knew who they were. I'm starting to learn how to drive and I am so scared to get behind the wheel. Even when I'm just riding in the car I get this INTENSE feeling that something is wrong. It feels like someone is sitting on my chest. Could it be a panic attack? How can I stop this from happening so I can focus on learning how to drive?

Thanks

4 students at my school died in car accidents within a month .. nad its a scary thought .. the only think that i have to say to you is taht you have to face your fears someday .. sooner or later .. i understand taht its hard to drive now that so many people have passed away .. so maybe you should just give it some time .. good luck

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ok i have friends but we only hang out in school and most of the time its in class so we cant talk we never hangout like on the weekends so i am bored out of my mind on weekends i ask them if they want to come over on the weekend but they are busy doing other stuff i am like a year older than most of them so maybe there to young to hangout like there moms are over pretective i dont know but what should i do and like what stuff should i plan to go.
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well see if they can go see a movie or go hang out at the mall .. or see if they want to do anything .. or you could see what people your age are doign and hang out with them ..

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Hey! Well, I really like Laguna Beach on MTV and I am stoked for this summer when the new season comes. I was wondering what this previous cast is doing nowadays. I already know that LC is moving back to Los Angeles (San Francisco I think)and is having a new TV show on MTV called "The Hills" (CAN'T WAIT!!!). I just want to know what the cast is up to because I really didn't get a full insight on that. Thanks a bunch!

some of the cast have a myspace .. which you can talk to them on that .. but kristen doesnt have a myspace

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Okay, I like this guy, and he plays on my brother's hockey team. I think he's TOTALLY hott but he's a year younger than me. He's 12 and I'm 13. But I really like him and stuff.. We've stayed at hotels together for tourneys and stuff... and we've done crap. But idk if he feels the same way about me as I do about him. Please help!

tell him how you feel or ask him who hes interested it .. thats the only way to find out

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im going out with the best guy ever his name is paul i love him 2 death he calls me almost everyday and i just love everything about him. I dont know if my friend is jealous or just mad. Well my problem is im sick of hearing that my friend says the me n paul are like married just because we hang out we go 2 eachothers houses, go to movies,mall, and friends house's. i mean i think she is jealous bc her bf austin doesnt call her talk 2 her or do anything with her the only thing they have dont together in the 5 months that they have been going out is that they say one movie and saw eachother at a foot ball game well i just want 2 tell my friend 2 shut up bc she's jealsous but i mean i dont want 2 be mean bc she is my friend i just dont know wat to do help me plz

wel talk to ur friends boyfriend and her. get them to do things together. invite them on a double date. if u get her to start doing things with her boyfriend than maybe she will shutup. good luck...

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This was something my mom and I talked about the other night, and it really made me think. Is it possible to love two people at the same time in the same way, as in a bf/gf? I'd appreciate to see some opinions on this...

JyNxiE

thats a really good question. i would say anything it possible. but i guess it just seems a bit ackward. i mean there has to be one that u have stronger feelings for..whether u cant reconize him or what. but there is one..good luck.

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ok i have a boyfriend and my old best friend reallllly likes him and i haent talked to her in 3 yrs but still she realllly likes him and i do too but i dnno and heused to like her but now he says he doesnt and i dont hink he does help.......

well is she still ur freind. because u are calling her ur old friend. but talk to her. and make sure that ur boyfriend isnt lieing.

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i have an AWESOMe friend. i am 1 year older than him and we arent going out. his mom says he is not old enough to have a GF but she is insisting for us to go to the movies together. i LOVE him but i dont know if he LOVES me... i know that he likes meeh but i dont kno!!! please help me!!!! i beg u!!!!!!!!!!

well hang out with him alot. and his mom will eventually come to her senses and let u two go out...good luck!

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I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away..

move to a family members house near by. or consider counciling..good luck.

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ok, i got a call from my bf asking if his ex girlfriend had called me. i said no y? and he said that him, his friend, and her got into a fight and that she said she was going to tell me everything. and i said, what do u mean shell tell me everything? and he said i dont know what shes talking about. she wouldnt tell me. n hes like, so if she says somethin to u tonight, just remember that shes insane. so i get home, and theres a message from her. but all it said was happy thanksgiving and a smily. so now, i dont kno whats going on. or what to do. ahhh!! help please.

i think that ur bf is not telling u something. maybe he did something that she nos about and she threatend to tell u. i would talk to his ex and find out what it was..good luck

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Hi,
my names Shanikka and I'm thinking about gettin my nose pierced, because I think that it will look cute on me, my mom thinks so too. The only thing is I'm worried about if it will hurt or not. I need advice 4rm someone who has had it done or knows someone who has had it done..Plz...

well someone at my school peirced her nose by herself. i asked her about it and she said that it didnt hurt that bad. but thats her opinion. i cant say anything cuz i havent had it done. but good luck.

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Hey does anyone know any good songs I can download?I can't think of any!Thanks!!

goodies, save a horse, concrete angel, ocean avenue, predictable, my happy ending, idk theres alot of good songs..i hope i helped...
~kt~

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I've been talking to this guy for the past month. We've gone to the movies and to some basketball games. I am really starting to like him and i think he likes me back. Well even though we have gone out together we havent really talked about being boyfriend and girlfriend. I asked him what he thought we were friends or more, and he said he wants to be more, but that really is as far as we took it. I brought it up again a couple of days later and he asked me what he thinks we should be and i said i wasnt sure. Well i've been thinking and i really want him to be my boyfriend. We dont go to the same school right now but we will be in 4 weeks. What should i do, ask him to be my boyfriend now or wait untill we start school together? If i do ask him to be my boyfriend now how should i do it??? Please help!!!!

i think that u should talk to him more about it....and get a direct answer this time..good luck..
~kt~

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i hav this friend (he is a guy) we r really good friend wen were with a couple of people but went we r in skool then he walks right by me like he doesnt even no me. it is kinda weird **wat should i do?????

yea i think i kinda no how u feel. at school just go up to him and talk to him...see how he acts. or in the halls say "hi" to him and see if he says hi back. and then u can come to a conclusion if hes using u or w/e....good luck

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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do.

well try to change urself back if u dont like how u are now.

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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!!

well it depends in what they did. if u want to be friends with them than forgive them for what they did. but if u want to hold a grudge on them than do so. but did they mean to do all of that stuff. good luck

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