hey im allison/ally im 13 and i play tennis, soccer, volleyball, & basketball and feel free to ask me for any advice
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E-mail: allyco210@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: pennsylvania
Age: 13
AIM: allisOno 21 3
Member Since: July 13, 2004
Answers: 30
Last Update: July 18, 2004
Visitors: 2059
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My friend just told me that her and my boyfriend have been dating, and she said that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. Do I ditch the guy and her, or just the guy and keep my friend (link)
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well for one thing you should deffinetly ditch the guy, because dont hold on to something your not sure you want anymore. and as for your friend just think how loyal she is to you and how good of a friend she is. think about if you could do with out her and if not then its best to keep her as your friend. you might want to talk to her about it as well. eventually itll all work out and whats supposed to happen with most always happen. hope i helped
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Ok im 13 and haven't really had my first *REAL* kiss yet and i told my b/f i made out w/ someone already and i really didnt..heehee...but im really nervous so b4 it does happen can anyone tell me some tips. Because im definitley nervous
=( i keep thinking all these negitave thoughts..so any tips will help..thanx!
*I RATE TOO* (link)
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well first of all if hes youre boyfriend then the fact that youve never kissed shouldnt bother him and he should like you just the same. i probably would have freaked out and done the same thing but maybe it will help you be honest next time around. for now i would just let whatever happens happen and hopefully your first kiss wont be a disaster. hope i helped =)
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wuts the normal weight for a 13 year old and 5'-5'1? (link)
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well im 13 and im like 5'3 ish and i weigh 110 so somewhere around there i guess? hope that answers your question =)
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i have known johnathan since the 3rd grade and he jus asked me out. I walked by and his friends were laughin cuz he said, I have butterflys in my arm. Then Adam (friend) said its supposed to be ur stomach. Adam said dude do u want me to ask her? Johnathan said, yea plz. then adam said will u go out wit him? I said, I said no, im sry but, we are just really good friends. every since then he hasnt talked to me. do u think hes mad? Iam a female and I am 18. (link)
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hes probably just crushed but deffinately not mad at you because if he cares about you that much then he isnt mad, just a little bummed that your only friends
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am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't. (link)
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do you do a lot of sports? if so its probably just loose muscle and thats not fat at all... if you still feel insecure about it then maybe you should just exercise a little every day and that should make you feel better about yourself
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him! (link)
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what your brothers doing to you isnt right and you need to tell someone about it before it happens again. i know hes your brother and it could make things akward but you need to tell someone.
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im IN LOVE with a guy and i realli want him to like me to but he doesnt seem to care about me the way i care about him even tho he says i love u and stuff i mean i cant take it i have loved him for 2 yrs he liked me b4 but we never told eachother and i neeeeeeed him i love him soo much i cry at nite for him and everything but i dont think he gets it and im too shy to talk to him ....wut can i do? (link)
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i know its hard to tell someone how you feel, but its the only way you can make things happen. guys are less likely to make the first move and hes probably just as insecure as you are. from the looks of it you both like eachother and somehow you need to find a way to not be as shy and talk to him about it. and the sooner you do it, the better... before he decides to move on because he doesnt know you feel the same way.
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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well theres no reason you should stay with him if hes going to pressure you into things and if you dont like him any more. and the truth is, you'll probably hurt him more by staying with him when you dont like him, than you will by dumping him. so i guess i have to say dump him, but its all up to you how to break it to him. hope i helped you out =)
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ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
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theres no proof whatsoever that the psychic is right about you and your boyfriend... i mean if you dont have a future together than why do you keep getting back together, eh? sounds like you and your boyfriend are very close and besides, the psychic has never even met your boyfriend. dont let her sway your opinion.
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ok i think im fat but my friends think that im like really skinny. and so does my friends mom. she always says "god look how skinny she is" and i cnat stand it. its not like i wanna be fat but i dont like to be considered like a tooth pick whne i think im fat. wut do i do? (link)
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everyone is self consious of them selves and if your skinny and everyone else knows it but you, then you have to believe them. these people know you pretty good, and they know your body type as well. its perfectly normal for you to think your not perfect. and i cant say this enough but learn to love your flaws. hope it helped ;]
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I met this guy on a cruiz..hes so amazing..im in love with him. Should i tell him that i like him or keep it to myself?? thankz.. (link)
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well for now just keep in touch with him and then when you feel like the time is right, tell him how you feel. but i wouldnt go right off and say "im in love with you" if you dont know if its mutual. you might scare him away by saying that, so you could try saying "i really like you" or something a little more subtle than "your amazing and im in love with you" most guys just dont know how to react to something like that. -- hope i helped out =)
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
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well, tell him that you really like him and youre glad that he likes you too, but you might not be ready just yet. youre only thirteen and you shouldnt feel like your in a rush to have sex, because there will be other guys along the way ; there will be ones that you'll like more and you'll be ready to go farther with. hope i helped out
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My best friends ex likes me. He has asked me to have phone sex with him and he has told me and loves me and wishes I was his girl. I have told him a thousand times that we can only stay friends since he is my best friends ex and i do not like him at all. He is a perverted just like every other guy but much worse. All he talks about is girld having sex with him. He even has sadi that he'd rape me! I was really scared and he was serious. I don't know what to do and I can't tell my friend. I've told her we've talked and she was happy but I didn't tell her what he said. I need advice ASAP!! HELP PLEASE!!!
Signed,
Fed Up (link)
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explain everything to your best friend and that you dont like him at all and its really starting to bother you and she'll probably know what to do and how to help you out because shes gone out with him before and knows what hes like. hopefully this works out for you, i did my best! =]
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hey well my boyfriend and i have been going out not even a month yet but we've gone out longer times before. well sometimes i feel like we're drifting apart and then we come back together. what should i do and how should i feel. when i feel like we're drifing apart, i want him to know that i still love him but when he says it back, its as if he doesnt really mean it.... but then somehow we go back like normal...what should i do?? is this like a sign that i cant read or is it just the way he is? (link)
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this is probably just the way your boyfriend is and maybe he just gets distracted sometimes. if you feel like you need to do something about it and you love him and want to stay with him, then talk to him about it and hear his side of things and then maybe you guys can work it out. hope i helped you out =)
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im 14 and this may sound weird but i've liked one of my best friends ive known since kindy, since 2nd grade. i told him i was in love with him and he didnt really seem to care. then he started dating this one chick, and it bothered me but what could i do? so when they broke up i asked him out and he turned me down. and now hes got this new girlfriend who hes like in love with. and i love him with all my heart but he just wants to be my friend. what should i do? should i just be his friend or continue competeing for his attention and his heart? (link)
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i think ive said this in a previous answer but tell him how much you love him and really care about him even though he just wants to be friends and make sure that he knows that you arent going to wait around for him forever -- hope it helps you out =]
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Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!! (link)
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one word. clearasil. always works for me and i hope it helps you out =)
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I really like this guy, lets say his name is anthony. Well me and anthony hang out alot. And we flirt a lot too. But he dont like me he likes my friend and my friend dont like him. And it hurts so much cuz i kno he likes her. And hes told me he thinks im hot and that i have a great body and that im koo to hang out with stuff like that. But he just tells my frieend that he likes her and that it. Idk wut it means or what todo. So basicly wut i wanna kno is how to get him to like me, and anyother things you guyz might think help????? (link)
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maybe hes just trying to make you jealous by going after your friend, or maybe YOU need to make HIM jealous. cuz if he thinks your hott and you guys hang out and get along well then theres got to be something there. maybe he just doenst know it yet. -- hope i helped ;]
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this kidd wants me to have sex with him what do i do i mean i like him but i keep thinking about the ocnsequences... (link)
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sounds like your not quite ready for this yet and the only way to avoid being forced into something with him is to tell him that you like him and all but you dont really want to have sex just yet.. hopefully he'll understand and if not then theres plenty more people out there that wont pressure you into it. hope i helped =)
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my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do? (link)
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deffinately talk to her about it and tell her that you really want to stay friends but youd appreciate it if she would be honest with you like your honest with her. if this doesnt work and your friend completely takes it the wrong way then hopefully she'll come around and realize she still wants to be your friend and she hasnt been that great of one herself. hope i helped you out ;]
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15-f...I'm not happy at all, and I don't know how to change that. Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but I'm okay with it now its just that I don't really have anyone now. I have a few friends, I'm just a shy person. It just seems like once I think I'm happy something comes and ruins it. My mom and I get along, but she just makes me so mad. I know all parents are like that. But then it all builds up and I don't know how to handle it all. One time I cute myself and I know it was stupid, but now everytime I get upset thats what I think about...I don't know how to handle my emotions...I just want to be happy.... (link)
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i had something like that a few summers ago and i felt like things would never get better and id never be happy because when its happening, you automatically think its gonna stay that way. the worst thing you can do is to be unsocial and cut yourself... start being with your friends more and maybe youll start to feel more happy and like youre having fun. as for cutting yourself, everytime you feel like cutting just try to tell yourself not to. im not a cutter, so i dont really know how to help you there, but good luck and i hope i helped you out otherwise ;]
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