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one guy 2 girls
im 14 and this may sound weird but i've liked one of my best friends ive known since kindy, since 2nd grade. i told him i was in love with him and he didnt really seem to care. then he started dating this one chick, and it bothered me but what could i do? so when they broke up i asked him out and he turned me down. and now hes got this new girlfriend who hes like in love with. and i love him with all my heart but he just wants to be my friend. what should i do? should i just be his friend or continue competeing for his attention and his heart?
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hi, well listen...may be its time for u to move on...n may b not being his friend will help...tell him that u cant b his friend cuz u care more bout him then just a friend..n till u get over him or w/e i think its better now to b so close to him...close that door...n open another for another cute n caring guy to get in ur life...may b doin that that special someone will come :) meet new ppl...meet new guys...give the guys an opportunity to get to know u n everything...:) so good luck xoxo effy
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it seems taht u rellie liek this guy but he doenst liek u the way u like him so... i htink u shuld still be his frined but also try to get his attention when he doesnt have a gf but always be there for him when he is havin problems ONE DAY HE WILL FALL FOR U
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i think ive said this in a previous answer but tell him how much you love him and really care about him even though he just wants to be friends and make sure that he knows that you arent going to wait around for him forever -- hope it helps you out =]
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i think that you should just be friends for now because he seems like he said no to protect your friendship..so i would just be really close friends to him right now and maybe you should just get a boyfriend to try to get over him! but if u dont want to do that then just be really close to him and when him and his gf break up be there for him and everything and then maybe you guys could get together! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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hey!!
i think u should just be his friend and just let time past your only 14 you will met so many other guys well i hope that helps
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Ive it were me i would just be friends with him. You never now he may not be into u like that. Just go with the flow, maybe later ask him again
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Maybe he doesnt want to ruin you guys' friendship and he knows it would be weird dating one of his best friends,. talk to him,. ask him why he is turning you down.. and if u would ever get a chance with him. Tell him how you feel about him and that he hurts your feelings tuening you down than going out with other girls,. i think that you should just let him be,. theres tons of guys out there that would wanna go out with you!,. so spend so time with them and maybe you can get your mine off ur friend... You can never find the ryte one if your l0okin at the wrong one... =) Maybe in the future u guys will be a couple,. but DONT mess up ur friendship with him!!
=) good luck
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I don't want to say it but, I dont think you two are gonna be friends.He just dosen't seem to like you the way you like him.And if you two were to date and break up, it might ruin your friendship.So you two should just keep it as friends.
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I`d say, stick with the friednship for now. I`ve been in your position before... but he`ll come too if he feels the same. I hope everything works out for the best!
megan.
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Maybe he doesn't believe you that you actually do love him. Try writting him a letter and telling him all your feelings and how long you have liked him. But don't try to intrude in his and his girfriend's relationship, you wouldn't want someone to do that to you would you? But, just be like "I know you have a girlfriend, but you dont know how long I have liked you, I've tried telling you, but it seems like you just don't care." Just say something like that. And just basically telling him how you feel. Hope this helps and good luck. Post back if you still need help!
xoxo Kourtney
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I think you should settle with friendship. I'm sorrie to say, but you can't make him love you. If you keep asking him out, there's a chance he may get fed up with it [as some people tend to do] and fall victim to the petty attitude of avoiding you. I'm assuming you'd rather have him as a friend rather than nothing at all. I'm sure if it was meant to be, it will happen. Who knows.. perhaps one day he'll come around. Until then, keep your head up and push forward. I wish you the very best of luck. Take care, and keep me updated! =D
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