Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help!
Well, the guys don`t have too know that your not wearing a thong. Just don`t show your undies.
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on of my turtles has a lil sratch on his shell...its not very big and hes not acting weird or anything...but i was just wondering if he can feel the sratch or if it hurts him...
thnxxxx!!
Well, it`s a hard shell. Im guessing it wont hurt. But if you do hurt it, how would you know? Do turtles make noise?
Okay "dumbassss"... I know what you were asking "dumbassss". Now what I asked was, Do turtles make noice "dumbassss"! I have some advice for you, grow up. Try acting hmmm, what`s the word I`m looking for... eh Mature...? "dumbassss"
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ok moderators im very serious about this question its not a joke so please please please dont delete it, ok i had sex once, and i dont really get any feeling, supposedly its supposed to feel good but i dont really feel anything, and when we were done my stomach hurt alot and my back did too, so yeah umm whats going on? please dont delete this i want to know.
Obviously he/she wasn`t too good in bed eh?
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I have a problem with cutting myself and I've always been to afraid to tell one of my best friends for fear that she might think i was some kind of freak! I just need an idea on what would be a good way to start off a conversation and then breaking the news to her! I would appreciate it! OH and ill rate u goood!!!!!
If you have a problem with it, wouldn`t it be really noticable? I mean, I used to cut myself and let`s see... my friends noticed like 3 cuts later. If you DO have a cutting problem, you can tell a friend, but what I would do is tell someone who can get you help and who will understand you. If your cutting yourself, I`m guessing your depressed? Go to a conselour. They`ll ask you questions to see if you should be on anti-depressents or if you have suicide potential. Just get help is what im trying to say.
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my girlfriend is amazing. i am truely honestly blessed to be with her, she is so perfect. the problem is sometimes we get in arguements over really stupid stupid shit, and when we do i feel so extremely guilty and torn up because she is so nice and sweet, she never deserves to be hurt. i know all relationships have things that need to be overcome, but i just cant take it when i hurt this girl. she is so sweet and great to be with, and she would never hurt anyone. how do i make myself feel less guilty about it?
Simply, talk to her. Tell you are feeling guilty. She will probably feel very greatful that she has a guy who loves her very much and cares so much about her feelings.
megan.
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Ok well tomorrow I'm leaving for Flordia. I hafta go on a 5 hour plane trip! Does anyone have any ideas for things to do?? I have my cd player (but ive already heard all my cds!!), a walk to remember book (my favorite :D), and a notebook. CAN ANYONE HELP ME??
You could draw, color in coloring books, SLEEP!, If you have a cell phone, you can play games on that... hmm I always seem too run out of things too do on a plane. I just got back from florida 3 days ago... a 17 hour car ride. I didn`t have anything to do except listen to my cd player and stare out the window. So boring. :-/ Have fun in florida!!
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when an embarrassing topic comes up, i can feel my face heat up and i'm sure it's really noticeable - is there anyway to prevent yourself from blushing?? i doubt it but i figured it doesn't hurt to ask
Gah I wish there was a way. I hate it when that happens.
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LaTly i have been vary depressed like im not the old me...i used to be vary fun tew be around, loving life, and full of energy...and i think i mite be depresed because i cut and everything but i think my question is...wat is happening to me
Everyone goes through it. ( most do at least ) These days though, it`s starting to turn into kind of a fad, if you know what I mean. But if your truley depressed... only you can change that. I`m depressed... I take anti-depressents. It works on some people I suppose... It helps make little things not seem so big. I`ve also heard, if you havn`t started your period yet, it gets better when you do. It`s from your harmones changing and such. But I hope it doesn`t get worse. What makes me feel better is, I write it all down. It seems to really settle things a little bit. And do not cut... I used to, and now i have a shit load of scars all up and down my left arm. People see you different when they see that. It leaves a bad impression.
Megan.
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okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do?
Tell your mom that she is the only one that can help you through things. Tell her how much you care about your friend & Tell her that you wont do the things she is doing ( the things that are making your mom think she is a bad influence ).
megan.
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Dear Advicer,
My question to ask is about Health & Fitness.I've always been going on diets but they never seem to work for me.I mean I want to have the perfect body and be perfectly fit.I weigh about 140 I'm like medium not fat or anything just a little.I would like to weigh at least 110.Do you have any Advice for me? I always been eatting the wrong kinds of food because its soo hard because my mom makes brownies and cookies stuff like that sometimes.I try going on diets but I always seem to eat alot.I did try to starve myself the one time but I told myself thats not the bright Idea.I need too be skinny I want to be skinny and phsyically fit.Please help me
Excercising ( spelling ? ) helps a lot. Maybe you can do like 100 sit ups a day, if you have a treadmill you can run on that each day for the same ammount of time. Just stuff like that to get rid of the acsess fat. Also, limit your calories and try to eat things with less fat. And, don`t eat stuff before you go too bed .. ( i heard that helps gain a few punds ). And If you drink a lot of soda, you might want too cut down on that because that has a ton of sugar in it and is really bad for you.
megan.
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i need help i want to pant my room but f i do not know what color to pant it so here are some of my favorite colors
-red
-black
-purplish blue
-gray
-green
-blue
PS IM SORTA GOTH
I did my room purple and black. I really wanted black and white checkerd walls. I think that would be cool. ( Big squares... not tiny ones ).
megan.
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anybody ever heard of teenagers going on blind dates to do something fun??
Yeah sort of. I mainly see adults do it on tv and such. But yeah.
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I just recently got dumped by my ex. we were going fine then all of the sudden she dumped me, i still like her, and i want her to go out with me again. I am about90% sure she still likes me.
wat should i do?
Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.
megan.
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What does a guy do when they finger you ? does it hurt? could you explain what it feels like help please
i'll rate good!!!
If you`ve ever masturbated, that`s what it feels like.
megan.
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I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents?
Nah. I never tell my parents about that kind of stuff. If they find out, you can simply tell them it`s nothing serious and you can just explain too them that nothing sexual will happen and insure them that they can trust you.
megan.
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What are some websites that are like xprofiles, that you can put pictures and graphics on? I tried live journal and xanga, but you cant put lots of graphic stuff on those. Do you know any more?
I`ve used both. On livejournal, you can add more pictures. Xanga you can`t. I know some people use greatestjournal.com or they use aim profile too put that stuff. ( buddy4u.com or buddyprofile.com ... except i think it involves a lot of html codes )
megan.
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i'm 14/f and i've been head-over-heels for one of my good friends for about a month and a half. i told him how i felt a little less than a month ago and he gave me the ol' "i'd like us to be friends" yeah, of course that didnt make me feel oh-so-fabulous. i knew he didn't feel for me the way i feel about him. but i guess i didn't actually wanna hear it. well anyway, lately, i've been really lonely. not meaning friends. i know that my friends love me and they're here for me. but i miss that hand to hold. i miss being somebody's somebody. what should i do? is there any way to get him to consider looking at me in a different way besides friends? i'll rate you quick. thanks...
Oh I know how you feel, and I know how hard it is. You just have to be yourself around him. Don`t change yourself just to get him too like you the way you like him. He`ll come around. I hope it all works out for you.
Megan.
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im 14 and this may sound weird but i've liked one of my best friends ive known since kindy, since 2nd grade. i told him i was in love with him and he didnt really seem to care. then he started dating this one chick, and it bothered me but what could i do? so when they broke up i asked him out and he turned me down. and now hes got this new girlfriend who hes like in love with. and i love him with all my heart but he just wants to be my friend. what should i do? should i just be his friend or continue competeing for his attention and his heart?
I`d say, stick with the friednship for now. I`ve been in your position before... but he`ll come too if he feels the same. I hope everything works out for the best!
megan.
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I really like this guy but he doesnt like me im sad because I really like him! I dont know why he doesnt like me he wont tell me My question is how could I get him to like me?
Don`t do anything to impress him. He`ll just be sorry he didn`t like you in the first place.
Also, when someone likes me, usually I start too like them back after a while, because I really pay attention to them. Maybe he`ll do the same...
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well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me???
It could be anything. Maybe he got kicked off the internet or something. Also, he could just be shy. Or, maybe if the answer was no... he didnt want too hurt your feelings. Maybe you could call him, or ask him if he saw it when you asked him.
megan.
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