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Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help!
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Oh.. well why do u HAVE to wear a thong to feel "good enough" or "sexy" ? Dont change/wear stuff to get a guy for you.. that shouldn't happen at ALL! You need to be yourself or your gunna fall in love wit the guy that only likes you cuz u wear thongs.. besides.. it shouldnt matter if you wear thongs or not.. besides its not there buizness knowing if you wear thongs or not unless you're pullin it our or pullin your pants down and showing them! =P
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If the guys in your area are shallow enough to judge you by your underwear, you need to find some new guy friends. You can't wear thongs ALL the time, so just live with the boy briefs. Some guys find it sexy (according to Cosmo.)!
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one day...you and your friends should just go to the mall on your own...buy a few things..and just buy a few pairs of thongs!..your mom doesnt have to know, i mean,if you do your own luandry...then their wont be a reason your mom will look threw your stuff right?...but if you do buy some..i suggest Victoria's Secret!
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Buy thongs and do your own laundry.
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Guys seriosly care what underwear you wear. BC if they see underwear they will be more concerned that they might be getting some rather what ur wearing for undies. Also wearing a thong doesn't make u sexy. Confidence is sexy and if you give off that I know I'm sexy vibe guys will sense that...I hope that helped
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Your 14 and you want to wear a thong. Your too young to be wondering if you are sexy enough for the guys. If guys do find out that you do, they might want to do it with you. You should focus on other things than being sexy! You have your whole life ahead of you.......you can wear a thong later in your life!
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just talk to ur mom about it, tell her its embarrasing having those underwear lines and stuff. and tell her it makes u really self consious and uncomfortable. maybe shell understand, or maybe shell have a way for u to get over it.
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Well you don't really want to go behind your Moms back in the first place. I mean come on also, youre 14 you don't really need to think about being sexy or any of that, it's not like youre going to go out and have sex every day. You can wait to get them, their not a big deal, their just underwear. So just wait and maybe ask your mom why she won't let you wear them.
Hope I helped
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Ask her why she doesn't like you wearing them. Start doing your own laundry so that she doesn't know or something. My mom didn't like me wearing them when I first started too but she got used to it because I wouldn't stop wearng them. N now I have like a million. Im like a pantie freak lol. And if guys find out then o well. if they can't deal with it then you don't need to deal with them!
x0x Jamielynn
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A thong is just a peice of underwear. It doesn't make you sexy nor does it make you ugly. Seriously don't worry about it..a guy will like you 4 who you are not what kind of underwear you are wearing...;)
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if a guy doesn't like you because of what kind of underwear you wear then he is an asshole, boy briefs and bikini undies are really cute! just don't wear the hanes her way granny panties haha those are a turn off
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Well, the guys don`t have too know that your not wearing a thong. Just don`t show your undies.
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Some guys dont care if you wear thongs or not. All guys shouldnt care, but welcome to their shallow world. im sure if your wearing lacy boy shorts its probably just as sexy as a thong. try to get some lacy regular underwear instead of thongs if your mom will go for it. wear your 1 thong when u dont want panty lines and try 2 explain to your mom that panty lines suck and thats why u wear it. or just buy some with your friends, wear them, wash them yourself and hide them. i think no one should be judged by the underwear that you wear but thats the truth of the world.
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ali
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if a guy judges you on what underwear you wear, he's not good for you. but u should get over it. wait a while before asking again and maybe something will happen. u don't need a thong to be sexy and a guy is scum if he's only with you because you wear one
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if yOu dOnt wear thOngs it mOst def. dOes nOt mean yOur nOt qOOd enOuqh Or sexy . quys these days are qettinq very very immature abOut the underwear qirls wear and its cOmpletely stupid if yOu ask me.i wear thOngs and my mOm dOesnt care but i dO knOw qirls whOse mOms wOnt let them wear them.and quys they date have nO prOblem with that.if a quy judqes yOu On that then hunnie he`s nOt the man yOu want.i hOpe i`ve helped :-)
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Hun It doesnt matter wut kind of pantys ya wear. Ya got to believe ya good enough. Dont let any guy make ya insecure cause if they do then they arent a nice person neways. Any guy who gets far enough to see ya pantys isnt gonna care wut kind they are. Trust me! ha
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well if a guy doesn't like you becuase of the undiez you wear then hes prolly not the guy you want. but it is tru i think that you could buy those one shorts undiez maybe like lace or sumthing then it will still b sexy and your mom will prolly approve of them.
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well, i don't wear things much and all my b/f's didint seem 2 care. but yea guys do like thongs but their gonna like u, no matter what kind of panties u wear. its about personality. and if some guy don't like u b/c of the thong situation then he's not 4 u.
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HI! I dont see why u have to wear thongs! most of the hottest and nicest girls in my school dont wear things! i really dont care either! just make sure your underwear is clean ;-)
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