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Hi Everyone. My name is Shayla A.K.A Shay im in the 8th grade and im 13 yrs. old..i have definitly had a HARD life and i can relate to some of yalls questions so go ahead and ask away or drop a few in my inbox! I love sports my favorite would b softball i play 3rd and im a pitcher(fast pitch not slow) im 5'8 (yeah im tall i kno)and i live in church point,louisiana!
IM me if you want to know more @ ShAyLa LyNn 3 or email me @ hollisterbabe0176@yahoo.com
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Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early? (link)
I dont think your werid. Everyone does masterbate and you are just one who found out about it at an early age. Whats so wrong w/ that!! Your not weird..trust me;)

XoXo Shayla


Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help! (link)
A thong is just a peice of underwear. It doesn't make you sexy nor does it make you ugly. Seriously don't worry about it..a guy will like you 4 who you are not what kind of underwear you are wearing...;)

XOXOXOXOXO shay!


I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird. (link)
I don't see anything wrong with that. I mean if you really like them then go 4 it. It's your life and you are supposed to live it the way YOU want to..not the way others want you to!

XOXOXOXO shay!


Im a 13 year old guy and me and this girl have done alot together liek make out and stuff liek that adn i want to try to take it to the next level (sex) but idk if she wants to. What do i do?
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Ok well if yall are committed to a good and strong relationship..then sit down and tell her like...baby im not sure if you want to but i love you and i think maybe we can start taking it to the next level..see what she says..and if she says no remember she does have her reasons so don't do anything crazii and don't push her into doing anything crazi..k? if she says yes then there you go hun..=)
love yah..xoxoxox shay!
Hope I hepled!!!


hey shay..i have this problem..my friend has a boyfriend from my town..and shes leaving next month..what should they do? should they just stick it out and keep going out and talk on the internet and phone or should they call it quits until maybe next summer when she comes back?? im not saying he would cheat on her or that she would cheat on him but i dont want them to make the wrong choice and have it mess up their friendship.. please help! (link)
Dear confused,
Well just exactly how long is your friend leaving? If she is leaving for more than 1 year and they are really committed into their relationship like over 6 months. i would say..then maybe they should stay with one another (only if she is leaving 4 a couple of months) but if they have been together for like 2 months then it might b best for them to breakup and just wait it out...because they both might find someone new while your friend is away and what would they do? So yeah maybe it would b best for them to breakup and just wait it out!

Love ya babe! Good Luck..hope i helped a lil!
XOXOXOXOXO shay!

Oh who is this..lol=)


ok when a guy and a girl have sex..how does his penis enter the vagina..does he put it..or does it like find its way in there?? thanx (link)
When a guy and a girl have sex the guy puts his penis in your vagina. Hope I helpled!

XOXOXOXOXOXO shay!


im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too. (link)
WHOA! I went through almost the exact same thing..but I let it b...we never became more than juss friends but that was his fault(another long story) But i think you should go 4 it and dont b afraid if he sayz no..they will have other bois u will like and if he sayz yeah then good 4 yall=) Act now..so you won't waste any time though..well best of luck..hope i helped!

XOXOXOXO Shay!


i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you (link)
No there is absaloutley nuthyn wrong w/ masterbating. Almost everyone does it. It's perfectly normal =)


Well I feel like god is calling me to become a nun, and then I feel like he's calling me to marry my bf.. what should I do... They are both very strongly.. and I don't want to hurt my bf at all, what should I do??? (link)
Ok I'm going to try and help as much as I can..whoa this one is pretty hard. Ok listen to God a little bit more and see which one he wants you to be more. If you are willing to break up with you b/f and be a nun then shoot for it girl. But if you don't want to break up with you b/f then..you need to sit down and tell him what is really going on and tell him..how do you feel if we just stay friends until I figure this out?

XOXOXO Shayla
Hope I helped you! Good LUck Sweetie!


how do u get a better voice? (link)
I heard that sucking on a lemon helps getting a better voice and for it to be strong! Hope it helps...good luck..**please rate** XOXOXOXO SHAYLA!


once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
I would say..it can be in between..because look..if he is the playa type then yeah oh course he will cheat on just about anybody..unless he does have an actual heart like most human's do..lol if u catch my drift..then he might understand what he's doing to a girl. But if he's not really the playa type then yes he might have a learned a lesson and would never do it again..believe me..i've been down that road!

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Need anymore help? IM me ShAyLa LyNn 3

XOXOXOXO SHAYLA!


HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =) (link)
EXERCISE ALOT!! It really helps1! and if you go to www.beinggirl.com they have a lot of tips on what not to eat and stuff! Hope it helps ya!

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XOXOXOXOXOXO shay!


okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!! (link)
I would definitely go for it girl! You only get one chance to get to know your half sister! And this is definitely and good opportunity. So go for it..see how it goes and maybe in the future yall can have a good realationship =)


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XOXOXOXOX SHayla!
Good Luck Hunnie!


How do i lose weight on my legs and not my other body parts? I will rate ya'll! (link)
I would probably lay on my back with my legs in the air and like put some 5 pound weights on the back on ur legs and juss go up and down !


What does idk stand for? (link)
IDK stands for I don't know

xoxoxo shayla


My boyfriend is a punk and i am like a cheerleader and im like a prep and stuff i dont know if i shold break up with him because later on in life i mean we might not work because he is a punk and he told me to choose him or cheerleading i am half hawaiian so like i have been doing hceerleading since i was 5 and surfing since i was 2


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I think that if you're happy with him then yall should stay together,I mean no one knows what the future will hold. But if your not really satisfied then you should break up with him. Remember there are other guys out there,who could in return be better than your current boyfriend! Well good luck!


XOXOXOXO SHayla!




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