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friend or not
im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too.
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You should say something to him about you shouldnt just let it be.. its to cool to pass it up right? And if you got that feeling that he wants to be more then just friends that i would confront him about it-trix
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hes probably playing hard to get!!! guys will be like that lol, but yeah maybe sometime u should ask him if he could ever see himself with anyone like you!! and see where it goes..but remember hes probably interested, but maybe he doesnt like you yet so dont get ur hopes up!
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somtimes ppl are just shy about their feelings!! i think that he likes you cuz he flirts with you a lot too! so just ask him out! or have ur friends get the real dirt! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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You could try bringing it up in one of your conversations. Make sure he knows that you like him and you want to be more than just friends. He was probably embarassed when his friend asked him. Guys don't like to be asked those kind of questions. When a guy asks for your number, most of the time it means he likes you. Good luck!! Let me know how it goes!!
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Well from what you say it sounds like you guys both want your friendship to become more. I'd just tell him that you want it to go further and see what he says. He probably just said he didn't like you to him friend to try and be cool. Hope I helped!
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WHOA! I went through almost the exact same thing..but I let it b...we never became more than juss friends but that was his fault(another long story) But i think you should go 4 it and dont b afraid if he sayz no..they will have other bois u will like and if he sayz yeah then good 4 yall=) Act now..so you won't waste any time though..well best of luck..hope i helped!
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just to warn you falling for your best friend isnt always the best thing to do trust me i kno cuz ive done it....but sometimes it works and about that guy he mite like you but he mite jus wanna be friends w. benifits so thats not good bt give it a lil more time nd see wat happend between you two..if he doesnt say nethin to you jus tell him how u feel and maybre he will feel the same way hopefully he does! hope i helped nd good luck_xOx_
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You can either tell him how you feel or don't... If you choose to tell him how you feel you are risking him not feeling the same.. but some boys need that to ever go any further in a relationship... its up to you and how you feel!
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The fact that he flirts with you and yet doesn’t commit to his actions by actually asking you out is evidence to me that he is scared of either commitment or embarrassment/rejection. This means he would probably be more comfortable with your making the first move, but I don't know that what makes him comfortable is the best thing to do. Just think calmly about what you want to do, and I assure you, your advice (being that you understand the situation) will be better than what I could guess. =)
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hey u definitly have to come out and found out how he feels im a guy n i now how we are.......retards, were not gonna think nething or do nething unless we think were gonna get somethin back. so if u want a boyfriend ur gonna have to talk to him about it
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You should tell him how you feel, but only when your ready. its better in my opinion to find out how he feels instead of driving tourself crazy wondering about it.
Simply ask him if he thinks you could ever be more than friends, if you arent brave enough to be totally straightforward and direct. Hope my advice helps. ~~~anie
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TO: friend or not
i think you should keep it at this level fer now and confirm everything first..THEN you make your move and talk to him about it..i mean if its all troo then theres reallie no problem rite? mehbe he was just shy with his frend er just dint wanna tell him..ya noe?
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hi...well i was actually just in that situation...and he is probably flirting with you because he really does like you and want to be more than just friends also...so if you say something like well ____ ive been thinking and i know that we are really good friends and all but i think that we could be more then that and i have a feeling you feel the same way bcuz of the signals ur sending me, and if that doesnt work then just act like nothing happened and then it will drive him crazy and he will wanna b with you too! good luck with ur guy!!!!!!
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omg!! i am sooo goin through that exact same thing! i think that if you really r into him then go for it. but just becareful because if it ever comes to a break up or ne thing then you prolly wont ever talk to him again! i mean it could totally ruin everything so before you ask him out or w/e think about it think if you ever broke up how would he react! and if you would still wanna b friends with him.
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I think you should casually ask this kid if he wants to try going out to like the movies or something out of the party situation and see how he asks around you..and if it turns out well u should bring up that you want to be more than friends with him and see how he responds to you about that
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Tell him how you feel...most guys like bold girls anyways...hope i helped GOOD LUCK!!
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