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Gender: Female
Location: Bastrop, Texas
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Age: 15
AIM: xX aSh Xx O7
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Last Update: January 29, 2005
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I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out! (link)
Well if you really like the guy then go back and talk to him and be like hey well i decided that i would rather go with you than with my friends so if you still want to then lets go! and if he says i was kidding then just move on but if you have liked him seriously for the last year then you should do something about it and either get over it or talk to him! and if hes mean to you on aim it could just be that he is too afraid to do it during class and that he is just flirting so drop on in my box if you need somethin else
ash


Hello. Im asking advice today for a stupid little problem i have, but im not sure if there is any way i could control it. If im in school, or with my friends, or whatever (by the way im 14), when they mention "mom" or "dad", or "family", my eyes start to water and i just about cry. Not the "WAA-WAA" kind, it is just the red face, tears coming down and stuff, no squeaking or any of that crazy stuff. I cant say anything about parents or anything. When i talk about my family when someone asks, my voice gets shaky and i choke, and it makes me very uncomfortable because crying in front of the class isnt really a fun interest. I cry because my family has...problems. I just feel like i want either them or me to die. I feel like i hate them so much. Its not some "im mad at them because they took away my cell phone" kind of thing. Its more of a love issue. Im seeing a therapist but that is not working, she's not changing them. Well, in a nutshell, whenever someone talks about their parents, and when i talk about mine, i cry. Umm, i hope someone can help me with this, if its possible. Thank you. (link)
well im really sorry that you are having problems with your family and no that isnt stupid because no question is stupid unless you are trying to be stupid about it and i would need more details to really help you so just drop one in my box


well how to start... ok so me and my b/f have been experimenting alittle bit more lately, and the other day he started like kissing my boobs and sucking my nipples and stuff like that... well today they're really sore and they kinda sting/hurt... does anybody know why this is?? or what's causing it? (link)
man how hard was he suckin on ur boob...did he think he was gonna get somethin outta there or what? yeah b/c its a sensitive area!!!!


well i've been crushing on this kid 4 a while aka 4 yrs.{yeah i kno its a long time}:( and now all my friends especially my best friend is in love with him and he is starting to like her..i miss him so much and i wish i could get him bak...does any1 have any ideas...thanks


head over heels in love (link)
head over heels~~
well to tell you the truth...there isnt too much you can do about this unless you want to talk to your friends and tell them to back off and if they are really true to you then they will and they will talk to the kid for you! but if they wont then you could go to the guy if you felt comfortable but otherwise wait and eventually he will come around but meantime, find another significant other and have fun because once the kid sees you with another person he will want you back really fast!!!

~~ashley~~
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im 13 yrs old and a gurl i want to know a good FUNNY halloween costume i know its early but i want an original cool costume. but i dont wwant it to cost too much whats to best costume you've ever seen? (link)
u should be nicole richie from the simple life and go around sayin 'thats hot' all night! thatll give ppl a laugh!!!
drop one in my box if u want
*~aSh~*


I got in a fight with my friend becasuse she thinks i called her a slut but i didnt and ive said sorry but she wont except it what should i do? (link)
the only thing that you can do is ask her why she would think that you called her a slut and tell her and reassure her that you didnt and if she is then you can say do you just think i called you that bcuz you think you are one b/c i didnt ever call you that! but really...do and say just whatever comes to your mind.
if you have anymore ?s just drop one in my box!!
*~aSh~*


My horse started limping yesterday and I dont know whats wrong with her. She is 23 years old but acts like a young horse. I cant afford to take her to the vet because Im only 13 and I already babysit to get her food. i even got her for free! I would really like to know what is wrong with her. (link)
she might have something in her hoof on the foot she is limping on...check and get it out if there is something in it and if not then feel her leg for any welps or bumps that the other legs dont have...and if it doesnt get better in a few days i would say that you need to get her to the vet...just ask your parents for a little money to help out your horse...trust me...even though you might not have money now its better to have no money then have no horse...i have 3 myself and one of them was limping a few weeks ago...i took him to the vet and it turns out he got bit by a snake and he is fine now but its a good thing i took him b/c he couldve really gotten sick...so let me know if i can help anymore and just drop ur ?s in my box!
*~ash~*


Where can I find cute quotes?? (link)
www.firehotquotes.com


Does anyone know any sad songs maybe something that makes you or someone u know cry? The name and who sings it? (link)
well there are a ton of songs that make me cry.
there goes my life - kenny chesney
im already there - lonestar
holes in the floor of heaven - mark wills
wish you were here- mark wills
shes my kinda rain - tim mcgraw
the little girl - john micheal montgomery (extra sad!!!)
(iF u NeEd NeThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My BoX!)

*~ash~*


I'm a 15 yr old gurl and i'm in love with the show Lizzie McGuire. Its a disney show... made for like little kids. Am I totally retarded for liking this show? I dont know why I like it SO much but i realllllly do! I watch it everyday... twice a day! and I have a tape of all the recorded episodes which I watch a lot too. And of course the Lizzie McGuire movie too!!!!! I just cant get enough. I even cut my hair like hers (of course it looks better on her but whatev) please help i dont know what to do
Signed,
Confused Gurl (link)
Dear Confused Gurl,
i know you probably wont believe me cuz people usually dont, but hilary is one of my really really good friends, we grew up together. And her show targets girls and guys between the ages of 9 and 17. and i know alot of girls who are 18 and 19 and are totally obsessed with her and her show! so no worries! you just like it and if you like something dont hold back! just sit back and enjoy the show!
(iF u NeEd NeThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My BoX!)

*~ash~*


Is 5'5 tall for a 16 almost 17 year old girl? I am worried that I am too tall... (link)
your not too tall...im 5'10 and 15 so its okay! ur not too tall but if you think you are too tall then try not to wear heels and stuff that makes you look taller!!!
(iF u NeEd NeThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My BoX!)

*~ash~*


i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips? (link)
yes! if you wear it around the house for the day you will get used to it and soon you cant even tell the difference between regular underwear n thongs! good luck!!
(iF u NeEd NeThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My BoX!)
*~ash~*


Does anyone know how much clothes normally cost at Forever 21? I'm going there for clothes this weekend and I just wanted to know how much money to bring in advance. (link)
well it really depends on what you will be buying but usually the clothes are around 7-25 dollars!!!! so it depends on what you want and how much stuff u want to buy!
(iF u NeEd NeThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My BoX!)
*~ash~*


I'm a volleyball player - does anyone know good excercises to work on my jump? (link)
well i play vball to and i have a trampoline and it helps to jump on a trampoline and get ur legs really strong...also you can see how high you can jump by using a basketball goal and c how close you get to the rim...you just need to practice your approach w/ your jump included! good luck!
(iF u NeEd NeThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My BoX!)
*~ash~*


Are you supposed to wear underwear while playing volleyball in spandex? (link)
yah...but it helps to wear a thong...it wont bunch up and feel all weird and NO MORE PANTYLINES! haha yay! lol...but definatly wear underwear!!!!
(iF u NeEd NeThInG eLsE jUsT dRoP oNe In My BoX!)
*~ash~*


what are some good ways to get rid of the fat on your thighs (sp)?? and what's a good way to make them stronger because i'm a cheerleading and i need a lot of leg muscle. please help asap! (link)
do lunges and if you can go to a gym it helps to do squats! running up and down stairs or using an eliptical machine will help too!
hope i helped
if u need anything just drop one in my box!
*~aSh~*


does anyone know any good clothes stores with cheap clothes? i'm not saying cheap cheap but cheaper than abercrombie type cheap. help asap! i rate REALLY good! (link)
tj max
bealls
pacsun
aeropostale
forever 21
charlotte rousse
wet seal
579
gadzooks
target
walmart
kohls (i think thats how u spell it)
hope u find some clothes cheap!
if u need anything else just drop a ? in my box!
*~AsH~*


how do u tell a guy that u like him?
(link)
just be like hey i like you
if u have any more ??s just drop em in my box!
hope i helped!
xox ash xox


Does anyone know any good places to get good brands of hair straightners (sp)? what are some good brands??? please respond asap i rate really good! (link)
if you need a good one try a chi...but they are usually about 100 bucks! so if u want that one u can get on ebay n itll be somewhat cheaper but ulta and target usually have semi good brands for like 15 bucks! if u have nemore questions then just drop one in my box!
xox ash xox


what is the right age to have sex and what are some good things to do? (link)
well when you are a little bit older and REALLY in love...
~ash~




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