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help me out here I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out!
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Obviously he likes you since he asked you out. He was probably being mean because he thought you were rejecting him and he didn't want you to know that it hurt his feelings.Hope I helped! ]
he problly really likes you because a guys usual.. type of way about showing that he likes you is pissing you off nd shit it gets anoying.. buttt.. he wouldnt of asked you to the movies if he didnt like you.. soo yeahh just ask him.. and tell me how it goes..!!
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If he's nice in person talk to him in person. Since he's mean on AIM don't ask him if he likes you there. Just ask if it was a joke online or what. I hope I helped! ]
Well if you really like the guy then go back and talk to him and be like hey well i decided that i would rather go with you than with my friends so if you still want to then lets go! and if he says i was kidding then just move on but if you have liked him seriously for the last year then you should do something about it and either get over it or talk to him! and if hes mean to you on aim it could just be that he is too afraid to do it during class and that he is just flirting so drop on in my box if you need somethin else
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Well i would get back to him and takl to him and ask if he wants to come and he can bring a buddy with to. Like a double date or just a fun outing with friends. You shouldnt have said it but its okay cuz we all do things like that. Just talk to him again-trix ]
I think that he is just shy to tell you how he really feels... if he is joking than move on... but if ur pretty sure he's not ask your friend if you can see a different movie with her and than go out with this guy... i would take a risk and ask him out. ]
You should ask him to go with you and your friend if the friend is fine with it. You could also tell him that even though plans wont work this time maybe you could go to another movie another time? This is a tough subject. If you like him let him know, if he knows ask him if he likes you or if it was a joke. Good Luck! ]
Well this guy you say you like probably does like you,and the only reason why he probably says mean things to you online is because he's probably just shy and has a hard time showing his feelings to you and maybe is a little hard headed w/ his feelings too. i suggest that you go up to him and confront your feelings. For example, ask him how he feels. You should invite him somewhere and go and hang out together so you can get to know each other, when you finally go somewhere with him tell him you have a little crush on him and see if he feels the same. ]
Ask your friend to pass a note around to alot of people and in the note say do u like so in so
and IM him and envite him somewhere like to a movie or something.And if he says no then just forget about it ask one of ur friends.There r plenty of other fish in the sea
Hope it helps
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omg!! if you like him, why didnt you say "yes"? but nevermind thats alright cause i know why you did but anyways. guyz are really confusing so i dont know whats going on in his little mind of his!! jk, but he might, cause why else would he ask.. i mean a guys not gunna go: wanna see it with me!! O eww no i hate you.. thats just kind of not you know... ]
Well, he might have been joking but not joking at the same time. Get what i mean?? anyways ask him if we wants to go see another movie sometime to make up for when u couldn't go see if that works hope i helped! ]
well the only way to find out is to casually ask about another movie and if he hasn't seen it, you ask him to go to it. good luck! hope it works out... oh and with the 'fine your loss' bit, well when wounded guys try act tough and joke around so just ignore it. :)
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