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G J L R
female
hey guys
well there are a bunch of girls that are best friends in mi class. Lets call them G, J, L, and R.
ok well L is a new girl in mi class this year. She is an aweful person. She talks about G J and R behind their backs. And no one liikes L in the first place. G J R and myself are bffs tho (ever since 2nd grade). Today in skewl everything was crazi. All of us were going crazy because L J and R were all talking about G behing her back and calling her bossy and a B*tch and stuff like that. It happened 2 times TODAY!. the first time i heard but i didnt tell any1 then the second time, G was right there and heard them so she told off L because ever since L came to our school, she has caused all of us to fight at least once. G was totally bummed and it ended up making her cry at the very end of the skewl day. She would NEVER talk about L R or J behind their backs. Now I am afraid because we all are helping out at skewl on sunday with open house for skewl. so right now i'm soo confused and I cant stay out of this because we are only friends with eachother and dont like the other grls as bffs and i just cant stay away from mi friends. They have been in fights b4 but i have a feeling that this is the end of all of us being friends. It is going to split us up. Just talking doesnt help with these girls. Should I totally ignore R and J ?? its kinda hard because just talking and trying to figure things out doesn't help. R and J ALWAYS wait for me to get mi books and walk w/ me to class. And also me and J have a Notebook for passing notes but we write sort of like a diary entry one night at home and then the other person gets the notebook the next nigght and responds w/ a "diary entry"
I'm also very mad at R and J (i was never friends w/ L) because it totally surprise me that they would do something like that. what should i do!?¿¿¿
please help
sorry it was sooo long
signed
bff trooubles
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Why don't you invite J,G and R round to your house and spend a girly night in. Have a truthful talk to each other about the whole problem and anything else that's been bothering any of you. Try to get R and J to apologise to G and explain why they did it. It would also be good, seeing as you say nobody likes her anyway, to make a pact as friends not to let L get in the way of your friendship and it would probably be best for all of you if you stopped talking to L. Unless of course she starts to talk to any of you, then I would suggest that you keep your answers short and end the conversation as quickly as possible without being rude, as this may just result in a large confrontation otherwise. After your talks do something that you all enjoy doing, like watching a movie, to help you start to bond as friends again. Best of luck, hope everything turns out okay.
Claire xx
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find a drug dealer and get stoned. then realize that this garbage does not matter.
-hitler
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well tell her to back off and she needs to shutup.she is messing up ur friendship.
so dont talk to L she is mean
hope it helps
the dog lover 45
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girls are bitches. i know i am one too but it's true. girls are bitches! lol. there is always going to be some little thing causing rifts between friends and the best thing to do is to confront them. tell R and J that you overheard their conversation and you didn't think it was right whet they were doing. say you still wanna be friends but they have to stop with the bitching. what my group used to do is chooze one day a week where we sat in a circle and told each other how we felt. this doesn't work with everyone because some people get upset. but it did work for me. i'm not saying to try it. it's just a suggestion.
~ANGE
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