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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!

Well, maybe it's time that you ask a guy you like out. That is what I would do. they might not like your personality though I don't know but that might be it. Some guys don't really care about your apperience they care about the person inside. Some don't like the outside like uglyness but the inside is what they fell in love with. Hope I helped I am always here if you need me. ~Chrissie

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Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??

Middle names are always appreciated too!!

:)

Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*

*-KeLs-*

I really like the name for a girl caroline it is my sister's middle name. And for a guy I really like the nameS James Jeff Jesse Justin, oh and my cousin's name is Mark and I like that name to. Hope I answered your question...!
>3~Chrissie

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13/female

my grandma wont let me have a boyfriend and all of these guys like me and i like one of them but i cant have a boyfriend but the thing is i have gone behind her back and dated like 3 guys (not at the same time) and she didnt find out so should i just go out with him or not and how would i convince her to say yes bc my mom did alot of bad things with guys when she was my age and my grandma thinks i will turn in to her but i wont so can you help i rate 5's

Talk to your grandma and explain why you want to go out with this guy. Say that it's just a date you won't do anything and keep your word and also say you aren't your mom. Beg her to listen and even if she still says no. I would go out with him but keep it as a sercret relationship until she does say you can have one and then you come home the next day and tell her you just got with the guy you were with but pretend like you just go the boyfriend today. That might have been a little confusing but I hope I helped and I am always here and I can explain it to you more if you like just leave me a message in my inbox. Hope I was a help!
>3~Chrissie

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i was wondering, why are there so many groups in skool? like preps, goths, punks, metalheads, populars, secondary populars, loners, gunks(a mix of punks and goths), and just "others". it all just creates mayhem, like a popular cant go out with a goth, or they will loose all their friends. i think it is so stupid. can you explain to me why people must insist on putting people in different catigories? does it really matter?

What group someone is in makes them them. If they changed them then there is a problem that is why if you switched groups and now is in 2 group you can only really be one person at once. Hope I helped...>3~Chrissie

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Ok, where to start? I'm a freshman in high-school, and I totally hate high-school. I mean, its not THAT bad, but I'd prefer middle school, anyday. Last year, (in 8th grade) I had it all. Great friends, boyfriends, pretty decent grades, and everybody liked me pretty much. I was Ms. Perfect, and I was supposedly SUPER-HOT, or so everybody said. Now, I feel like crap. I'm always trying to be someone I'm not. My best friend moved away, far and we barely ever keep it contact. My other best friend, well we don't even ever hang out because I ditched her for my current best friend, and so now she had better friends, and I'm just a nobody. And my new best friend, well we've only been friends for about a year, not entirely, but the fights we get into, its unbelievable. I haven't fought like I gought with her, with my other friends for two years. I mean, she's a good friend, but gets pissed easily, I mean we're two different people, I've talked to her about it before, but ehh. I don't know what to do. Now, guys. Yeah, people still like me, but not as much. There's lots more prettier girls! And life, my social life is horrible, my parents don't let me do shit. Guys, I've had two big crushes that both liked me but things got screwed up because I was too shy. I know how people say, that if you're popular and stuff in middle school, in high school you won't be, and vice-versa. I don't know what to do about ALL of this. Please help with everyhting, get my life back o track anfd better., Thanks os much!

Okay well, in middle school you were a big fish in a small pond and now in high school you are a small fish in a big pond. What that means is that yeah we were popular and everything in middle school but you were with less people and now you are with more people so that there is more people look at and so you are the smaller one. [hope that helped a little.] But also what I am saying people still like you but they like others to they still think you are pretty because you can't really change that they just like more people. It happens all the time just you have to go with the flow, but really try not to be someone you aren't because last year you were your self right??, yeah and that is what they liked so just be yourself and maybe something might workout and things won't be the same as they used to be but you can come close to it if you do what I said. Hope I helped>3~Chrissie I'm always here if you need me!

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Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!

I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did I do to change his mind that quick. I cant talk to him about this and I wont so please dont tell me to! Help! Im so confused and hurt.

OKay, well he was probaly embarrssed when he broke up with his girl friend for you and then you didn't brake up with yours for him and then you couldn't go with him because you did have a boyfriend already. He is trying to get you jealous so you will brake up with your b/f to go with him and that is what he is shooting for. It happens all the time. Hope I helped >3~Chrissie

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14/female
A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?

thank you

It might go away and it might not. You know it isn't the worst thing to have people think you are perfect unless they punish you for being prefect. But like they are probaly jealous of how perfect of you that is why they get mad so just ignore them and hopefully they'll stop bugging you.
Hope I helped>3~Chrissie

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My boyfriend says that I ignore him! And I don't think I am! I talk to him whenever I see him and between almost every class and everything! I dunno if because usually my friends are around he doesn't want to talk or what. I've tried talking to him more and talking to him when no one else is around. Is he just like really shy or what? Cause it's like really annoying when he says that I don't talk to him or else I ignore him! Help!

Well, you have to ask yourself... Does he talk to you or are you always talking to him. That answer is probaly you are always being the one to come out and talk to him. SoooOOo tell him that. Also tell him that you do not understand when you are ignoring him and tell him everything you told me about you always talk to him and stuff. Be honest and maybe if he doesn't understand your point of view who knows you guys were maybe never meant to be.....hope I helped but I hope that you guys will work this out and you'll compromise...>3~Chrissie

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well i have this friend and she is all nice and stuff around me...but when another person is around us shes different...for example today we went to abercrombie and i grabbed this shirt and she said she didnt like it...but then when my other friend came and said she liked it, she changed her mind...what should i do about it?

Your friend is obvisly a follower and does things that someone she thinks is cool does. She can't find her self to be her self. You should tell her to stop being a follower and be your self and do what you want. Tell her this the next time she be's a follower. Hope I helped!! I am always here!!

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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend (I ama female, if you were wondering). I'm 16 and he is 15. Although, it was a teenage relationship, we did love each other. It might not have been that deep and meaningful kind where people get married, but it was love nonetheless. Whenever we hung out, I'd get butterflies and I would be happy, something I haven't felt in a while. Towards the last few days before I broke up with him, he wasn't really there. I felt like he was avoiding me, he wouldn't tell me anything when I did ask him, and we barely talked. Then the day before I did end it, he told me he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me or not, which made me decide to end it. On the day we broke up, I cried...a lot. Then, that was it. Every now and then I'll think about him and get a bit sad, but otherwise I am very happy. Being as he was my first love, I relaized there will be others and that I should move on, and I am trying to be positive.I can't help but feel guilty that I am not that sad over our breakup. Any advice?

Good for you for braking up and thinking of positive. I know braking up with our first love is hard but you have to and sure you'll be sadder then you have ever been but you did good thinking of positive and more. And it was a good thing you did brake up you both didn't seem to pleased with each other.>3 Chrissie

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I'm sixteen years old, and I'm in a long distance relationship. (I'm a girl.) I mean long distance. I used to live in Mississippi, but my parents moved to California about a year ago. I met this guy through my sister, they were really good friends when we lived there, and we completely hit it off. We've been together for a year now, and I fly out there every chance I get. I mean things were serious, he has bought me a ring and everything, and we always talked about how we were gonna get married, how many children we'd have, etc. Lately, things have been kind of rough. He gets so angry with me about everything I say, and it gets scary. I admit, sometimes I do bring it on myself, but he always gets entirely too pissed. Tonight, I was talking to him about my friend, and he kept talking about how ugly and disgusting she is, and I asked him if when we broke up, he said that same stuff about me. He got completely pissed off, said I was fucking someone out here, and that I was a liar, and all I ever do is start shit with him. Well, we broke up. I'm feeling really fucking alone and empty right now. I just need to know how to feel better.. I can't stop thinking about it and I'm going insane. I want him back so fucking badly, he's my best fucking friend in the whole world and I really, really, REALLY am hurting. I thought we would make up, so I didn't take it seriously, and then his mom made him get off the phone, and I just knew it was over. I was crying really badly, and I told him and I hated him and I wished that he was dead. I regret it so fucking much, but he's not gonna care. Please, just give me some advice on how to get over him, or get him back and stop pissing him off, or something.

Well, I think your relationship is kinda over. But you could try to get it back and tell him that you didn't mean anything and you were just asking him a question didn't mean I wanted to brake up. Tell him the truth and be honest with him. Tell him you love him dearly and you really don't want to lose him. But maybe losing him might be for the best you know? Sometimes friends and bf and gf get to close like in relationship wise and then they start fighting and stuff and braking the relationship is sometimes for the best. I hope I helped And tell me how it goes.>3 ~Chrissie

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okay, im 14/f and i havent had a boyfriend yet all my friends have at least been asked out and many have had boyfriends..no one has asked me yet and im old fashioned i wont ask a guy out i really want a boyfriend and all my friends have one i think im ugly and thats why no one asked me out please help me--desperate

Well, they are up and downs about boyfriends. Sometimes they are a good thing and sometimes they brake your heart and you are really sad. Don't rush into these type of things and don't be a follower. Have a boyfriend because you love him and that he means alot to you. I hope I helped! Oh and no one is ugly there is someone in the world for everyone~!~Chrissie

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im gonna restate this

my best friend broke up with her boyfriend last year in like march. during the summeri started to like him and she didnt seem to have a problem and i was always waiting there with me until he came online. then he asked me if i liked him and i was being stupid and said no. so then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said not anymore cuz she doesnt like me.. so she told me and i felt pretty stupid but got over it. a couple days ago i was talking to him online and flirting with him and i started to really like him again. so on friday i was online with him and i told him i was sorta dissapointed because no one was coming to watch me play basketball the night cuz they all had something to do. i didnt tell him what time it was or anything, i just told him what my teams record was and the name. i think he went online to the website and looked up the schedule. so anyway when i got there i didnt even notice he was there. right before the first half was over i was walking outside with my friend to get a drink and he said hi, but i didnt know it was him. after i came back in he said my name so i looked and i got all nervous, but i said hi back. after the game i was walking out but my dad was pushing me out of the gym so i noticed that he got off the bench as soon as i came in from the court but i never got to talk to him. i dunno if he likes me or not.

I think he does. But does he know for sure that you like him? so you have to tell him. And any guy that would like someone would care to come to a game if they didn't care then they wouldn't come to support you you know? ~Chrissie

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okay, me and this guy, robbie, started talking as friends at the beginning of the year, okay, so we became pretty good friends too! but then, my teacher permanatly seperated us because we talked too much! and that was the only class i had with him because he is a senior and im a freshman. so, my sister just came to my school, and is becoming friends with him, and she is always telling him something embarassing about me, or something like.. " becky said you look bad today " you kno? anything that will make him not like me. and so, he completly stopped talking to me, and it really sucks because i had started to like him. and now she came home today and was like.. " hey becky, robbie thinks you hate him!" and i want to yell at her because its her fault.. but i feel bad.. i dont know what to do!! please dont delete.. i need help soo bad!!

Well, I think your sister might like him and think he likes you so she is trying to end that and get him to hate you (which worked) and have him like her. You have to talk to him and tell him that you like him and that everything she says was unture and that you really like him and want to be more then friends. If he doenst' believe you you have to find some proof so that he will believe you. I hope I helped and I am always here if you need me!~Chrissie

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okay so was goin out wit this really cool guy and i loved to b with him we always had fun. well i just found out that he broke up with me a few days ago because he liked another gurl and he was waiting for her to like him back! and now i feel really used! and i was soo mad! i really wanna talk to him and tell him how i feel. and i wanna get over him soo bad! and i thought that i did! but then i looked in his profile and all and its all about this other gurl and how hes crazy about her! how can i get over this guy? and how can i talk to him about it w/o lookin desperate.. or looking like i want him back? (cuz i dont)

Well, just right out tell him how you feel. And maybe tell his girlfriend what he did to you and tell her you can have him I am just warning you, and good luck. Just something nice, simple, and explaining your point. Tell him right to his face and tell him that is really wrong and you broke my heart and you are soo mean. And if he doesn't seem to care say I hope you won't do it again and bye and walk away. That will hopefully help you on getting over him. And if it doesn't just try and looking at some other guys that you know won't be like the other one. Hope I helped and I am always here!~Chrissie

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Hi. I want to lose some weight. All my friends are a little bit smaller than me...and I feel embarresed when ever I got shopping with them because i have to buy bigger sizes than them. I think that I am eating more because I gained 10 puonds last year...any ideas that could help?

Well, maybe once every week or day you could go for a jog around the neighborhood. Also try and eat half of what you eat now. Also maybe some more fruits and vegie's and a little of everything except junk food! What ever you do don't eat junk food.Hope I helped!

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ok i like this guy and i have liked him for about 7 months. we went out twice. the first time only for a day then the sencond time for a week. the only reason he broke up with me he said was cuz he cheated on me but i didnt care but he didnt believe me. now we are good friends. but i want to be more than friends i want to go out with him.but he has a gf but she is realli ugly and im prettier than her her. and i look batter(body wise) im not making fun of her but i want him. wut should i do
kaitlin /14/ florida

You, should tell him that you really like him more then friends and hope that we can become that. Also explain to him that you really didn't care that he cheated on you, but you were glad he was so honest that told you. Tell him that you really want to be with him now and if there was any possible way that could happen?. Hope I helped!~Chrissie

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ok well there's this guy and he likes me and 3 of my other friends and he's obsessed w/ me and i don't mean to sound conceited but its so annoying and all he talks to me about is how hot i am and one of his favorite lines to say online is "you love me wut?" and he always does this and he's always like "i want you hardcore on the bathroom in the shower" and stuff like that and its really sickening and i want him to stop..but i mean he's one of my friends..and i hate when he does that..and he's just the most annoying person ever..and i'm sick of him saying that stuff..but i don't know how to say it..how should i tell him that he's so annoying and i want him to stop saying that kind of stuff to me..?

Well, what you have to do is say to him, "I really don't like you more then friends and I hope we can still be friends but nothing more. I am sorry but I really don't like you and I hope you can understand that, so please stop obsessing with me." That will work and if it doesn't tell me and we'll work something out that'll I'll help. I know it may sound mean and that you'll feel bad but you have to and it'll be for the best! Hope I helped!~Chrissie

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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?

Umm... yes it is you shouldn't have sex with him you are to young to really even be thinking about that. If he asks you again give him a firm answer like, "NO" and don't follow your friends, you might think it is cool at the time but later in life it won't be. Really and be honest with him and if and when you do tell him no and then he gets mad and brakes up with you, you know he was never worth having. A real guy would understand. Hope I was some help!~Chrissie

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i went out with this one guy at the beginning of the year and we went out for 3 weeks and then i dumped him and then he still liked me after that so he gave me a necklace for my birthday and then i went out w/ him again because i liked him again and then i dumped him again after 2 weeks and now like 3 months later i just realized that i still like him and the reason i dumped him before is because we talked more and everything wayy more when we were friends but i really like him again and now i'm like totally sad that he's going to be going out w/ a girl that's 2 years older than him and me and him are the same age..but idk how to tell him that i really like him again..because he keeps telling me that he never got over me and he still likes me a lot but now he's gonna go out w/ another girl..what should i say to him because i don't wanna go out w/ him again because i don't wanna risk the dumping situation again but i wanna be that friends w/ benefits type thing..how can i tell him that??

Well, Just come right and say I really love you and I know you might not trust me for all the other times you broke up with me but I really want you and I gaurentee that I won't make you sad again. Be honest with him and tell him the truth. Try and be more then the other girl he is with that he'll think you are better and brake up with the other girl. Hope I helped!~Chrissie

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