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hey all..I'm Tori♥ I love Broadway, horseback riding, hanging out with friends, Laguna Beach, talking online, xanga,myspace and giving you all advice! ask me anything you want, im pretty good at this whole advice thing =) don't forget to ask a question and rate me! ♥



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Today the kid who sits across from me(who i kind of like, but would go out with) said,"Do you want to be my girlfriend?" I said "what?" "Do you wan't to be my girlfriend?" I kind of laughed it off.
The thing is, even though i would go out with him, we fight like brother and sister so I'm not sure if he's being serious about this or not. You can't really tell with him. How do I find out if he was actually serious or not? (He asked out one of my bfs yesterday and got turned down)

Please help
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well what i would do is ask one of your friends to go ask him who he likes, then if that doesn`t work, tell them to tell him ..were you serious when you asked (your name) out? and then you`ll know!

tell me what happensss

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I'm 13 and in 8th grade, and I still haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm not HORRIBLY ugly, I actually think I'm pretty. But NO guys approach me at all. I've been told it's because I'm shy. And I am shy, but...I'm not sure if it's something else. Do you think that the fact I didn't have a boyfriend in middle school will make guys turn me down in high school? I don't want to be single forever.

okay well i can relate.. i`ve had 1 boyfriend and that was for about an hour last year..we were better off friends..anyways :)..

People in highschool aren't going to care if you have had a boyfriend or not. I'm sure that there is at LEAST one guy out there that likes you, but is shy too. Find a guy you like, and start talking to him..you only live once right :), or get an outgoing friend to talk to him and find out some stuff he likes or have her talk to him about you..But guys arent going to approach you beacuse YOUR shy, that has nothing to do with it.

Your NOT going to be single forever, and if they arent going to make the first move..then you should..what do you have to lose?
good luck sweetie!
-Tori

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i like to read books but only if there good.the books that i like have to do with people my age(14)or around that,and also with them dealing with peer pressure of drug,smoking,drinking, sex, etc. but i could never find any books. i would like to know any books that you would suggest. the title and author would be greatly appresiated(sp?)

thanks

well i really like this series of confessions of georgia nicolson and the first book is called "angus, thongs, and full-frontal snogging" they are really funny and its by Louise Rennison
or try "gossip girls" those are good too!
hope i helped

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me and four other friends had a really strong friendship.. and now one person has a boyfriend.. for a few months now. lately she has been ditching us for him.. and lying about it. she has been saying she is going with her family.. when she is really with him. the lying has really gotten out of hand.. so we talked to her and told her how we felt.. and she said last week that she was going to stop.. and she is really gonna stop ditching and lieing to us.. and then this weekend she lied and ditched us again fo him. i dont know what to do... i cant think of anything that will work to get through to her. it is upsetting all of us.. and its getting really hard. we dont want to lose her as a friend.. and we feel like we are. we have run out of ideas on how to get through to her.. can anybody help?

what I think you need to do is sit down with her one on one and tell her how YOU feel and how you think that she is distroying your friendship. Friends come before BOYFRiENDS right? and she needs to know this because it seems like she doesn`t. or if that doesnt work maybe you should stop being friends. and i know you dont want that to be an option and i know how you feel, but sweetie you need friends that can be TRUE to you.. i hope i helped and good luck sweetie!
xo
tori ♥

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i just recetly made a banner for myspace, xanga, live journals, etc. but i dont know how to turn it into html (code) so i can make it part of the layout. does anyone know the code, or know the site where i can find it? thanks in advance! will rate! < 33 xx

well go to www.imageshack.us then click on "browse" then find the banner you made and click open, then click "upload" a bunch of codes will come up but copy the one that says "direct link to image" then paste that in the code of the layout! hope that helps (hah i`m a layout maker too =])
xo,
tori ♥

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Hey-Well first I want to tell you I am 12. I am kinda loud-outgoing-myself-and isn't afraid of what anyone thinks of me! I REALLY like this guy though, hes like at my popularity level-and hes REALLY cute and nice-we have these REALLY weird conversations though-like Hey Ka! or Bye Ka!-And thats all.. Does he like me? Or not? And would my personality question this?
THANKS SOOO MUCH

hmm...well, its possible that he does, but then again that he doesn't. maybe you should ask one of your friends to ask him who he likes, or if he likes you. i dont think that your personality would affect this in any way, i always think its good to be, loud and out going, and not afraid of what people think of you!
good luck! i hoped that i helped!

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we have baby ducklings in our pool and the mother seemed to have left them and hasnt come back for acouple of days, weve given them bread but we were wondering what else we could feed them?

ohh!! i had a duck once..u need to nourish it if the mother doesnt come back.or put them in a pond somewhere else...but if you see her leave them alone..what they like is crushed corn (not cooked) but like its hard corn..and they like if you just put the hose over them..
well..i hope the mother comes back! but if not..take my advie!!

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i just tried out for solos and i didnt make it. all of my friends think im really good and all but someother people made who really werent that good. my teacher wasnts me to try out next year with a different song. im a saprano and i need some good songs that i could sing. thx

well, i sang america the beautiful..and im a saprano..

hope i helped!

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Hi! Okay i am a really thin person....i am NOT Anorexic i swear! I eat actually alot, i just dont gain the pounds as fast! But my hands in the winter they will like turn colors...like in gym they will trun purple and red and stuff. And if you squeeze them they will turn red! Is this normal...my one friend said it could be a blood clot! Help me

i think it's normal..you probably just have a high matabilism..so your body is always using up the food you eat..so it doesnt go any where..thats exactally like me..so dont worry about it...you'll be fine..butttttttt if it gets worse..and maybe you start to ache or soimething tell your parents and fgo to the docters...or..tell your parents soon and they'll probably know whats up..okay..hope that some what helped you!

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i have a friend and she always lies to me. i tried ignoring her but she just puts me on a guilt trip and i end up being friends with her again. all of her friends talk about her behind her back because she is like... socialy chalanged. all of my other friends who dont pretend to be her friend hate her and they rnt shy about showing it. ive for the most part exepted my friend's lieing problum but i still cant believe annything she sas. can someone help me? thanx and i will rate 5s for annyone who is not jokeing or being sarcastic

i've had this happen to me before..and I can tell ya..its not that easy of a problem to solve..maybe you should try to confront her about her problem and tell her about her lying problem..and that you would just like her to tell the truth..

what kind of things does she lie about? is it like..welll, i dont know..but is she emarassed about how her life is..and so she thinks making up things about it will some how make it better? i hope i helped! tell me how it goes

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im bulimic and anerexic. i dont eat. then when i do i puke. my best friend knows and wants me to stop. i want to but im not ready. what should i do?

tell your parents..and go into rehab..its not healthy and you could die if you keep this up..think about it..okay, so your not ready to "quit" but are you really more ready to lose your life?

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i like this grl an i know u know her. im not sure that she likes me , im kinda confused, i wanna ask her out becuz i like he but maybe its just cuz lots of my friends haave grlfriends. should i ask her out???? o ya im 12 years old and im a boy..... im kinda short

well, it really shouldn't matter if all your friends have girlfriends....well, if you like her and stuff..take a shot at it..and tell me how it goes!

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What is a fast way to get tan...like my mom said i she would get me a membership at a tanning bed but im scared ill get skin cancer...

hunny, i would be to..who needs to risk the fact of getting cancer..i mean..people these days think they HAVE to have a tan! welll, im not saying be like thoes old fashion people who like were scared of being tan..but yes..so yeah

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how do you make another aim screenname? i already have one, but i want another one, and on the sign-on screen where it says get a screenname, it doesnt work. HELP! i rate 5's!

okay so you go to aim.com..and then on the side you will see something that says.."for your computer..and if anything its gonna be a windows..so click on windows then go to new users click here..and then fill out all the stuff..but for the year that you are born..put like 1985..because they wont let people younger then a certain age get one..okay hope that helped!

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i fink i may have add.its attention defiect(sp?)disorder.does aneone knw the simptoms?i cant sit still for more than half an hour and my concentration span is like 10 mins.i always get told of for talking and not concentrating.one of my teachers said that i might have it and im also dyslexic and it might be linked.wat do you fink?neone know ne websits i could go on?thank you

you problay have ad/d(attention deficte hyperactive disorder) the symptoms usally are that u cant payattention..you always have to move around, you are hyper alot..but this is NOTHING to be embarassed about..ask your parents if you can get tested for ad/hd and if you are tested positive(wich you probaly will be) they will give you medice..witch will really help you..you will focus better..and even get better grades..with ad/hd you can also tend to be impulsive..its when you say things befor you think about saying it..like if you snap at your teacher..but you didnt mean to say it..do a google search and there will be some good sights...if you have any more questions about ad/hd..or anything else..you can ALWAYS aske me..hope that helped!

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i have three rabbits but one of them seems to of lost all his body fat this winter has anyone else experineced this????? he is eating fine he is his normal self

yes..when i had my bunny..he lost wieght over the winter..they jsut are getting used to the colder weather is all..make sure you are still giving him a balanced diet with fresh foods and dry food..and it should be just fine.

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well, about a year ago, i got hit by a car and broke my thigh bone, the doctor put two screws in it.. recently, the doctor told me i had to go into day sergery to get them out, i asked what it was, i he sed that you had to be awake throughout the whole entire thing! i got so scared... should i go though it, cuz he sed i have a choice, does it hurt alot?? help!

they will numb it..so u wont feel a thing! thats what they did to me wheni got stiches..it doesnt hurt..and i know removing screws and getting stiches are totally different things..but dont be worried..the doctor knows what he is doing!

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i know its dumb, but i always get emotional on the last day of school. this year, im graduating 6th grade and im afraid ill cry and look dumb.

..hey! thats no problem! alot of people cry when they gratuate..even elementary school! i bet some of your friends will cry too! dont be worried!!

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ok.... my "so called friends" r blaming me for an email that I didnt write but they wont belive me. they were calling me names and crap then they wrot me emails that were really mean.. Everyone wants out of this expect the ppl blaming me!! so i have ICQ then this girl of me so called friens was cussing me out!!! then on the bus they were throwing paper at me now they really hate me... and the worst thin about the fight is that one of my friends r my science lab parenter!!!!! then she acts liked everything is ok but it is not

what should i do

i rate 5's!!!

signed
confused

MAYBE you should just forget about them..they arent really ur friends..right? if they were your friends they WOULD believe you right?? right. i wouldnt ride the bus anymore..those people have p-r-o-b-l-e-m-s! wow, throwing paper at u..how imature can they possibly be?tell ur parents about them..they will do sumthing..
hope that helped!!

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My friend is jealous of me and i didn't think it would be a problem like wahooo she's jealous of me doesn't make a difference. But then i told another one of my friend's that she was jealous of me and like would be at different moods like one day she be sooo nice and caring and loving adn the next day she would be like ignoring me hangiung around other people and like telling me stuff that really hurt me. My other friend said that it is jealously and that she is trying to get me mad at her and then she'll use that against me. I don't believe she'll do that but i jut don't understand her anymore. I feel she might be trying to replace me. I sometimes don't sleep or eat becuse i thinking about what lifew would be with out her and i miss her so much when i try and hang around different people or if i don't talk to her... i don't want to lose her but maybe it might be for the best if she is gonna be really mean and hurt me alot i really reeally don't want to do that. Help me what should i do...??

i think that you should confront her about your problem. Maybe it hurts her because of all the cool things that you do, and she wants to do the same..but she just can't. If she were a really good friend..she would never use anything against you. Was this girl..should i say "popular"..and maybe you have become more popular then her..maybe you guys have been friends for sooo ong that every little thing you do just makes her angry. Maybe she is hanging out with other people not to "replace" you..but to see if your simply the best friend she has..does she come running back to you everytime something bad happens to her? because she knows only you can make it better? it may be hard for you to see it, but i bet this girl feels the same way twords you..she just doesnt like to show it. anyways tell this girl how you feel..it will help.
sorry for the long anwser

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