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what would you say if u wanted to break up with your guy?

first of all, be as kind and affectionate as possible. honestly say- i don't think this is working out. let him know the qualities of your relationship, and tell him your reasons that you don't wanna be together anymore. try to make him think about the bright side of things, and, if you two can still be friends, be sure to tell him that. like i said, don't act rude; no matter how much you really don't wanna be with him anymore, keep things positive.

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my sister has acid reflex and has been to the hospital atlest 18 times in one year.. i wouldnt blame her if she is completly tierd of it..she is fed up with it.. and when i was on vacation she um... cut her arm and my mom told me wut happened... i was so scared.. and when i think of ppl cutting themselves i think my sister would be the last person the earth to do someting like that.. shes really smart and has a loving family... my mom told me to say nothing..but im afraid to spend time with her becuase im scared... just really scared to face the fact... i didnt belive it untill i saw the wowned... i just wanted to break down and cry.. i asked her wut it was from and she said nothing.. the second time i asked she said she accsidentaly cut herself.... later that day i told her that i knew she was smart..that i look up to her.. and shes smart enought not to do n e thing stupid... im very scared.. can u please gve me some advice

this is a pretty dangerous situation. of course, someone who feels "different" from others would have a reason to do something like this... but in my personal opinion, that is no reason to cut yourself. i can imagine how you feel around her; but don't try to act unusual, or she'll feel even more uncomfortable. the best thing you can do for now is to remember that your sister is a smart person, and that she would never intentionally hurt herself... she might just be trying to cool herself down. also know that it's not your fault; you or your family should not be the reason she's doing this. you can't make her stop doing whatever she's doing; she might just get mad. basically just let her be, and hopefully it will die down soon. good luck to both of you.

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Ok. I am going to a new school this September called South County. I'm leaving my old school and all my good friends there. So, the last day of school, in the afternoon, my friend called me a b****. And I found out. :( She called me that cause I was mad at her for all of a sudden being so sensitive towards me and what i had in my profile. For 3 weeks, she would IM and start harassing me and asking questions that would just get to you, like: you left our school, cause of us didnt you? you hate us! those 8 years i had together with you were all wasted". So i got a new sn and didnt tell anyone at that school. she would go on my xanga and start bugging me again. so i called her to settle it. and we did. but i didnt trust her cause one night i got on my old sn and this girl and my friend were talking behind my back. like starting rumors about me saying that i hate everyone from my old school and naming my other people and what i said abut them. and i didnt say anything like that! helppp!!!

i think you should talk this out with your old friends. ask them why they thought you were leaving them because you hated them; and tell them that it isn't true. if they hear it from your own voice, they should believe it. and if they don't... go ahead and tell them why it isn't true. explain to them the facts that say you didn't have a choice. if these friends aren't going to the new school, tell them you'll miss them. let them know that you still do care about them, and that you can still keep in touch. in the meantime, have a great time at South County... make some new friends. but try not to act like you're totally ignoroing your old ones. let me know how this works out.

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my friends are changing... theres 2 groups i hang out with, preps and my other friends, when i go to middle school do u think they would change and the preps don't like my other friends but they are all my friends, what should i do?? should i just not be friends with one of them??

plz answer!

you can be friends with a million people, as long you're true to all of them. it doesn't matter if the groups get along... they may argue, but it's not your fault at all. i doubt one group will slowly transform into the other and they'll easily just start to get along, but it could happen. you could even try to help them get to know eachother yourself... just don't push it. start by simply asking, "how do you feel about (other group's name)?" take it slow, but stay friends with both of them no matter what.

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My friend is going preppy, and she's not talking to me anymore... I guess she doesn't like me, but she told me that she was gonna invite me to her b-day party but she didn't then she told me that she was gonna invite me to the end of the year one... And she didn't invited me. Should i talk to her or what should i do?

is this the same person who asked the same question a few days ago?
whether or not it is... i'll still say that it really is your choice if you still want to be friends with her, talk to her, anything. you're right; if she promised you that you would be invited and she broke the promise, that's not much of a friend to me. then again, it wouldn't hurt to ask her about it; she could have a good reason. again... it's your choice.

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Heyy....Well lets start like this... this gurl in mi class (im in 7th grade n a gurl) is well was reely nice n she said she would invite me to this party cas i helped with it a lil but then she didnt so then i thought she woold invite to her end of the yeer party n then she didnt again! She was really nice n she use to be so caring n stuff but now she turned into a prep n shes not nice anymore... should I still even talk to this gurl?? Shes gettin annoyin n stuff so i dunno wut I shoold do.....

hmm... if you really don't like her, it's your choice to still speak to her or not. it's pretty bad that she didn't invite you to either party, but maybe it's just cus you guys have grown apart since she told you you would be there. there are always reasons. otherwise, you can always try finding a more loyal friend

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Ok i really like a boy. This boy use to like me but now i dont think he does. I think he knows i like him. But my point is that i really want him to ask me out but how do i let him to ask me out?? i really need help!

easy... you can ask him out yourself. who ever made up a rule that guys had to do all the talking? who knows... they could be just as nervous as us girls. if that's a little too bold for you, try and clue him in that he's your crush; either that or ask a friend to just casually let him know, without him finding out that you wanted to tell him yourself. hopefully he'll get the picture.

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ok i ask this girl out and she said yes but her old boyfriend keeps puting hes arm around her only when i am there how do i deal with this and is acting like he is still her boyfriend

just let it go... if she already said yes to you, then she said yes to you. he may still like her and must be jealous of you, either that or he's playing a joke. but... the girl may be showing you a sign. you never know... girls can be pretty confusing =P

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ok im really confused here....i have a boyfriend....who is awesome in everyway!!! but i just don't feel comfortable around him...(he a tad bit shorter than I)when he calls i picture him being as hot as hot could be! and some of my friends say im being shallow (and when they did i started 2 cry so much) am i being shallow?? or does this happen everyone? what should i do to stop??

there's no problem with you liking a guy who's shorter than you! as long as you love them for their personality and kindness, what on the inside, that's all that matters. you're not one bit shallow. tell your friends why you like him, not why you like him because he's short. it's hard to find a perfect guy for you who's awesome in every way. hold on to him.

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when im at school people call me mean (guys who rn't really my friends)...and i pretend not to care...but it kills me to no that people think im mean...both my parents r in the army so i take after them a lot...is that y people think im mean?? what should i do to be nice? (all my friends think that im great! nice,sweet,loving and funny) but others...think im horrible,awful, and everything bad....and im starting to think that i m mean.....

as long as your friends know who you truly are, you'll have a great life; trust me. you don't have to listen to those other guys who think you're mean and don't know who you really are, because they're not your friends. they don't know you. but, if you'd like to improve your kindness, try not to boss people around, i guess...if that's what you're calling "mean". other ways of being mean are saying things that aren't meant to be said to people. if that's what you do, try to cut down on that, too.

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alright.. thx that was good adiice but... hes never really on... and im way too shy to call him... im friends with most of his friends... there funny too... im on the oppostite team and hes in mr.kelly's class... i dont think he liks me.i try to impress him by trying my best to look pretty everyday... but he doesnt seem to notice.. i wont give up tho. i sitll do have confidance.... we talk freely as if we've known eachother for the longest time... when i talk to him online.. i feel as if im floating on the tops of clouds. kiddish noncence i know... but we only met last year.. and ive liked him ever sence.. hes a sweetie and i apsolutly love hanging out with him.. i watch him ply football with his friends at recess. but from a distance. i walk by him just to see if he notices.. i dont know wut to do.. i need more advice!
i would appreciate ne thing u trow at me,
attracted to a trouble making sweet heart gal

keep at it. start more conversations with him. tell him directly that you like him. make time for him. maybe he'll make time for you...but firstly let him know how much you care about him. he won't know anything until you tell him!

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Hey-Well first I want to tell you I am 12. I am kinda loud-outgoing-myself-and isn't afraid of what anyone thinks of me! I REALLY like this guy though, hes like at my popularity level-and hes REALLY cute and nice-we have these REALLY weird conversations though-like Hey Ka! or Bye Ka!-And thats all.. Does he like me? Or not? And would my personality question this?
THANKS SOOO MUCH

it's great to know you're outgoing...it's not the best idea when you like a guy but are too shy to talk to them. try making a bit more conversation with the guy; like one day, if he says 'hey', ask him a question that can get you two talking. i can't really tell from the conversations you've mentioned whether he likes you or not...sorry. go for it, though, be that bold girl and clue him in that you like him. there is a chance that he likes you, too.

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ok well you see i dated this girl and then we broke up and she knows that i still like her and i think she likes me but im not quite sure.but shes always talkin to thes other guys...ALOT, but see i wasnt such a great guy to her and i think that she just wants to get back at me or i dunno..but i really like this girl and i wanna try it again with her and do more things with her....could you help?

i don't think this girl is trying to get back at you. just because she talks to other guys doesn't mean she's flirting with them. she may just be nervous whenever you're around and thinks she has nothing better to do. you never know --- she could still like you. ask her why she always talks to guys; or you could even try figuring ir out yourself. also try asking her what she thinks of getting back together again. if she says yes, you're in luck. if she says no, let her cool down. but there may be a chance.

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okay heres the deal.... i like this guy at skool.. but im not so sure he likes me.. hes not hott.. be hes REALLY REALLY nice to me.. hes mean but in a funny way to other ppl.. he gets in trouble sometimes.. and hes in another class.. im too shy to say more then 5 words to him.. where friends but not as close as i am with other guys... we wanna hang out together but we can never find out a way how to.. im weird and attracted to this sweet trouble maker... i need advice on anything.. oh yes.. and i wil be rating!. thanx

i think the best way for you to approach the guy is just to tell him how much you like him. try to find time after school or on weekends to hang out with him...just talking on the phone or on IM could be considered 'hanging out'. remember, don't be shy around your crush! the only way you'll get to know him is by talking to him! if he's nice to you, you never know --- he could like you too. first try becoming friends with him, then gradually let him know that you may want to be a little more than that. let me know what happens.

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wht sport should i play?

hmm...i think i'll have to leave you on your own with that decision. it really depends on what you're interested in. but if you really really can't choose, then...if you're a girl, i'd suggest dance. if you're a boy and not easily embarassed, i'd also suggest dance. it's fun! ...if you're not a very 'uneasily embarassed' type of guy, basketball's awesome, too. even for a girl!

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how do you no if a girl likes you but does not want to go out with you

now that's a pretty hard question. i'm not sure if i can answer that, because nobody can really tell if a person likes you. the only thing to do would be to ask a friend, or the girl herself. remember that you don't have to say yes to a person you like.

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ok i asked this girl out and i give her more time and then she says i am not ready what does this mean

it just means that it's not the right time to ask her. she probably just had a boyfriend and realized that it's can be pretty hard being in a relationship. so make sure you know that she didn't say no because she doesn't like you; it just wasn't the right time. keep her posted and maybe one day you can try again and she'll say yes.

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okay, so theres this guy, we were togather and i broke up with him, i mean i didnt relly like him nd all, but he still relly likes me and i feel relly badd! soo what should i dooo??? plz help i rate 5's!

LoSt aNd CoNfUsEd

dear lost and confused, i think you should let the guy know that you're still posted. who knows --- one day you may actually be interested in him. just tell him you're not ready for now, but don't nesessarily tell him that you "just don't like him". he might feel heartbroken. but do try to inform him that you don't hate him...also let him know that you two can still be friends.

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ok so there is this girl i like and her and her ex broke up and now i asked this girl out and it turns out the ex still likes her should i stay confidant will she choose the ex or me

i can understand your situation. you should still stay confident. but the whole thing really depends on what the girl says, cus her ex still likes her, so she may like him back. if she does liek him, that's okay; maybe she just wasn't right for you. keep in touch and tell me what happens.

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ok well theres this kid i like, and i just realized i like him, and he hasnt been picking up his phone and he hasnt been online, and i miss him so much, and it really got to me last night because i almost started crying, and its depressing me because i havent talked to him yet.

try catching him at school and talking to him, or leave a message of his phone...or if he has a cell phone, try that. you can even send him a letter. don't get depressed about not talking to him, because you'll reach him sometime sooner or later. try your best to stay positive.

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