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My Friends Are All Suddenly Starting To Talk About Me (in me
Ok. I am going to a new school this September called South County. I'm leaving my old school and all my good friends there. So, the last day of school, in the afternoon, my friend called me a b****. And I found out. :( She called me that cause I was mad at her for all of a sudden being so sensitive towards me and what i had in my profile. For 3 weeks, she would IM and start harassing me and asking questions that would just get to you, like: you left our school, cause of us didnt you? you hate us! those 8 years i had together with you were all wasted". So i got a new sn and didnt tell anyone at that school. she would go on my xanga and start bugging me again. so i called her to settle it. and we did. but i didnt trust her cause one night i got on my old sn and this girl and my friend were talking behind my back. like starting rumors about me saying that i hate everyone from my old school and naming my other people and what i said abut them. and i didnt say anything like that! helppp!!!
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i think you should talk this out with your old friends. ask them why they thought you were leaving them because you hated them; and tell them that it isn't true. if they hear it from your own voice, they should believe it. and if they don't... go ahead and tell them why it isn't true. explain to them the facts that say you didn't have a choice. if these friends aren't going to the new school, tell them you'll miss them. let them know that you still do care about them, and that you can still keep in touch. in the meantime, have a great time at South County... make some new friends. but try not to act like you're totally ignoroing your old ones. let me know how this works out.
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