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jealously
My friend is jealous of me and i didn't think it would be a problem like wahooo she's jealous of me doesn't make a difference. But then i told another one of my friend's that she was jealous of me and like would be at different moods like one day she be sooo nice and caring and loving adn the next day she would be like ignoring me hangiung around other people and like telling me stuff that really hurt me. My other friend said that it is jealously and that she is trying to get me mad at her and then she'll use that against me. I don't believe she'll do that but i jut don't understand her anymore. I feel she might be trying to replace me. I sometimes don't sleep or eat becuse i thinking about what lifew would be with out her and i miss her so much when i try and hang around different people or if i don't talk to her... i don't want to lose her but maybe it might be for the best if she is gonna be really mean and hurt me alot i really reeally don't want to do that. Help me what should i do...??
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Dear,
I know how disturbing it is when good friends pull away and it’s easy to just point the finger at them and return the favor. However sometimes we need to look closely, it’s possible that your friend is under the bad influence of some of her other friends or she just needs to be mean to somebody. I will explain, sometimes people have the need to get their mean nature out, but at the same time they don’t want to offend anybody so they use their friends. I had a friend who was usually sad and she wasn’t exactly the Cool type so she couldn’t intimidate the people she disliked and what she used to do was say mean things to her friends and pretended it was a joke. Don’t forget that her actions might be a cry for help, not just a change of mind about you. So what I suggest you do is talk to your friend and ask her why she’s being mean to you and tell her that you care about her and that you don’t want to loose her as a friend. Whatever you do don’t go pulling away before you’ve tried talking and helping her. After all friendship is a golden gift.
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..sometimes you need to move on and if this girl treats you like that..then you need to slowly move away and learn to be okay with that!
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i think that you should confront her about your problem. Maybe it hurts her because of all the cool things that you do, and she wants to do the same..but she just can't. If she were a really good friend..she would never use anything against you. Was this girl..should i say "popular"..and maybe you have become more popular then her..maybe you guys have been friends for sooo ong that every little thing you do just makes her angry. Maybe she is hanging out with other people not to "replace" you..but to see if your simply the best friend she has..does she come running back to you everytime something bad happens to her? because she knows only you can make it better? it may be hard for you to see it, but i bet this girl feels the same way twords you..she just doesnt like to show it. anyways tell this girl how you feel..it will help.
sorry for the long anwser
<3 tori
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Your friend is a piece of crap. She will only hang out wiht you, if her "COOL" friends are around. Your an idiot for not noticing this. She thinks shes better than you, if shes with someone that isnt you she'll show off to them and pretend she doesnt like you. If shes just with you shes fine cuz no ones around to see her with you. Drop her.
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I know you care about her and sometimes people just do mean things to feel better about themselves, but you don't want someone in your life who is just going to constantly upset you on purpose. I had a best friend like that and I talked to her about how she would say mean things to me but in a joking way and she said she didn't know she was hurting my feelings. So you should talk it out with your friend and hope she changes but if nothing happens then maybe it's time to move on.
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i think you should talk to her...tell her how you feel and that you don't want to loose her...i bet she doesn't want to loose you either...so talk to her...
ally
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