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What are some ways that u put a tampon it that makes it easier..ive only tried sitting down but that doesnt seem to make things any easier (link)
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this may sound weird put put the back fo your ankles togehter and push your knees outwards and slitly squat..it should look like a diamond...i do this and i told my friends to do it and it works great..hope i helped
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About 2 hours ago I asked if I was going blind and I talked about my eyes and stuff. Well, I said I got a headache after that and it became worse. I layed down and I just woke up and the headache is just as bad. I still feel dizzy, and I feel like I'm going to throw up. Is this what migraines do? I took an Advil and it didnt help at all. Ugh! I feel horrible! (link)
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sorry sweetie its a migraine...i get them normally right ebfore my period..and when your vision first starts to become inpared..take tylonal extra stength..this should shorten and weaken the migrain..sorry you ad to get them too
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Ok well theirs to boys.. The one ive been on and off with since last february.. And we've been threw everything you can image together.. He was my first serious boyfriend and we did everything for each other.. But one day he cheated on me.. And its been about 2 months and every since then he's been denying it .. But i know he did and i know he just didnt want me to know but for the past 2months he;s been telling me he loves me and is sorry for everything.. Last night we went for a walk on the beach :) And he told me he loved me and cared about me and i know he wasnt lying.. And one of my xbfs Dan likes me again dont get me wrong i still care about him and what not but dan is taking me to prom and i didnt tell the other one.. and he said if i ever get back with dan he is never talking to me again.. But im deff. going to prom but i dont want to hurt dan because last time i left him for my other boyfriend.. which is the first guy i was talking about.. Should i just tell the first one im going to prom with dan and see how he reacts.. and see what happends from then on?! please help... (link)
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oh..tough one.. see i think yoou deff. should go to prom with Dan..and tell the other guy and if he gets to jealous i think thats his loss the first guy needs to realize that you are aloud tgo be friends with other guys..i say follow your heart..
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summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?
thank you. (link)
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i recomend tampax teen they are much smaller and have a more rounded end to slide in easier or PLaytex gentel glide...i suggest you start now so you can get use to them and still be able to swim i had the same problem and these two brands worked WONDERS for me..good luck!
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Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out! (link)
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ok now you have asked this question three other times later..you were afriad of rejection,, and then there was another one..stop freaking parading around that your a hoochie slut that likes other females no one cares that you have dont stuff with her three times...you a lesbian ok everyone understands that...now are you asking all these questions because you are trying to convince yourself you are...because your a lesbian got it?
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I am 13, I live in The Conroe area in Texas and I am very sexually active. It seems as if all my guy friends preasure me to do it. Like my friend Kellen... he always pushes himself up on me and I try to say NO but he does it anyways... once we start It doesn't really bother me.. but I really wanta stop!! and every1 asks me if I like Kellen or if we did have sex I always try to deny it cause I don't know what to do... Kellen's friedn Andy, always trys to have sex with me too! but I don't know! I don't want it to happen! what can I do to get them to stop? PLEASE help me! (link)
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hun if you said 'no' or told him to stop or in any way told him you didnt want it...then thats rape..now if the last time he did it was a while ago there is no proof..but the next time he does it immediatly tell you parents they will take you to a doctor and get you proof you were sexually active and you can follow through and prosacute this guy..dont feel ashamed you didnt ask for this to happen..stay strong and if you have any problems let me know..good luck hun!
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Hey, okay i'm very attracted to my best friend. I would like to go out with her.Were both girls and i'm 14 and she's 13. She said a few times it would be easy if she could be with me and that i understand and care for her better than anyone. We have experimented 3 times and we loved it just being with each other being close and intimate. I want to tell her how i feel but i get more scared when i get infront of her face. I hate rejection! It's not that i've been rejected by my friends or guys or anything i just hate it. I even feel bad and low when i call someone and they can't talk or when i ask her if she can come over. I end up getting this pity look like she's doing me a favor if she went to my house. I hate it because i make good time to be over their at her house and she can't because of her mom and her little sister. I'm very afraid and when i wanted to ask her today i just looked at her like i was doing the worst sin in the world. I feel dirty when i wanted to tell her how i felt today. I just wanna keep it a secret that i have feelings for her so i can not have rejection and still have her as close to me as we are now. I just feel like a complete loser for asking a girl to be with me. I want her to do that and then i would fall into her arms and we'd feel the love between each other and i wouldn'r feel like a loser. (link)
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wait first off are you and her both homosexual because if she is straight i wouldnt ask her out..maybe she was just doing the stuff with you so she could know how to do it with guys..not uncommon..but if your sure she likes you go for it!
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Hey, I'm 13/F and I just got my period in January. I had it for 6 days. I haven't gotten it since!! It's the end of March now which means I skipped two months?? I know I'm not pregnant (I have no idea how to spell it)
Is something wrong with me??? (link)
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it`s fine your fine..the first year or to it will be irregular..meaning you may skip a month or have it twice in one month or you may not get it for a couple months at a time..dont worry your perfectly fine!
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I know this is stupid, but I overheard people saying my best friend went to 2nd base wiht this guy and the deal is I ahve no clue what the bases are! And I'm worried about her because I don't want people talking about her if it's bad ( if she even did it) So could you please tell me what these bases are? i'm really confused and worried.. sorry so long!!
-very confused- (link)
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an easy way to remember the bases are the four F's..
1st- French kiss
2nd- Field...feeling each other up..hand jobs etc..
3dr- Finger-blow jobs..eating a girl out..fingering a girl
homerun- f**k-you know what that means..
*the bases are a little different for each "school" different teens describe it diferent ways..try asking a friend at your school what they mean because the way it is at my school may be different...there is no technical deffinition for the bases..
xOxx -hOPE i HElPed!
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whenever my friend talks to a guy i get really jelous.. its really wierd. and its only with her and nobody else. i don't get it. do i like have a crush on her or something or am i just a little protective?? help.
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...you arent jealous you just want her for yourself..you must be like me..you dont like sharing your friends you want them all for you and that is liike me there is nothing wrong with that!
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My friend and i have been friends for about a yr. I dont know if shes always been like this but shes gotten really really boring. I was talking about it to my other friend, and she agreed and said that she cant continue a conversation. Also..she hates *all* of my other friends and its annoying me. At the beggining of the school yr we were really good friends but lately shes gotten on my last nerve. Theres this one dude i like and he doesnt like me back and shes all mean about it and says..well ur mean to him and you annoy him. Shes SO friggin negative about everything and i dont know what to do, i dont want to stop being her friend completely...i just need a lot of space from her. I have other friends too and when im with them she comes up and just stands there. When i was walking with a guy she ran up to me and started walking along. She always comes out at break to see me. Its ANNOYING and i feel like i have no space. I dont know what to do or what i should say.
Anyways, the point of that whole explaination was that today at lunch i didnt want to sit in a certain spot cause the guy i like/d was there..so i walked away and she was all frustrated and like acting annoyed so i said ok if you wanna go to that spot then go , i'll just go find something else to do and i left..and i havnt seen her since then.
So..what should i do? im sorry if that was long but thats what happened.
i'll rate =) (link)
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..wow that sounds like a situation i am in and she even uses the word friggen but the ending is diff. so i know you arent her but anyways... tell her how you feel and if she cant understand she isnt worth it!
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Ok well, I think this is gonna be kinda long...maybe. But the other day at a birthday party one of my friends Sam she was like PMSin or something. And like she started being all rude and everything and then like she and Marlo and the other Sam and Anjelite were at the back room talking trash about me and Brittany (my friend) and now like they're all mad about nothing. And i didn't even do anything! It was her who started all this bs!!! Please hellp me!!!!
-Cowgirlie
PS:I'm real stubborn so I'm not gonna apologize first lol...just the way I am!! toodles! (link)
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you have nothing to apologize for!..if they were talking trash they belong IN the trash dont stick around them because if you let them get away with it this time..they are only going to do it again...unless you want to risk this...forget that hO!
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My best friend and i never told lies to each other when we were younger but now were both 14 things seem like they changed she's constantly lying to my face and i can't figure out if she's telling the truth or not anymore.What should i do i mean we're both going to different high schools next year and i still want us to be friends...???
-signed
no more lies (link)
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..as things change people do too..maybe you might need to realize that things may not work out..if things dont fall apart now..they most lily will in high school if she lies she doesnt love you...find someone you love and that loves you back..
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okay in school every one calls me a slut and im not one i never had sex,or gave anyone head!! what should i do when they call me it? please help!!
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...well do you act like a slut or dress like one?...maybe thats why and then you may need to back off..i have noticed you havnet denied ever making out with someone or fingering someone..maybe these things you have done start rumors about bigger things you have done..
..and plus...DONT LISTEN TO THEMM..you*re better than them!
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My friend is jealous of me and i didn't think it would be a problem like wahooo she's jealous of me doesn't make a difference. But then i told another one of my friend's that she was jealous of me and like would be at different moods like one day she be sooo nice and caring and loving adn the next day she would be like ignoring me hangiung around other people and like telling me stuff that really hurt me. My other friend said that it is jealously and that she is trying to get me mad at her and then she'll use that against me. I don't believe she'll do that but i jut don't understand her anymore. I feel she might be trying to replace me. I sometimes don't sleep or eat becuse i thinking about what lifew would be with out her and i miss her so much when i try and hang around different people or if i don't talk to her... i don't want to lose her but maybe it might be for the best if she is gonna be really mean and hurt me alot i really reeally don't want to do that. Help me what should i do...?? (link)
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..sometimes you need to move on and if this girl treats you like that..then you need to slowly move away and learn to be okay with that!
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See, last night I put in my tampon at about 6:00. I wore it all night long and accidentally fell asleep with it in and wore it until 9:00 this morning. My stomach hurts a little but maybe that's because i got a little drunk last night? I dont know though, I'm scared because i've read so many things about Toxic Shock Syndrome. So what should i do? Thanks!! I rate! (link)
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..i dont think it is TSS...warning signs are vomiting, diahrreah, severe pain...extreme headaches...but if you are worried you should go to a doctor and get it checked out...i hope everything works out all right!
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I think I'm anorexic. But I might not be because everyone says that the first quality of an anorexic is denial. I don't know. My friends say that I am, because I don't eat much for lunch and most of the time don't eat lunch at all. I never considered myself underweight, but I guess I would be in like, the 10th percentile. What do you guys think?
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..hey hun i dont think you are anorexic...first off...although it isnt normal to skip meals..i never eat breakfast..and i sometimes skip dinner...and i am skinny but i know i am nor anorexic..could the reason you are not eating a big lunch or any lunch be you are stressed about a class around or after lunch in school...could it be that you are embarressed to eat in front of people?...i dont think you are anorexic there must be a logical reason other than being anorexic... if you weer anorexic you would skip all meals
also dont let your friends tell you what you are..they are jealous you are skinny..
..i hope i helped!
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i have had my period for quite some time and never have gone throught this! i have used tampons before but today i had it in for two secionds and ir hurt so bad! i took it out and my uterus skin was all over it! it was so gross, i tried again later, and even more skin came off! my blood has been extremely dark lately and my uterus is coming off in strips and omg whatz wrong with me! (link)
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..go to the docter...this is not normal!
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Ok well I have been getting discharge for a pretty long time (maybe over a year or a year and a half) and I started getting underarm hair around last May. Is this ok? Any ideas when I'll get my period? I want to be prepared for when I do so I can have my feminine needs :) Thank you! (link)
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well hun, let me tell you...at first i really wanted my period cause most of my friends had it..but it isnt something you should look foward too...it is a pain in the butt...and if guys find out it can get embaressing...i say it should come within the next month to 6 months..
warning signs are super bad discharge, stomach aches and "twinges" of pain in the overies area..below your belly button..also mood swings and wanting to be my yourself..and not wanting to talk to anyone not even your BFF..i had discharge for a year to maybe a year and a half before i got mine..so expect it soon and always have materials with you..i recomend tampons...i suggest "TAMPAX TEENS" they are super small so they are good and safe for first times and comfortable..dont let people tell you not to use tampons...pads are the worse..and if you dont have to use them..(you dont not with tampax teen..i used them on my first time..) then dont use them! i hope i helped...and i hope when you first get it..that everything goes alrgiht...best of luck sweetie!
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