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okay in school every one calls me a slut and im not one i never had sex,or gave anyone head!! what should i do when they call me it? please help!!
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I have the same problem!! I don't understand why, but everyone says the same thing about me!! I just try to ignore it. If you know that your not a slut, then no one can change that. I hope everything turns out ok, let me know how it goes!!
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...well do you act like a slut or dress like one?...maybe thats why and then you may need to back off..i have noticed you havnet denied ever making out with someone or fingering someone..maybe these things you have done start rumors about bigger things you have done..
..and plus...DONT LISTEN TO THEMM..you*re better than them!
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there f*ckers if there doin that for no reason...ignor them...but that might be a pain to do so say that u arnt...tell them to shut there stupid mouths...hope i heped ya girly!
ally
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Just tell them that you arent a slut and if they keep saying that then say "well, a slut is a good thing, it means I've actually had a boyfriend."
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It's really hard but just ignore them. It'll be them that look like the idiots when they are calling names and you are maturely minding your own business getting on with life.
You get people like this all through life - if you don't react they soon get bored and will find something else to occupy their tiny little minds!!
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I think that you should tell your principle or your council as soon as possible because this can really ruin your reputation.
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If you know you aren't a slut, then just ignore these people. You need to prove to them that you aren't. When they do call you a slut, say something back like "Hey, I know I'm not a slut so why are you calling me one?" If you just tell everyone that you know you aren't one, the name calling will stop. People are only doing this just to ruin other people's lives and they shouldn't. Stand up for yourself and just tell these people off. A slut is a girl who has sex with a lot of guys and all that stuff and you are now where close of becoming one. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I'm very glad to hear you're not a slut!
I've had similar problems, and for me it has seemed best to try to live my life in a way which would prove them all wrong. If you're being the complete opposite of a slut, then people will sooner or later have to concede that you are indeed not one.
Good luck and keep your chin up!
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Well you know youre not a slut, so just ignore them.. once they see that it doesn't bother you, they'll stop! Tell me how it goes. xox-»Crystal*
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say this...nothing, ingore it.
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be like even if i was y would u care
make jokes out of it have fun
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I used to have the Same problem... to solve my problem i just talked to the person who started it all if you get that one person to believe that you arn't a slut .. im pretty sure everyone else will to.. it worked for me..
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you need to tell them that. when they call you that next time, then just be like "how can i be one if i never had sex"
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That's not very nice of them. However, you may need to evaluate how you present yourself. If you dress in revealing clothing and flirt a lot, it may be assumed that you are doing those things. If they continue to do that, I'd suggest confronting them and asking them why they're saying things like that. Afterwards, you could always talk to a trusted teacher to see if they could do anything to mediate the situation.
I hope I've helped, and I hope things get better for you soon!
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u should just ignore them or if they call u a slut u call them sumthing back!
i hope my advice helps
*Dani*
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Well if you wanna fight with them all you have to do is when they call you a slut say " like you?" . Or you can always ignore them wich you know never works lol. Ummmm serioly if you want this to stop get alot of friends thatll back you up and once they back you up its rely not going to happen agin. Or you can always tell the princable
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don't listen to them. okay i get called a slut sometimes and all i do is laugh it off and show that it doesn't bother meh. some people just wanta be cruel or get some attention and it sucks i kno but you gotta laugh it off and show them you odn't give a shit about hwat they say about you.
-emilyanne
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Hun, the best thing to do is ignore them. People shouldn't be calling you a slut, especially when you didn't even sleep with anyone. I didn't know you could be a slut and not do anything sexual with someone. Some people are just stupid like that and start shit because they have nothing better to do. If they know this isn't getting to you, they'll end up stopping. People only usually say stuff because they know it's getting to the person. So, just try to let it not bother you and show them your better then that!
♥ Krissy
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okay well kids can be cruel at school. my sister was called a slut and unfortunately she took on the 'if they call me one i might as well be one' DONT DO THIS!!! she didn't finish school, hasn't got a job and life for her isn't that great. because she was a slut, i started getting called one coz she's my big sister and they said it was a family thing. i laughed it off because it was so ridiculous and they stopped... eventually. just stick with your friends and ignore it as best you can. dont let them ruin your life. :)
~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*
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Hun... honestly on that one i dont think that there really is anything you can do except wait it out. Or if u wanna take a big leap into this you can just joke around with it and be like "HELL YEA!!! but you see the thing is I never knew that there was such a thing as a virgin slut" or something like that. you can just try and go along with it no matter how much it pisses you off... I promise.. the rumors will go away faster... Hope I Helped! Tell me what u think and what happens!
**Ashley
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haha, i know what you mean. people now a days are PATHETIC ... ignore them. i know it doesn't always help but its the best thing you can do if you want to solve this problem without trouble. be like 'if i'm a slut, well then so is everyone else cause i haven't done anything!' thats stupid, people judge wayyyyyy too quickly. if it gets out of hand and they don't stop it, tell a teacher or someone. tell them to shut up and leave you alone or else they'll get in trouble, i know it sounds corny but hey, its their warning, lol. hope i helped! good luck and tell me what happens! please rate!
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Well I say inorge that but I see MFS already told you that. People have no lives so they decided to pick on one pictular person. Such as you! They must be jealous of you of something reason or just have no lives. Just inorge them and eventually they will back away from you.
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Well, you already know better, and I'll assume that your friends know better... so make light of the situation and prove them wrong. Also, when people call you that, just ignore it.
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