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Hey Whats up! My names Ashley! Im probably the biggest music geek that you will ever meet.. My life revolves around music and singing. I enjoy theatre and being in plays and shows. If u look at my ratings and feed back I am a pretty good Advicenator.. If thats what you want to say... Just ask me a question... anything and Im sure I could help!

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~*I'd give up forever just to touch you, and I know that you feel me to somehow.you're the closest to heaven that I'll ever be, and i dont want to go home right now*~

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ok this guy that is a friend of mine that i love ( we are planning to hook up once we find a way to meet up with each other more often...) but anyways my best friend told me that i should be callin him all the time and talkin to him all the time. basically give him some space.. and like sometimes when he says he is going to call me back and he doesnt do it then i dont call him until he tell me to or he calls me. is that a bad thing?? but right now he feels like i have lost interasit in him. which isnt true at all i still love him and i want to be with him what should i do?? i dont call as much as i used to because i want to give him some space you noe..but he says he wants me to call more and talk to him more because he loves talkin to me but i dont know what to do.. i dont want to losse this guy. please help!!!

Ask him what he wants. Tel him that you dont know what to do with yourself that you dont know if you should still call him and what not as much as you have been. Ask him when is a good time to call him and tell him that you havent lost interest in him. Hop I helped!
-Ashley

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How Do You Know If Your In Love?
..Hope You Can Help..i Think I Got It Bad*

You know that you are in love when everything you see or do reminds you of the person. when they are the first and last thought on your mind every day. When you feel like life isnt worth living without them around. Theres nothing you can do to help it. Try talking tothe person and see how he feels about you.

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well i think that my cousin is really hott and i think i like him but i mean, hes my cousin, family, is that wrong to like him? could he ever like me? and he also lives 6 hours away and i see him like three times a year and thats it but i like him and hes over my house now, what can i do?

Hunnie Im sorry. Unless you are from a place called livingston manor I dont think that it will happen

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ok i dont no why but like im kinda young and i always have the urge to get with guys so bad... and like i want them to feel me n everything. yea i no its kinda gross but like i dont wanna be called a slut at school- what should i do to stop or heal these sudden urges?

Try hanging out with diffrent guys. Try hanging around other people that arent so "bad" as you put it.. and maybe you will develope a sudden interest for guys that arent so bad. And for hte whole touchy feely thing.. its not bad that you want a guy to touch you. I mean.. everyone wants to be touched at some point or another in their lives! lol.. Hope I helped

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Ok so there is this *amazing* guy and i like him alot, and everytime i see/hang out with him i like him even more.. We went out before but it didnt last long, but people have been tellin me he likes me again And last night we hung out a lil and talked and all at this bandfest thing.. Then me n my friend and this other guy walked to the bleachers, then when we came back after a long while he didnt even talk to me or come near me.. o wait he came up to me once and hugged me, but then wen the night was up me and my bff were walkin behind him and he was with this girl and other guy.. he didnt even hug me bye or n e thing, i think i must have done somethin to ruin it but i cant think of anything, i really hope he didnt meet someone and now has a girlfriend or else ill be crushed.. can anyone tell me a way to get him to notice that i like him alot without me havin to tell him, or can anyone give me any advice towards this??


Thanx

honestly I think that your only other option IS to tell him. and if you do decide to take my advice just go up to him and ask him if you guys could talk. Then be like "listen..I really jut wanted to tell you that I like you. But I dont want to freak you out or anything in case you dont like me.. But I just wanted to see if there was anything going on between us" or something like that. Really it works.. and it helps to getit off of your chest to!
Ashley

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ok, there's this girl, i'm not really 'friends' with her but i act like it because she is shy and not a lot of people can stand how shy she is...anyways, at lunch yesterday her chicken sandwich wasnt cooked properly and she started telling me to bring it up for her. so i said 'no, it's yours, i'm eating my lunch, you gotta do some things on your own' was i right? because she always wants someone to do things for her....like take out her trash go to the bathroom with her...i'm sick of her being so dependent on others.

If I were you I'd stop talking to the girl and stop being so nice to her for a while because it seems like she is manipulating you and molding you into what she wants you to be for her.

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i dont really no what category this should be under,but anyways...

My legs are sort of sensitive and get dry a lot,does anyone no what shaving cream that would pervent dry legs?

I'd say gillette the satin care one.. but usually what I do is I shave with lotion.. that keeps my legs pretty hydrated. And its a lot easier to if you ask me.
Ashley

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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks

Well... I honestly dont think that easter is the right time to do that kinds of stuff and why is it that guys always try to get into a girls pants when ever they are near her? but anyways.. if u really want to know.. yes kissing on her neck is the best way to start.. make her want you.. if thats what you are going for. play hard to get for a little while and kiss her lightly in a way that she is going to want you to kiss her even more and after a littel while give in and take over... then you both can have fun! hope I helped! please Rate!
**Ashley

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Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high!

Yes.. and also notice how girls are called lushes and everything when they drink or something. I find this just absolutly repulsive.. I mean.. If a girl even so much as goes out with more than one guy in a year they are called a slut. Guys just get a bigger ego.. maybe all Girls should get a bigger ego about being called a "slut" and be like "yea? so what at least I got some.. I dont see you gettin as much as me" or something.. maybe for once something will change!
**Ashley

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I wax brazilian waxes myself at home and i always finish with these really unattractive looking red bumps. What are they and what can i do to prevent them? Any tips??

after you are done... Put a rag with cold water on it.. It helps stop the ingrown hairs... (thats what the bumps are) trust me... It works

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Okay, so I eat good, I have gym class every day so I exercise5 times a week for and hour and a half, yet i'm still pretty fat. I mean I'm not obese. I'm about 150, but I'm 5'8. Al my friends are really skinny though so in comparison to them i'm huge. I don't want to hurt myself with an eating disorder or anything and I don't have time to exercise anymore, but what can I do?

wow hun, to me you sound pretty skinny. The thing is though that its probably your muscle and bone structure that weigh the most. Muscle weighs more than fat. And I'm the asme way. I'm built like my dad... 5'4 1/2 and i weigh 155. So dont feel bad at all. You are at a normal weight and if anything under your normal weight! :-p dont even sweat it! hope I helped!
-ashley

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Hi...
I am about to get my braces off and i dont know why but my orthodontist does a lot of stuff to your teeth like 3 weeks beofre you get them off and they are so sore and i am having to wear 5 different rubber band in 5 different places and they are just really sore and i was wondering if anyone knew anything i could do to make them feel better besides eating ice cream because i am on a diet.
Also, anyone who has had there braces off, i have heard it does hurt and i have heard it doesn't hurt. Does it? Does that polishing thingy feel weird?

Thanks for any advice!

I've never had braces b4 but I have had plenty of friends that either have them now or have had them and they say that when you get your braces off that it doesnt hurt and that after you get them off it feels really really weird.. like you don have any teeth or osmehting and that it feels so weird to chew on things... bu it gets better after a while. And for the teeth thing.. I suggest that you take some advil or some tylenol... hope I helped!
-Ashley

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My hair is gets all this static in it and it's driving me crazy! It's like when you rub a balloon to your hair and it just sucks! Does anyone know of any hair products that would help with my problem??
♥ Mee! (=

Try putting lotion in it.. just a little though.. It really helps

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I am a 28 year old male with 2girls 4,and9 been with their mom 10years very happy!!Asked her to marry me she said yes ,things were grate 4 amonth and now she cant stand me for the most part but still afectionate and also head strong on moving out pleas help loves ontheline!!!!!

Not to sound mean... but dont worry about it. I have a teacher thats 23 and he still doenst even have a gf and now he's all depressed over that and mad at me because i tried to help him get a gf and it failed 2 times.. and so now he hates me

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Ok so me and my friend ill call her *Kaia* last year in 7th grade we were in all the same classes. and we sorta grew away from each other in a way. but this year in 8th grade me and *kaia* only have 1 class together and it seems as if we are actually becoming closer...since we dont see each other as much. and we can talk about anything now..and last year we couldnt talk to each other about a lot of stuff. Is it possible that since we arent seeing each other we are actually growing closer? and also could it be because we like each other for who we are..not for what we dress like? thanks for your help! Ill rate you if i like your answer!

Yes it is possible becasue that has happened to me and my friend brianna. We've known eachother since forever and when we were in 4th grade then thats when we first hung out. as the years progressed we moved away because we were basically in every class with eachother... but when we hit 8th grade I was in none of her classes and then I got shipped off to california... and we turned out to be the best of friends that way. And then when I moved back in 9th grade we talked a little.. and now I'm in 10th grade ad we talk ALL THE TIME and we are best friends again. It happens.. so be greatful that it did. and I dont think that you guys judged eachother on how you dressed did you?
lol sorry, hope I helped!

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Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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aww... go to her and be like "listen, I know that we said some pretty messed up stuff to eachother...but I really dont want to l;eave ina bad note and I would really like for us to still be friends. And when you said that you didnt care whether or not I move and that reallky hurt.. so do u think that we could make a mends?"

And hun I bet you if anything she really does care shes just saying that as a defence...hop I helped! where ya movin to?

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ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?

tell them straiht up that you guys screwed and it was mad fun! tell them that he's mad good and that he gave you like 4 orgasms and all that stuff.. mae them jelous... by the way.. how old are you? lol

-Ash

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Well I straigten my hair everyday because otherwise my hair looks disgusting. My hair has a lot of static whenever I get done straitening it and I even put lotion in it sometimes since my sisters do it and they dont have any static. Is there anything I could do or a product could do for me? Any suggestions?

you could try using frizz eaze.. it works wonders! or ifyou want to try this... Try taking a shower and then when you blow dry your hair put "straighten gel" in it that you can find in any pharmacy..its a hot pink gel and doesnt make your hair weird or anything... and then straighten it.. any other straightening tips that u need then just ask me.. im the queen of hair! lol

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-*KeLs*-

*Life is what happens to you when you;re too busy doing something else*

**When life throws oyu lemmons throw them right back and hope you hit em in the right spot becasue you wanted oranges**


*** You enter and close the door behind you
Now show me the world as seen from the stars
If only the lights would dim a little
I'm weary of eyes upon my scars***
~Incubus,here in my room

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When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist

waist... its a lot more comfortable for the both of you.. believe me

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