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whats the deal!!
I am a 28 year old male with 2girls 4,and9 been with their mom 10years very happy!!Asked her to marry me she said yes ,things were grate 4 amonth and now she cant stand me for the most part but still afectionate and also head strong on moving out pleas help loves ontheline!!!!!
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You two need to get a babysitter.
Go out on a date with each other.
And talk, talk, talk.Something is bothering her and you need to find out what it is.
I've been married since I was a baby I know what i'm talking about here.If she's still affectionate there is still hope so go talk.Ask what is wrong etc.
Hope all works out for you.:}
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honey my heart goes out to you ,you seem like you really love this gurl and well my advice to you would be to have a serious chat
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Are you sure your 28? im going to edit your question...
I am a 2 year old male with two girls 4, and 9. I have been with their mom for 10 years very and I am very happy!! I asked her to marry me she said yes, things were grate, if i know how to spell great, for a month and now she cant stand me for the most part, but is still affectionate and also head strong on moving out. I dont know how to spell pleas, but can you help me? loves ontheline, but sorry i am lying right now and love is not on the line!!!!! Here is my advice to you.. Learn to lie and then ask a question and if you really are 28 i feel bad for you and if this is real, i think you should talk to her.
DONNA
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Tell her that you love her very much. I dont think she would move out if she has two daugthers. Go to a family counselor, they'd be more then happy to help you out. If she cant stand you then why would you want to be with her? Good Luck.
~Brina~
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Couples counseling would be particularly helpful at this point even though you have been together. Your relationship has changed with this new development. She may be afraid of committing because she doesn't want to drag her children into an unhappy arrangement on a permanant basis. You two need to get to the bottom of this. If she won't go, you go anyway. It will help you deal with the situation.
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Well if she's like that there's no way you can live a happy life with her. The best option is let her do what she want's but make a contract saying you get to see the girls every other weekend. Eventually you will find somebody else. Good luck.
Sincerely,
snowkid111
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wow.. you're 23?... grammer issues
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Not to sound mean... but dont worry about it. I have a teacher thats 23 and he still doenst even have a gf and now he's all depressed over that and mad at me because i tried to help him get a gf and it failed 2 times.. and so now he hates me
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most likely fear of making a commitment..like when you arent married she can pick up and move out.. just sit her down and talk to her, about what she's afraid of and what not..because if you've been with her for 10 years and she stuck around, then there has to be a reason for it.. and make it clear that you love her..
-Christine
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