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Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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Tell your friend how the move makes you feel and that you didn't choose the way things are now. Tell her that you are sorry about moving away but if she stays mad, then your friendship wasn't anything at all.
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hey! She is probably so sad, or mad that your moving she probably doesnt want to lose a best freind. But i think if you call her up, or go talk to her and tell her how much you care about her and how you really want to leave on a good note with her Hope i helped ~<3~ Michelle
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Call her up and tell her that you don't want to leave on a bad note. Tell her you appreciate her friendship and would like to keep in touch.
Even if she turns you down, you've got nothing to lose. If you leave without trying anything, then you'll probably regret it forever.
Good lucl hun!
Sophie xxx
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It's probably the stress of moving and losing a friend that actually caused you to fight. Just make up with her, and make sure she has your forwarding address. Tell her that you still care about her even though you are moving and hope to visit some in the future. Don't leave these bad feelings hanging.
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just tell her how much she really means to you. tell her that you love her a lot. and tell her that she is your best friend. and if that doesn't crack her, she has no heart.. j.k . but dont expect her to say. i love you too. rite away. give her some time.. and sooner or later, you will hear from here. if you are best friends.. they always get back together in the end
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hey its savannah ...when i first started to read this i was going to tell you that if your freinds wher your true best freinds they wouldnt say that ....but i have said some nasty thing to muh best freinds to and it just made us stronger as ppl and freinds i think that you should talk to her and if she wont do that then write a letter to her not just some stupid short im sorry really mean it and tell her all the stuff she wants to here if that dont work ...fuck the bitch! you dont need her hahh make new freinds lol
hope i helped
xoxoxo
write back!
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Make up before you leave. No matter how hard it is because deep down you know she cares. You will regret it if you don't. I know from personal experience.
~Nokomis~
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well sorry to say this but it doesn't sound like to me that she's a very good friend!!!!!!
but if you really care about her and want to still be her friend.. then mabye talk to her.... another thing could be that she doesnt' wanna show how hurt she is that she is moving!!!
just sit her down and talk to about it so..........................
hope i help
ly,
_annessa_
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aww... go to her and be like "listen, I know that we said some pretty messed up stuff to eachother...but I really dont want to l;eave ina bad note and I would really like for us to still be friends. And when you said that you didnt care whether or not I move and that reallky hurt.. so do u think that we could make a mends?"
And hun I bet you if anything she really does care shes just saying that as a defence...hop I helped! where ya movin to?
<3Ash
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i think that she doesnt want you to more, so she thinks that it will be easier if you move while you are in a fight. it may make your move easier on her. my BFF did the same thing to me right before she moved.
and it did make the move easier i guess.
-Kels-
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You need to sit down with her and tell her that really hurt your feelings. Tell her you dont want to leave with us fighting. Tell her how you feel and tell or just "say" how much you will miss her and how sorry you are. I hope this all works out with yall. Remember you will feel so guilty if you leave and you are still fighting w/ her. Good luck with your friend and moving! xoxo BLONDE911
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try to make up with her by saying we shouldnt fight and if she disagrees pop her in the eye = ) .. j/p but seriously say why we're fighting is retarded and im moving and imma miss you and i dont wanna move while im in a fight with my BEST friend .. hope i helped .. Love, MauramOo
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honestly i think you`re trying to push each other away so it won`t hurt as bad when you leave. but guess what.. it`s gonna hurt no matter what. you have to swallow your pride and apologize. just tell her how you`re feeling and let her know you love her and you`re gonna miss her so much.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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