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but my friend is a chrisitan. He wants me to go to church with him every week, and im not all that enthusiastic. I feel guilty for even thinking about saying no because i get all self concious when i think of him thinking of me as a sinner. Anyways we were having a very good time at a footbal game and then we were talking about stuff and somehow the topic just came up about dying. He was like, no offense but if you died right now i think you'd go to hell. He was being really serious. Well, it depressed the hell out of me. Im a nice person, i dont try to judge people, i like to share, my morals are higher then anyone elses and then i get depressed because i cant live up to them. I was really hurt but i didnt let on. He wouldnt elaborate, he said we could talk about it on the phone sometime. Well, do you think it was right of him to say that? Or am i just being dumb? I cant help but feel like im some kind of 'project' hes trying to save...
if you're not a christian you ARE going to hell..i dont care what anyone else tells you..there is a god and there is a hell and if when you die your not saved you will be cast into the lake of fire..im praying that you will realise that you need god in your life..
Nessa
i belive in no religion and i think i need a purpose in lif. does anyone know a good place for me to find about every religion since there is so many out there.
well go to church.....DUH!!!
LOL*
_annessa_
My parents know that I want to listen to Green day and Bowling for soup and a large variety of other music bands, but won't let me. I'm 13, but they prolly think it's too young. How can I convince them that I enjoy music and am missing out on a lot without it?? And besides-I should be entitled to what they had.
well tell em' to get over it and just quit being like all stuck up..
ly,
_annessa_
Well my bestfriend and i are fighting a lot. i am moving now and i don't want to leave on a bad notice. She said to me "i don't care if you are moving.' That really hurt my feelings what should i do
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well sorry to say this but it doesn't sound like to me that she's a very good friend!!!!!!
but if you really care about her and want to still be her friend.. then mabye talk to her.... another thing could be that she doesnt' wanna show how hurt she is that she is moving!!!
just sit her down and talk to about it so..........................
hope i help
ly,
_annessa_
Okay so, there is this guy that I like. The only problem is, I don't think he knows me. He is in my drama class but we never talk and I am sorta nervous to be around him. My friend is really good friends with him though, but I am also nervous to tell her! I really like him though, what do I do?!?
well one day just introduce yourself to him........ just kinda say like hey i like your shirt or something and kinda start a conversation with him or something!!! if you do this it's not like your coming up to him and saying hey babe!!!! so just stick to a casual conversation and you'll be just fine!!!!!!
well i hope i help,
_annessa_
Again this boy Roshon has been bothering me. With all the touching me and walking me to class things. I mean he is cool and everything but in the hall I see him doing it to other girls to just not as much as he does it to me. And he still talks about me. This morning when he tried to walk me to class. The only way he will get his hand off me if I pull away and say I will talk to you later. And the bad thing is he is only. I don't know how to say it but he goes up to my chest. What I mean by that his height. Do you know how weird that looks? Anyway help please!
OMG you sound like one of the most selfish people i've answered a Q. for and i can't believe that height is an issue!!!!! one day he'll probally tower over you
:< _annessa >:
For those who know about my constant problems I have with C then here comes another problem if you don't know then you know now. Well anyways me and him have been getting along good so far but all of a sudden today. He is kinda mad at me I think. I mean he didn't actually talk to me today and he hit me. Usually me and him we play like that but today he actually hit me like he was mad. If I did something bad I am sorry for it. But what should I do. I can't just say that I am sorry because he hasn't said one word to me all day except for this morning when I asked him was something wrong. He didn't respond in a happy manner so I left him alone. What should I do I really really like this boy!
ok first things first....he hits you?? if this guy truly does like you he wouldnt' hit you!!!!! i think that you should report this guy to the auhorities cause that's ruled as abuse!!!!! and honey you CAN'T let him beat you up
p.s. please git some help
hope i helped,
_annessa_
My boyfriend and i have been going out for about a month now. My best friend had no problem with him until now. She says she hates him. What can I do to fix that?
well you can't please everyone ask her why she hates him!!!???>>
OK when i first learned about sex back in middle school...i said to myself "im waiting until marriage" right away. I want to wait..because i dont know if i can deal with the emotions..but then again i want to do it (not now..definately not ready) in the future..you know when i find a bf when im like 18 + ..probably more like in my 20's though. I dont know..i just cant picture myself only havving sex with one man..plus im only 15 and im so curious about it now..im scared that what if i dont get married til im 30? I dont know if i can wait 15 more years..it seems to distant. How do i know for sure if im going to wait? or if im not? Do any of you out there have premarital sex..or have done it with a few people? Was the emotion too much for you when you broke up ? Or a one night stand..was that too much for you? I'll rate 5's
well i think that it's best to wait!!! i think that sex is something that you should wait for!!!! i mean don't do it i mean i wouldnt'!!!!!! i know for a fact that i'm gonna wait!!!!
hey... im 14/f and i weigh 91 lbs. and ppl think im aneroxic and when i say im not they say im belimic! and im not and think that making urself throw up and not eating is gross. i eat all the time like almost everytime u see me i have food in my hand haha and i can eat something and say im full and then like an hour later i'll say im hungrey again. I have a fast metabolism and i really wanna try n gain weight, my new years resolution is to get over 100 lbs. so please can someone help me on trying to gain weight! thanks bunchez
well people say stuff like that cause they're just jealous so dont' listen to em. i have a friend that's going through the same thing...so babe just ignore them...
ly,
~_annessa_~
Ive known this guy since 7th grade, were in 10th now. So anyways, we never really got along until about the end of 8th grade. And then i found out he has a crush on me, and it was the most obvious crush ive seen before, lol. I told him i wanted to be just friends and he said he was cool with that up until recently. He started acting like guy who was crushing on me again, and this time its more like a I WANT YOU HORRIBLY! type thing cuz he cant keep his hands off me. Now my problem is that part of me wants him, and he wants me, but im not sure if i should go for it because weve been friends for so long. I want to do it, but then i dont. Has anyone been in this situation, what did you do? It just feels so akward and confusing!
just take a chance thats all i can tell you to do so why not take a crazy chance why not do a crazy dance (well dont' do a crazy dance then you might scare him away)!!????hehehehe well lol but go for it you'll never know until you go out with him.
I wish you the best of luck and i hope that you two get 2gether soon
/ly/
~_annessa_~
hello i have a problem i puke up my food...i started it a few weeks ago and now i dont no how to stop...and i know i can die if i dont...so what should i do...please help?
well here's the thing. you CAN die. and the other thing is if you want to loose weight dont' barf up your food it's better just to eat healthy than to barf it all up.
hope i helped,
_annessa_
hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff
help meeeee
well first of all ur and idiot for not telling ur mom.. that's one thing that you need to tell her. i mean this thing only happens once in a lifetime and you should share this with your mom.
tell her weirdo !!!
LoL** im jus kiddin i swear
hope i helped
_annessa_
I'm not even sure if I'm allowed to post these type of questions on this site... but... what they heck...this is actually an english-y type question... you see, I was just wondering... there's this quote that I heard and liked the sound of, but I dont really understand it... maybe some adults in here (or some really smart teens) could explain it to me please... *batts eyelashes*?? anyway, the quote is... "All is fair in love and war" please answer... i know this is a boring question; i rate high!!!
well i think that the answer is that love is hard to get through and so is war.
i may be wrong so
i hope i helped
_annessa_
I have a list of names that I like a lot. For my kids. *(I've always loved names, and making them up, and stuff)* Im Almost 15, and wont be having kids for atleast 7 more years, but i would still like to know some of the names for boys and/or girls that you all like! and you can add middle names too, if you so desire. Also, I use a lot of the names that I like when I play the Sims and the Sims 2. So If you could please tell me the names that you all like for boys and/or girls, that would be great, thanks! I'll rate a 4 or a 5 if you leave a *real* name! thanks!!
--KeLs--
well i like the names Elizabeth and Erin for girls and I like the names Brent and Alex for boys i think that these are all cool names.
hope i helped,
_annessa_
whenever i get my monthlies *i'm a girl* when i sleep i can't sleep with my back on the mattress because i'll get stains on places where the pad doesn't cover. so, my question is wut can i do to ensure that i won't get stains when i wake up like how i can position the pad or w/e stuff like that please help this is getting really annoying thanks
well try using a tampon and a pad. one of the pads that you use in the nighttime. you can also put a towel under you so you don't stain your sheets. you may also try a pad that is longer and wider than a regular one.
if you do this im sure that everything will be all right.
hope i helped
ly,
annessa
hey i have a lil problem... there is this guy thats kinda hot and he used to like me and he called me fat and my problem is that ppl call me fat and it gets me really depressed and i might go anorexic if someone calls me fat again...what should i do??? HELP ME! xox
here's the thing i used to be anorexic myself and believe me it aint cool i almost died so dont' resort to that!!! Well there's the fact that you shouldn't let some boy make you go anorexic.please dont' go anorexic. you should feel confortable the way you are!! Remember everyone is beautiful in there own way!!!!!
hope i helped
I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks.
well i think you're the perfect age to start dating i mean i don't think you should like go off and do it but i think that its just the perfect time to date
hope i helped
hello i have a problem i think that i like this guy...but im ot sure if he likes me...and if i tell him i dont want to feel like an idiiot if he says no...so what should i do.
well the thing is that you cant' live your life wondering. come staight out and ask him. im sure that if you ask him how he feels and he says yes then youll have done all of this worrying for nuthin!! So go for it
hope i helped.
When I sit down I have this dot thing on my leg like a dimple kind of. What is it and why is it there how do i get it off?
sry u cant get it off
its a dimple duh
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