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Ive known this guy since 7th grade, were in 10th now. So anyways, we never really got along until about the end of 8th grade. And then i found out he has a crush on me, and it was the most obvious crush ive seen before, lol. I told him i wanted to be just friends and he said he was cool with that up until recently. He started acting like guy who was crushing on me again, and this time its more like a I WANT YOU HORRIBLY! type thing cuz he cant keep his hands off me. Now my problem is that part of me wants him, and he wants me, but im not sure if i should go for it because weve been friends for so long. I want to do it, but then i dont. Has anyone been in this situation, what did you do? It just feels so akward and confusing!
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just take a chance thats all i can tell you to do so why not take a crazy chance why not do a crazy dance (well dont' do a crazy dance then you might scare him away)!!????hehehehe well lol but go for it you'll never know until you go out with him.
I wish you the best of luck and i hope that you two get 2gether soon
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~_annessa_~
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If you want to, go for it., but first, make sure you tell him, no matter what, you dont want anything to ruin your friendship. Make sure he knows that. And who knows? You could even end up staying together! Hope it helps *
Rachel xO
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if you have the slightest doubt.. then maybe it's not supposed to happen.
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I think you should try going out with him. Because if its already 'invading' your relationship you might as well go for it.
Good Luck!
-Rachel
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If you never took chances in life. Life itself will be so boring. So I truly think you should give him a chance if you really think that little part in you wants him. Hoped I helped!
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anonymous -
If you don't want to ruin the friendship and yet want to pursue a relationship with this guy, talk to him about it. Come to common ground like make an agreement that if you two were to ever break up, that the break up wouldn't influence the friendship (as hard as that may be). It really depends on your point of view; will both of you benefit from the friendship more or the relationship? After that's decided and done with, make your decision.
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thats tuff . but if u truly feel that u guys will ast and like eachother alot then go for it ! and about the friends thing if yall are truly strong ffriends you can work threw the consiquenses
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Hey, I would say go for it, because normally one way or another good friends hook up just to see how everything goes because good friends normally end up haveing feelings for eachother and I would say go for it and just see how it goes and if it doesnt work out then yall can still be friends, just let him know that if you and him dont work out that yall are to always stay friends and I'm sure if yall give it a try once and it works out then hey thats awesome but if yall dont work out then yall can still be friends in the end because hey he wants you and you want him so go for it! I hope this helps!-Nikki
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I am pretty curious of what kind of 'he couldn't keep your hands off of you' flirt it is. If it was like always tapping you, that fine, and cutish kind of flirty, but if you're talking touching areas where guys shouldn't be touching, hes way not worth it, I know this is most likely not the case, but I say go for him if this isn't the case, and you say that part of him wants you, right? Well, remember, just because he likes you, it does not make it wrong or should be forced on you to like him. So I hope you're doing this because you're truly feeling this for that guy.
-TheTeenGirl
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