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My Friend vs. boyfriend relationship
My boyfriend and i have been going out for about a month now. My best friend had no problem with him until now. She says she hates him. What can I do to fix that?
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Supaiku answered Sunday March 6 2005, 8:05 pm:
Kill her.
wow thats a little far but from what i cant tell its just
jealousy
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well you can't please everyone ask her why she hates him!!!???>><< (sounds like to me that she's jealous of you and your boyfriend)
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First why is your friend all of a sudden hateing him ? He do something to her ?.. or is because she might like him herself and wants you to dump him ?
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Thing to do is talk to her about it. Ask her whats wrong and what your b/f can do to help her think different of him.
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Hi Sweetie,
ask her why. ...Mayeb she is subconsiously jeolous of your spending time with him or giving him a lot of attention. If it is so then you will have to divide your time to spend with each. Maybe you can spend nutrition with her and lunch with him. ...Just don't talk about him constanty when you are with her.
Ask her too. Maybe she has ome other reasons...
Good night and good luck with your problems. ~Blessed Be...
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Nothing ... you cant change sum1 they can only change themselves and if she dosent like him find reasons she should ... and ask her why she dosent like him
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Maybe she feels left out and abandoned by you. Maybe she thinks your boyfriend is replacing her. Or maybe it's because she wants a boyfriend herself (if she does't have one already)
♥ Always,
Maria
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Could this be because shes feeling left out? have a heart tot heart talk with your best friend. Ask her " if i spent more time with you..would you not hate my bf? I tihnk maybe i have been neglecting you. So if we spent some more time together..would you not hate him?" Ask her to understand that you really like him..he makes you feel special..etc. Hopefully once you spend a little extra time with her..things will be ok.If not..then write back to me and i'll try and work up plan B.
Hopefully there wont be any need for plan B though. try that out and i hope it works!
-meliss
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why does your friend hate him so much ? you should ask her... its not like you have to hang out with them at the same time so why does she care ?? its not her bf
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um...well i have a friend and we went through the same exact situation over a boy as your going through...well maybe not exactly the same but close...well i had liked my friends little brother for a really long time and he had finally asked me out...i was in 7th grade and he was in 6th...and then my friend got all pissed about it and said that she hated him and she wouldnt talk to me until we broke up...well thats wut i think she said...idk well we both decided to ditch the little guy and move on...im sure she will answer this question too x next 2 you x0 ...i dont think theres anything you can really do...chicks before dicks
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Your friend is probably just jealous that you're spending time with him. Make sure you spend tons of time with her, and then see if she still feels the same way.
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