Member Since: December 18, 2004
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Last Update: March 8, 2005
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well, I REALLY like this one guy, I mean REALLY LIKE and I have a feeling he likes me too. I have two classes with him and he like stares at me, but like alot of the time, I think a guy likes me and he doesn't.... so I need like to figure out if he likes me, can anyone help me? (link)
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well start talking to him alot in class and then maybe get his sn and talk to him online and then soon you will prolly be able to tell if he likes you or not if he starts doing things like saying hey to you first or sumthing like that
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ok, well i have started cutting because of problems i have at home, well now i started to do it for fun, and i dont know why i like to do it, but i do. and its not for attention because know one knows i do it. well anyways, i get urges to do it even when there are no probems at home. i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean i know its wrong and i shouldnt be doing it, but i just love to hurt myself. i need some advice, weather its what i can do to stop, or if you know why i like to do it for fun. plz help (link)
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well i donno this is just a guesss but maybe you like doing it beacuse you were used to it before and now you think ..hmm maybe if i cut all my problems will go away but sorry if thats wrong ..if you really want to stop doing this you could always go talk to a counseler .someone who could really help you get over it..im here if you need to talk
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i've been hanging out with this clique since i was like.. iunno grade 5.. now, i found these people that i get along with but sumtimes bore me. i don't know how to tell them that sometimes i need some time with my other friends who i've known longer without hurting their feelings, because i'm like the only friend that they have and i don't want to hurt them. please help me (link)
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i think you should tell them that you like them alot but you still need to haning out with your old frineds ..if they were really your frineds they wont mind but if not that fuck them
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Ok, I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months. I love him to death. and he's one of my best friends. I only knew him 2 weeks when he moved to Indiana. I live in New York. It's long distance, but we've managed without a single thought.
I started talking to a guy who lives in NYC. Hes madd funny, and sweet and he likes me. I'm starting to like him too. I actually told him I loved him, and we have so much fun talking.
I want to meet him, and I want to tell my bf. But i dont want things to end with either one of them. I want to be more than friends wit the NYC guy.
I dont know what to do. Im 15, and obviously a girl. They are the same age.
and I dont see my bf at all. i did once last year, and if it matters we had sex....
PLEASE help... (link)
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well i think you should dump the guy whos lives far away cause i mean you 15 you need to have fun and not worry about him if it was ment to be you guys can always take a break and see other people for a while
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Theres this boy that I used to like and he didn't even know what I looked like. Recently, I said hi to him in the halls and now he knows what I look like. My friend asked him if he thought I was pretty and he said yes. We have been talking online everyday for a long time and we feel we know each other pretty well. We don't know each other well enough in person, which I'm going to try to accomplish soon. I had a friend talk to him and he was saying that I wasn't the right type of girl for him, all though when he described to me the girls he likes, it sounded so much like me it was scary. He says I would be a better friend, like I am now, then a girlfriend. I really want to change his mind! Maybe if he gets to know me in person, he would! What can I do? I know we are perfect for each other, and his friends and my friends know it too. I have started developing feelings for him again, but he doesn't know and if I tell him, i'm afraid he'll reject me. Help!
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well i think you should tell him you should say i know you dont like me like that but i just thought that you needed to know beacuse i have been thinking about it alot. hopefuly that helps
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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend (I ama female, if you were wondering). I'm 16 and he is 15. Although, it was a teenage relationship, we did love each other. It might not have been that deep and meaningful kind where people get married, but it was love nonetheless. Whenever we hung out, I'd get butterflies and I would be happy, something I haven't felt in a while. Towards the last few days before I broke up with him, he wasn't really there. I felt like he was avoiding me, he wouldn't tell me anything when I did ask him, and we barely talked. Then the day before I did end it, he told me he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with me or not, which made me decide to end it. On the day we broke up, I cried...a lot. Then, that was it. Every now and then I'll think about him and get a bit sad, but otherwise I am very happy. Being as he was my first love, I relaized there will be others and that I should move on, and I am trying to be positive.I can't help but feel guilty that I am not that sad over our breakup. Any advice? (link)
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dont feel guilty you shouldent it just mean that you were better off with out him thats all and your now happier then you were with him
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Would making eye contact a lot and smiling at each other because we are both shy count as liking each other? It's just a simple question that I need the answer to. Please tell me.
I will rate the first people to give me an answer. (link)
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well it depends maybe u should try saying hi to him in the hall...not a convo just a "hey"
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My best friend has been dating my ex boyfriend.She decided that she wants to dump him(thanx to me being her wake-up call), but she doesn't want to hurt him. How can I make her listen? He's a jerk, but she thinks it's her fault! She needs to hear me out. We are both 14 and he is 16. Help! (link)
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tell her what a jerk he is just straight up tell her and then ..have her tell him that its just not working out
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13/f. My mom is always telling me how I'm too young to go tanning and get my nails done. I dont think so at all!!! She said I can when I'm 16. She also said that I'm too young to be looking for guys and It gets on my nerves. Please dont say talk to her because we always fight about everything. She thinks all my friends with backstabb me in a couple of years and how they arent my true friends. When 2 of my friends were over we were just having fun and we were hyper and I got in trouble and she hates my friends. She always has something againts then or me. My mom gets on my nerves soo much its not even funny!!! What do I do? I dont think I'm too young and noo way and I wating until I'm 16. 13 should be the most fun now that I'm still a young teenager! Help!! I'm going insane. My mom also wont let me spend the night at any of my friends house! Its sooooo gay!! (link)
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well my moms kinda like the same way im 14 almost 15 and she wont let me get my nails done or go tanning ..but i used to fight with her all the time about it all the time and i finaaly realized shess not going to change her mind but maybe if your really nice to her and show her that you can be trusted then maybe she will let you do more thing like have sleepovers..and about the whole your mom doesnt like your frineds my mom didnt like one of my frineds and she always told me she would stab me in the back and then ... she did a few mouths later.. just show you mom you can be trusted and she will let you do more things trust me sorry if that was no help
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My boyfriend and i have been going out for about a month now. My best friend had no problem with him until now. She says she hates him. What can I do to fix that? (link)
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why does your friend hate him so much ? you should ask her... its not like you have to hang out with them at the same time so why does she care ?? its not her bf
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Hi there, I'm 14 years old and I have a problem with self harm. It used to be controlable, but now it's an addiction. No one else knows, and I don't know how I can stop, because it's getting really bad. How do I control it?? (link)
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i think you need to talk to someone about it thats always the best thing but you need to be the one that wants to stop ..cause if you dont it will be really hard in the long run
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I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one (link)
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well it doesnt hurt when they take them off only a little bit when they have to polish thema and everthing usually takes about 45 min i think
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okay there is this guy, matt, and he's a- well- a bit of a slut. we are good mates and last year he got with my friend. not sex or anything but fooled around. i was totally cool with that coz he's a nce guy and everything. but a month or so later i realised i had feelings for him. i told my friend and she was like OMG go for it!!! he had a party, so after a few drinks to soften the blow, i told him i liked him. he was like. OMG i've liked you for ages. i was so happy!!! he kissed me and we were making out when my friend banged on the door asking for me. i ran out and my other friend had passed out. i looked after her and made sure she was okay. when i came out of the room i saw matt kissing his ex. after pouring my heart out to another guy friend i got over it and we kept being friends. we still are. he was like so into my sister so i introduced them but warned my sister about him. they hooked up (not sex) but she wanted nothing else. he was cut up about it but got over it. i havn't spoken to him much lately coz i been busy. but i ran into him at the mall yesterday. we chatted for a while and today he sent me a message saying hey gorgeous, i'm thinking of you. and i dunno whats happening. n e 1 that can help it would be appreciated!!! sorry it's so long. i rate! (link)
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um i would say to stay away cause if hes so much of a slut then i dont think hes ever worth your time cause if he did it to you once he will do it again
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im sorry if this is long
im 13/f and i have 2 brothers a mom a step dad a dad a step mom and a step sis. my life gets so hectic some times that i just cant stand it, my step dad yells at me for every little mistake i make, and he always thinks that someones out to get him. my mom and dad dont even talk anymore, and if they do, they wind up yelling or hanging up on each other, and my dad doesnt even care enough about her and me and my bros to help us. my bro blamed the reason that him and his girlfriend fight because of me, his girlfriend used to be 1 of my best friends. i feel like i have only one friend, all the others are just there, and they dont invite me to anything. my only true frind is moving lyk an hour away, and then i dont know who i would b able to hang around with for my highskool years. sometimes i get so upset that i constantly think about commiting suicide, or cuttig my self to get rid of the pain. i havnt cut my self yet, but every single day i get closer and closer to doing it. i need help, what should i do? (link)
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the first thing i need to say is that cutting and suicide are never somthing that gets rid of pain let me tell you it makes it worse i know you might think that your life sucks right now but taking your life will make everything a million times worse..and as for your friend you can still talk to her and maybe you should start trying to make plans with your other frineds so your not all alone when your frined leave ...im here if u need to talk
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I dated somebody for a year. She was my first everything: first person I fell in love with, first person I got close to, first person I became intimate with, everything. We broke up in January. I am over the relationship itself, but I am not over her. I think those feelings will be there for a while, there really isnt anything I can do to make them go away. Well, now I'm dating again. Ive been seeing the same girl for the past few weeks now, and things are starting to become a bit more serious. Not very serious, but its becoming more than just dating. Shes even my date to prom, which is in 2 months now. Problem is, the feelings arent anywhere near as intense as it was with my ex girlfriend. I like this new girl, shes totaly great, but I feel like I've become jaded since my breakup, and therefore dont have much to offer her. Any advice on what to do? (link)
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soon thoes feeling will go away everyone will always have a little sumthing for there 1st crush so you just need to concentrate on your new relationship you havent been going out with her that long you never know you may like her more then the other girl
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Hey everyone,
Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female (link)
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just start a sweet little convo when you see him and then maybe invite him inside or sumthing
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I'm not sure if Frienship is the right catagory or not... Here goes: My friend, Chelsea, was a nervous wreck. She was so scared about telling her boyfriend she wanted to kiss. I told her to write him and note so she did. She said she gave it to him and he said he wanted to, too. That was a week ago and she says they still haven't kissed. I asked if it's because they never see each other except in school where they would get in trouble but she said he'll do anything else. Just won't kiss. Is he lying to her or nervous or what? Neither of us understand and she doesn't want to look dumb by asking. She's mad because if that is the problem, she'll probably never kiss him because they can't see each other out of school. Also, is this type of question common at all? Thanx!
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well i think she should wait no one kisses at school why cant they haning out out of school..he prolly would kiss her if they wernt in school
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Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help! I rate 5's! (link)
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he did like you cause if he didnt he woudent go out with u for that long ..
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How do you know when it's time to be come "not" bff's with someone? (link)
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when there being a bitch
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I like 2 guys and i dont know what to do because i dont know which one i like more! what should i do? (link)
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go with the one you like more and i dont know what else to tell you theres no detail
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