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Does he like me or not?
Theres this boy that I used to like and he didn't even know what I looked like. Recently, I said hi to him in the halls and now he knows what I look like. My friend asked him if he thought I was pretty and he said yes. We have been talking online everyday for a long time and we feel we know each other pretty well. We don't know each other well enough in person, which I'm going to try to accomplish soon. I had a friend talk to him and he was saying that I wasn't the right type of girl for him, all though when he described to me the girls he likes, it sounded so much like me it was scary. He says I would be a better friend, like I am now, then a girlfriend. I really want to change his mind! Maybe if he gets to know me in person, he would! What can I do? I know we are perfect for each other, and his friends and my friends know it too. I have started developing feelings for him again, but he doesn't know and if I tell him, i'm afraid he'll reject me. Help!
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Well first dont let your friends ask him what he thinks of you or anything, just go up to him take your chances yourself and get to know him in person, let him see the real you. Because the internet is so much differnt than in person, it doesnt really let a person see how your personality is. It just leaves them guessing at who you really are. If you like this guy talk to him in person, dont push the idea of going out with him tho, just let him come to that conclusion, he'll tell you if he likes you, trust me. Give it time, if you decide to talk to him in person.
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He said he liked you as a friend. continue you online talking and he may eventually decide he'd like to try something else. Don't be pushy and try to rush things because you're right, he'll probably be turned off by that.Also keep friends out of it.Nothing is worse than a bunch of he said, she saids...not to mention things could get screwed up.Keep chatting and hopefully he will come around soon.
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Well before I answer your question I have a suggestion for you. Oh and feel free to pass this on to all of your girlfriends!! Go to your nearest bookstore and bring about 15 dollars with you and purchase "He's just not that into you," by Greg Beharendt and Liz Tuccillo. It will literally change your outlook on relationships.
Anyway, to answer your question..... If he told you to your face that he thinks you would make a better friend then a girlfriend then he meant it!! There isn't anything you can do to change his mind, hello...he is a man! And even if you do happen to pursuade him into a relationship or courtship, whatever...it more than likely will end up with him using you in whatever way makes him happy ... i.e. sexually.
You can tell him that you think a relationship would work out, but in my experience with relationships all you are going to do is piss him off. If he was really into you, trust me....you would know....he obviously isn't afraid to tell you the truth.
I'm assuming that you are young. The right guy will come around. You shouldn't waste your time and energy with this guy.....he obviously isn't worth it!
Hey, you never know.....if you stop showing so much interest in him and pay more attention to other things and or guys he may see you in a different light and say what the hell was I thinking...I gotta be with this girl.
Best of luck to you.....hope this helps :)
~ Amanda
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Many a young women fall pray to this cycle. If he said he wants to be friends then you will just learn to accept it! You can't convince someone that you are what they need. By the same token you should not have to pretend that you don't want more. Tell him how you feel and that you would like to pursue a deeper relationship. The trick is in the wording. If you let him know up front that you can handle a friendship too then it won't be rejection. It will just be growing together. By showing him that you are an understanding and appreciative person he may figure out that he would be happy with you as a girlfriend! It's all in the wording! Just don't expect too much. To be fair he did say he wants to be friends.
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Hey, this is Brittany and I think that you should go up to this guy and talk to him a little more. And if that doesn't help, write him a note. Try all you can to make this guy like you and have him not reject you. I hope I helped.
Luv, Brittany! :-)
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well i think you should tell him you should say i know you dont like me like that but i just thought that you needed to know beacuse i have been thinking about it alot. hopefuly that helps
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I would probably say he does but dont get your hopes up.Are you blonde? you sound blonde.dont fret...Itll be ok. As for this other friend of yours...i dont know bout him... id be careful...
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OMG IM GETTING SO SICK OF THESE QUESTIONS!! ITS ALWAYS THE SAME ANSWER... you have to ask him..
GOD!!!!
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