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Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help! I rate 5's!
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Alright, if your boyfriend was saying 'i'll never break up with you,' and 'i love u so much' then he was lying AND telling the truth. He broke up with you because he didn't want you anymore. It dosen't mean that he DIDN'T love you anymore. It means that he DOSEN'T anymore.
*Good Luck*
~Browny4541~
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he did like you cause if he didnt he woudent go out with u for that long ..
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boys are such jerks. if he feels like this fine his lose but dont let it get you down. and if he cant even tell you to your face hes breaking up with you or give you an explanation hes not worth it. your too good for him. hope i helped!
*brookie*
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I think your friends might have been wrong about this guy, you're 13! I hope he is either 13 or 14, but if he is, there is no reason he shouldn't be a prude, you both are young. He told you he would love you and always would, and if there are any words that need to be directed to him at this time, it is "why did we break up?' And don't let him walk away with the answer "I just don't like you anymore", say "Do you like someone else? Did I change suddenly? I want a specific answer, I want the truth." I think you're angry because you didn't want the bad news from your friends, and you didn't want it to happen, you're probably also angry because all you got was, "he didn't like you anymore." that is a sucky answer, and you need better.
-TheTeenGirl
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First of all im really sorry it turned out this way.
but who knows maybe he did like you in the beginning and than he just kinda stopped likeing you, i mean i dont know i cant really say much... but i think that you should talk to him, i know its hard, but try talkin to him about it and see what he says, u cant just go on like this, hurt...
best of luck.
xoxo amore
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He's an arsehole.
Move on.
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anonymous -
Since you're both still young, I'm assuming he broke up with you because he doesn't know what he wants. When I was your age, guys changed girlfriends A LOT. Either they got bored of the girl, or found someone better. It's all just a game and like I said, they just don't know what they want.
Might I add you should be happy that he's gone. Why? I mean, the guy's a coward. He couldn't even go up to you and tell you himself. You don't want a guy that can't be open with you.
Just forget about him and move on. Life's too short to worry about his sorry ass! Start mingling!
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wow your kinda young to be in this mess. i think that your x bf in an ass. maybe he did like you, but since hes a prude, you know nobody's ever gonna be good enough for him. i think that you shoukd just forget him if he's being so stupid and get on with your life. he might even realize how much he's lost by breaking up with you, and he might want you back. DONT LET HIM GET YOU BACK NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS. guys like that never change trust me. so good luck and get over him hes not worth it.
hope i helped
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martyna
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Well. Most relationships before college don't last anyhow. They're mostly really stupid relationships. AND LALALALA THERE HAVE BEEN STUDIIEES ON IT.
BREAK UP WITH HIM BEFORE HE BREAKS UP WITH YOU. :33 Take the pride of dumping him. Say something like "well, you're a horrible boyfriend, and really, I just don't want to hang out with you anymore."
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Well your a young girl and you should enjoy your freedom of being single.. but anyways i think you need to talk to him.. ask him why he dont like you and why all the sudden he doesnt like you... that might not make you feel better but you should see what has happened to your relationship with this guy.. i know it hurts to have that happen cause i've had it happen.. but really i know you'll get over it and meet a real good guy... gettin a good guy takes time some girls find em and some don't but i hope your one of the females that does and make standards that you want in a guy and always keep em...much luv dez
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The only way to find out whether or not he ever liked you would be to ask him. He lied when he said that he would never break up with you. He's a liar. It's completely normal not to want to listen to the advice that goes against something you enjoy. Thank them for their advice and listen to them next time, that's all you can do about it. Be sad for a while, then move on.
Why don't you want him to know that you're upset?
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i dont know what grade your in or how old you are, and despite wether or not you think age matters it does because people act different at different ages. im going to guess that your in highschool and depend the answer to your question (did he ever like you) on what you two did together. if you had sex or messed around its likely thats all he was using you for, but if you didnt mess around or anything like that then look at the way he acted. did he ever take you out places or bring you little gifts, or tell you nice things about how you look or how you do things? cause if all he ever said was that he likes you, either he has a problem with showing affection or he never liked you. this also depends on how long you were going out for. some guys just want the tittle of having a gf. so, i doubt i helped much because you didnt tell me everything i needed to know to help you, so sorry.
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