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-moves- My new advicenator name is Jo. BECAUSE I SAID SO.So. Ya know.
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One of my friends, her name's joanna but she likes to be called Jo. Well, she says shes a girl but she acts like a man, and on her msn messanger she put JO THE MAN, how do i tell her that she's a man without her going. "IM NOT A MAN ;.;"
>:[
I hate you.
One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?
---TinkerBelle---
omgoodnesswhataslut.
I like this guy who's quite weird. People calls him a nerd. He seems so quiet, aloof, shy but incredibly smart. I didn't get to talk to him often, but when he talks to me, i notice that his voice goes soft. Other times when we were discussing a project in a group, he either seems bored, brash, flustered or really egoistical. He seldom talks to people in class in the past, but recently he seems happier. He seems to dislike me at first, either ignoring me or giving sarcastic coments just like he does most people, but now he seems to talk to me a bit. Then the other day he suddently comes around and calls my name and calls me his sweetheart. What does that mean? Does he like me or was he just joking?
Yay. Smart guys. -claps hands- Good to know you're not a stupid slut. (: I'd like a guy like that. D:
Hey everyone,
Ok heres the problem...my neighbor is the hottest thing, hes a redneck about 15. And i really like him. We were friends when we were younger but his parents got divorced and now he comes down here on the weekends. There was never anything like sexual tension between us until now. But the pathedic part about this I havn't talked to him. i am super nervous and afraid. Of what? I guess rejection. What should I do? I wanna see where we could go? Please help...
BTW: 14 in April : Female
EW. Rednecks. What an awful label.
Ok, so there is this kid that likes me and I like him. I talk to him on the phone and at school. One day we got into the subject of boyfriends and girlfriends. So I said we would be like perfect and he goes yea let me think about it? Its been a month. How do I bring the subject back up, or do I just let it go?
He probably doesn't want you anymore. ;(
If anyone has Avant Browser(the pop up blocker) please help me. So, I just downloaded the new version. I tried to make my homepage www.msn.com but it didn't work. So I went to my internet options, and typed in www.msn.com for the homepage and clicked OK. Well its still not working, and the homepage now is about:blank and some weird website shows up. How do I get rid of this?
Avant Browser isn't a pop up blocker. It's a browser. Right? =/
Anyways. WHAT weird website shows up? It might be a browser hijacker, although when I had the DNS browser hijacker thinger, it never affected Avant Browser. Try using Norton Antivirus, you can go get a free trial.
Okay.My boyfriend told one of my best friends that he doesnt like me anymore so she can tell me. When I got online she told me and I was really mad. I was mad because all of my friends were telling me to break up with him because he didnt treat me right. He didnt know how to be a boyfriend and plus he was prude. He always told me that he loved me and he would never break up with me but look now he told her he didnt like me
anymore. Im so mad at my self that I didnt listen to my friends before. I didnt want to belive them. Now I`m hurt and I dont know what to do. I dont wanna talk to him and let him know I`m sad or anything. So .. do you think he ever liked me or that he just said he did? Im so confused and hurt. Please help! I rate 5's!
Well. Most relationships before college don't last anyhow. They're mostly really stupid relationships. AND LALALALA THERE HAVE BEEN STUDIIEES ON IT.
BREAK UP WITH HIM BEFORE HE BREAKS UP WITH YOU. :33 Take the pride of dumping him. Say something like "well, you're a horrible boyfriend, and really, I just don't want to hang out with you anymore."
(Sorry if this turns out really long!) I've only been cutting myself for a little over two weeks but I'm already addicted. I told my boyfriend first because I vent to him a lot. I trust him and he can comfort me. Then later I told my teacher and she suggested for me to talk to my school counselor. My teacher told my parents, too. My mom talked to me but it wasn't about ME, it was about what my sister went through. It wasn't helpful. So I talked to the couselor. She freaked out and kept telling me, "You can't do that! STOP! You have to stop! If you do it again I'll tell the principal!" That is not what I expected from her. It wasn't helpful or encouraging. It was threatening! It almost made me want to cut! Later that day I was sitting alone in the gym slicing the skin on my arms and my Gym/Health teacher saw me and made me go alone in a room with him to talk. He kept telling me that even though life may suck now, it'll get better because I "have a good mind". I didn't think it was helpful either, but I started crying. Everytime I had to talk to someone, I wanted my boyfriend there holding my hand helping me endure it. I feel uncomfotable around everyone but him. One day my teacher actually tried to send me home because I was cutting and crying and miserable. I told her I didn't want to go home, I just wanted to talk to James. (James is my boyfriend.) She said she couldn't let him out of class. I glared at her and wouldn't talk to her. She called my parents and they took me home. The whole time I wanted to scream, "I JUST WANT JAMES!" When I got home I just reread old notes from my bf. He's the only one who can comfort me and it feels like he's the only reason I go on living. Do I depend on him too much? How can I stop cutting if I have nobody to talk to? Please comment or give advice! Sorry so long!
Stop feeling sorry for yourself? How "horrible" can your life be that you'd want to hurt yourself? People hurt themselves to EAT, to find food, risk their lives to actually be able to survive, and you're just whining. WHY are you cutting? Do you really think James wants you to cut yourself and hurt yourself and he has to comfort you over and over again? Do you think he wants to comfort you if you're never going to change? Helloooo. Welcome to denial.
ok i have been seeing this kid for like a month and im really starting to like him alot... but we are just "dating" and now his ex is like trying to jump back in... which i think shes a total bitch and he knows i do... is this just jealousy im feeling or is there something i can do. i hope she doesnt steal him... .
nicole
I don't know. Flick her off or something. :BB
Last night.. i was with my boyfriend... and we were in the moment. I let him finger me and then we had sex. I am only 14 and it was my first time. I wasn't really ready, but I was just so much into the moment. What should I do?
He didn't pressure me into it. I just let him do it. He has asked me in the past if it would be alright for him to finger me. I told him I would let him when the time was right.
Do I talk to him about last night.. or should I just let it be and not let it happen again?
omgoodness. Talk to him, if you want. What can you say? It's best if you just don't let it happen again, atleast not for a few years, and it depends how long you've been with him tooooo. -cough-
i have had this best freind of mine since i was in 4th grade. recently in 8th grade she and i started acting really different. i cared what other people thougth of me, and she couldnt care less...i knwo i shoudlnt care...but thats not what im askin advice about. well one time she told me that she had to go to the doctor and i might never see her again and left it at that. so i was worried. well it turned out that she had family problems and she was cutting herself. well we 'broke up" as friends and my parents are always askin why dont i ever talk to her anymore. im afarid that they wont except that we broke up bcuz she acted weird and i just thougth she was plain weird for an answer...what do i do?
You're a horrible person. D:
once again my friend jojo thinks shes not gay but i know she is she says she likes girls butts to me once, how do i convince her tats shes gay?
You big fat meanie. >( I'M NOT GAY.
My friend jojo likes ... women, she wants to see cat woman but im not sure if i should take so what should i do
SHUT UP. >( I'M NOT GAY! >(
2 weeks ago (to the day) I got grounded for acting like an idiot. I screwed up big time. I'm in trouble pretty much for saying I was at a friend's house and then leaving her house to hang out with other people. My parents were pissed beceause they couldn't find me for 2 hours. Understandable. But I have nothing. I'm not allowed on the computer (shh dont tell lol) I can't use the phone, go places, have people over, and they took my cell away. I'm going insane not being able to talk to people. They won't even tell me how long I'm grounded for. They keep saying that I'm grounded until they feel that I have proven to them that I can be let off of punishment. What exactly can I do to prove this? I've been cleaning and doing all that shit. I have a job, I'm active in sports, get decent grades. Honestly, most parents want a child like me. I mess up once in awhile, everyone does, but everytime I do they like spazz on me (usually when i mess up tho its pretty bad..) I just want to frikin be able to do something! i feel like i'm in prison except its worse because i have no one to talk to, i cant go outside, and i have no phone privilages. I'm going crazy!
Have a talk with them, tell them that you're extremely sorry. What you did was irresponsible, and tell them you understand that. Ask them for an hour on the computer and three phone calls a week. Help when you don't have to, eventually they'll let you out. =D
Hey. I thank everyone in advance. I'm an advice columnist on here, but I need advice.
Here's my problem:
I used to be BEST FRIENDS with this girl, Nicole. We used to do everything together - camping, swimming, movies, ext. About 8 months ago - we got in a huge fight, and ended our friendship. It was entirely my fault. About 4 months ago - we started talking again. She said she forgave me, and that we could still be friends. Since then - we've talked about 10 times. The problem is: I really miss her being around. Everyone in my family says they want her and I to be friends again. What should I do? Do I call her, or IM her more? Or should I just forget about it? I have more friends, but I really miss her. Thanks for all advice. I'll rate.
*Sincerely,
Ash*
Nothing really can change. I understand you must miss her, but the only thing you can do is to tell her how much you miss her around. Don't IM her more, call her more. Just tell her that you miss her, and everything will follow its own path from there. *dramatic music*
what is the normal/ideal weight for a girl that is 5'8 and is 14 years old?
Around 110-140! Anywhere under 100 would be considered underweight. And above means you're fat.