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I just did something I shouldn't have...
Last night.. i was with my boyfriend... and we were in the moment. I let him finger me and then we had sex. I am only 14 and it was my first time. I wasn't really ready, but I was just so much into the moment. What should I do?
He didn't pressure me into it. I just let him do it. He has asked me in the past if it would be alright for him to finger me. I told him I would let him when the time was right.
Do I talk to him about last night.. or should I just let it be and not let it happen again?
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If I were in your shoes, I would talk to him and let him know that it was a one-time thing, and that I really wasn't ready. Bring it up gently, and let him know that he can't expect that.
Just tell him what you're thinking right now. Honesty and the willingness to communicate lead to great relationship.
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Talk to him so that he knows that you really aren't ready
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I'm kind of in the same boat as you right now. I lost my virginity about 3 weeks ago and I'm only 15. I don't think its the biggest deal in the world, but it is definitely important. Mostly you need to just talk to him about it and not let him avoid the subject. Don't let him force you into it all the time, but doing something for him and making sure he's happy every once in a while is an important part of the relationship.
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14 is kinda of early..but did you use protection?
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You should absolutely talk about it! What you did with him has serious implications, and has essentially changed you for the rest of your life. In all honesty, you're only 14 - you're likely not going to be with this guy forever. If you weren't ready, then why didn't you stop him? You now have to live with this decision for the rest of your life. Yes you should talk to him about this, and if he just blows it off, then that's a signal. Likewise, if you just blow it off, that speaks volumes about your ability to cope with this.
Do the right thing - take control of this situation before it gets even more out of hand.
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If you feel it was a mistake, then I think you really ought tell him. Just explain your feelings, and see what he thinks about this. But what's done is done, so just tell him that you're in no hurry, and you don't have any intentions of allowing this to happen again. I'm sure he'll understand where you're coming from and respect your decision. Hope I helped!
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If he pressured you into anything it's not right.. you should talk to him about last night and tell him how you really felt and how you feel now..
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Def. talk to him about it.. otherwise how will he know if you liked it or not. Just be honest with him, tell him you weren't ready and if and when you are.. you will let him know. 14 is young.. and you were just caught up in the moment but at least you know what you feel and if you don't want to do it again then trust me.. DON'T DO IT.. you'll end up regretting it in the future.. If you guy doesnt understand then leave him.. you need a respectful guy..
hope i helped..
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Good Luck w/everything
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you can talk to him. tell him how you feel. I know a lot of 14 year old people that lost it at that age. Just tell him how you feel, and if you think its right to have sex again with him then go ahead. Its all up to you. Just be safe!
-holly-
Hope i helped
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dear i just did,
for one you are a little young but i am only 15 and i have almost had sex. well it's hard when you are caught up in the moment. but with me i just don't want to get pregnant rite now. so i hope you used some kind of birthcontroll. i think you should talk to your boyfriend about last nite and you should wait until you are ready. if he pressures you then it's called rape if you don't wanna. but you should go get tested just incase something happened.
just be careful!! *~~~shana~~~*
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omgoodness. Talk to him, if you want. What can you say? It's best if you just don't let it happen again, atleast not for a few years, and it depends how long you've been with him tooooo. -cough-
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Tell him that you didnt feel you were rally ready and that you dont really want to do it again until you are actually fully ready
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