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Gender: Female
Location: EaSt HaVeN CT
Occupation: want to be eather a animal cop or a orca trainer at sea world orlando FL
Age: 13
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Member Since: July 19, 2004
Answers: 44
Last Update: February 16, 2006
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there are these kittens under my porch and i don't know what to do...i know to call the spca but,my mom says i can have because there is only 3..but here is the problem they will not come to me..i don't know how to get them to come to me...
can somebody help..i don't want it to snow one day really because i don't want them to get sick.

if you really love animas then you answer this then... (link)
ok well first things first if they are old enough that they are running around and walking lyk a maby medioum size there is no way they r goin to be tame. if they are from 2-5 weeks u have a good chance of cathing them but if they are older no way


I have a stalker and he is sending me notes and he is always following me, like Ill turn around and he will be there in a black suit and mask like way far away, and he says that if I go to the police then he will kill me before I get there, and he took all of my phones out of my house, and he never goes away, like if I even step outside at like 1:30 in the morning and walk 5 steps he is there and he knows what I am doing, he sleeps outside my house. He is really scary so cud someone help me like NOW! please!!!!!!!! (link)
well i feel for you i think that you should go to the police what he is saying is a bluff. or you can just get on a plane and go far away were he cant find you. or move in with your family. and it depends how old you are. he is proble a guy who is compltly harmless and just needs a life.

love vanna

i hope everythig works out fo you tell me how it goes.


ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
not tryin to be mean but tel her to stop or jus say sum its either save yur frendslife that u care about and u get calld a tatle tale for a couple of days or u dont tell and u lose a frend and be called stupid for the rest of yur life. u chose

vanna


ok so i got a new dog she is golden retriver!!
her old owns gave her the name lexi but i dont wan t that to be her name!! what would be a good name for her??

thanks bunchs
lauren (link)
well name him or her by the persinality


I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!
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okay u need to stay come and u should tack a prganacy teast cuz u have almost all the simptoms of bein pregnet and if u r u can get a abortion witch will kill the the baby and lots of ppl get them or u can keep it the choose is yurs.

luv vanna


ok i already asked this qquestion once but im going to do it again and give more information.. i have a small bump on the inside of my pubic area & its itchy & sometimes irritated & sore.. ive never had with my boyfriend & he has no signs of STD's ..i have shaved down there but its been a while and sometimes i don't wear underware so there is a good chance it may be just an irritated sweat bump or something.. still i am scared, im going to the doctor next week just to make sure, does anyone have any suggestions to what might be causing this? (link)
it is probably irratated from not waring any under wear or an ingrone hair from shaving put cream on it and a warm or hot cloth.


b luv vanna


Ok, I'm 13 and I get really bad depression. I've had it for like over a year now. I forgot what its like to actually have true happiness. And I know most teens go throug this, but mines pretty severe. Like I never want to do anything anymore, I just dont care, I hate life, And most of the time I just feel like dieing. And like ver since I got it, its screwed up my life. I lost all my friends and havent really had any in like a year. It seems easy when people just say "start making new friends" or "find an activity you like doing" or try to be happy or whatever, but its so hard. I don't know what to do about my depression. Please help? (link)
well wat u should do is not think bout it go to places meet people and try to find sum u lyk i now it is goin to be hard but try not tp think bout it always look at the positives it will help beleave me and u could talk to sum one lyk a older sis or bro or yur parents.


luv vanna


i have been fingered like 3 times but after were done my stomach hurts really bad, is this normal?
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i really really really dont think so talk to yur doctre right away


i have this white stuff in my underwear.. what is it?! kthnxbye (link)
it is the beginnig stages of yur period dont worrie it isnt nuttin to serius jus wear a panty liner and talk to yur docter or mom the chose is yur


luv vanna


can you have sex while your on your period? (link)
u could get pregnet without birth control or a condom


I am 17 years old and I feel that it is time for me to tell my friends and parents about me being gay. I have managed to tell a few friends already, and they took it easy. I don't want my other friends (guys in particular and girls that hate gays) to turn around and say that I am gross and never talk to me again. How do I tell them and my parents without it sounding so harsh? I am still the same person as before..

17/m (link)
well u have nutthin to be ashamed bout jus go wit wat yur heart says if yur frends and parents really luved u they would except u for who u r and treat u the same as befor



luv vanna


I'm going into the 9th grade this year. I'm looking forward to it, except for one part.. I have to ride the bus. I rode it in the 7th grade & part of the 8th grade. A bunch of the guys on the bus are total jerks. They harassed me & my friend & one guy even grabbed my friend's butt! And the bus driver doesn't give a crap about it. I dreaded going to school if I had to ride the bus that day. What can I do to prevent myself from riding the bus? I don't wanna be a victim of harassment anymore. (link)
well u tell them to stop or u will make them and that yur not scred of them i wouldnt take that shit from no one dont care if ther bigger or storger u have rights and u should be able to get a ride to skool and not have to worry dont worry u tell them off or say sum thell leave u right alone


luv vanna

PS:tell me how it goes and u can do it =)


Hey!I am 14 almost 15(august 17)and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2months.And he says i am perfect and like the "one".And says that we will be together forever.And i feel the exact same way too.And he asked me to marry him and i said yes!But we are not going to get married till we are out of school!But did i do the right thing about saying yes???ill rate you if u answer!~Kristen~ (link)
well yur just following yur heart ther is no right or rong answer



luv vanna


PS:tell me if u get married and how it works out =)


I had asked a question about denial..and I thought I would elaborate to make it easier to comprehend the question. Just for your knowledge and information, I am a 14 year-old girl. Someone was saying I have muscle tone in my cheeks and I was like what!? Then he said "Denial is the first stage?" What does this mean? Thanks! (link)
nutthing at all dont worry it jus means yur dening sum


luv vanna


In school, i've always been called names like "gay" and "fag". i think its because
#1) i have a high voice and...
#2) i act goofy alot cause i like to have fun

most of the time people are joking but sometimes people really think im gay. it doesnt make me feel that great:(. i wish there was a way to stop it. please help. (link)
well jus say im not gay im goin throu puberty so dont take that shit from o one


luv vanna


PS: tell me how it works out =)


Whenever I see a few people at school huddled in a corner laughing and looking at me, I think they are laughing at me. Then I end up skipping class cause I dont want to have to go through that. What can I do so I stay in class and not worry about them? (link)
well u r tuf u go right ^ 2 them and say wat u laghin at u keep lookin at me and laghin i jus want to know thenx.

luv vanna

PS:yull get throu this belive me tell me how it works out =)


13/m

ok see..theres this kid thats 2 years older than me and hes BI. i know theres nuttin wrong wit that but there is..when he likes u! his name is anthony and he has a crush on me! he told me when i was in 6th grade! i almost passed out! i am tromotized! whenever i see him, i feel like throwing up and i stay as far away from him as humanly possible! i really dont like him cause he harrases me! its gross! what should i do to block this outta my mind!

i rate! (link)
well first of all hun u dont need to take that shit from him tell him to nock it the fuck off or u will tell the police or sum 1.



luv vanna

PS:hope he leaves u alone and wen he does u will forget all bout him just think bout sum pleasnt =)


Okay im 17 i will be 18 n feb n there is this boy that i talk to on the net n like i met him a couple times n talked to him n he is 15 wont be 16 intill march n like i can tell him anything n i think im sorta getting feelings for him but i dont know if i should date him since he is 15 n younger them me .. n my friends what will they think> (link)
well if u do sum wit him it will be statatory rape so go out wit him then wen he is 18 do wat u want



luv vanna


okay. i have a super-creepy stalker, and i talked about it at work and after that my friend called him and told him to leave me the hell alone because i told him to. the thing is.. i never said that. then my stalker got real mad and said " mind your own f-ing buisness a-hole!" and now im really afraid... for both myself and my friend. now i have to go back to school in a month and i have to see him everyday. im so worried that he is going to hurt me because he really doesnt respect authority at all. and i dont really want to talk to him at all because thats how this whole stalking thing began-- with me being nice to him. im so confused and everytime i see him i start shaking and my heart pumps really fast. do i need therapy or something? help me (link)
no not at all hun u did nuttin rong u need to call the police u dont need therpy he needs therpy i feel bad dont go ^ to him he might try dum so tell yur parents or the skool or the polioce okay.

tell me how it all worksout
luv vanna

PS:dont show him yur scared he will feed off it dont worry =)


I am in love wit my teacher...I mean wanna F him all the time what should i do..I mean we already did it. (link)
okay well if u lyk him and love him talk to him bout it it isnt right uless yur olmost the same age but jus talk to him.

tell me how it goes and tell yur frends bout me luv vanna




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