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CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT??
Hey!I am 14 almost 15(august 17)and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2months.And he says i am perfect and like the "one".And says that we will be together forever.And i feel the exact same way too.And he asked me to marry him and i said yes!But we are not going to get married till we are out of school!But did i do the right thing about saying yes???ill rate you if u answer!~Kristen~
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well yur just following yur heart ther is no right or rong answer
luv vanna
PS:tell me if u get married and how it works out =)
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You're 14, right? you're not even of legal age to decide whether you want to marry or not. you can think you want to, but you've only been together 2 months. give it time.
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awe yes! if thats how you really feel then you made the right choice!! =)
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well, its not good to play around like that, but if he is a naive person, u did the wrong thing, but if he knew u was playin then there nothin to worry about..but u need to watch out for the things that u say next time.
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Hey Kristen! You prolly wont like my advice, but here it is:
I think you are a bit too young to make such a huge commitment. Even if you aren't too young, 2 months isn't long enough to get to know him. You have a lot more time in school. Don't ruin the best years of your life by commiting yourself to one guy. If you still feel like he's the one when you're out of school, then congrats!
xoxo, Lara
((hope I helped!!))
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How old are you? sorry But I would of waiting a little longer alteleast almost a year or even a year!!
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I really don't think it was the right thing to do.If you marry him right out of school, you might miss some of the fun things in life.
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HM WELL my opinion is no it wasnt the right thing to do by saying yes!I have had experience in this department!My aunt was 13 when she met this guy he was almost 21 and by the time she was 18 they were married,had a little girl,and another one on the way!She never finished high school never did any teenager stuff becuase she was spending all her time with him!He is a great guy and takes very well care of her and their two girls but she is 20 now and has never had a job,has two little girls and wants to party and be a kid!She totally regrets marrying him and now they are seperating!Its just a bad thing to get into at such a young age!
Hope I helped and you give it more thought!
*Lacey
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no no no and let me think no!
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Whoa! He asked you to MARRY him?! I wish a guy would do that to me... But I think it's too soon. What if your feelings change by then? What if he does something you don't like? Maybe you should talk to him a bit more about it.
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was it like a spur of the moment thing? dont you think thah your like a lil young to anser questions like thah? (no offense er anything) anyways if thahs how ya feel then i gess theres nothing rong...just make soore ya dont change your mind in the footoore...ya noe?
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If you really love him, and he really loves you, then you absolutely did the right thing! I promised my boy friend to marry him because I know I love him and I'm 14 too! Think of it as an expression of how you love him so much that would promise him the rest of your life to prove how much you love and care for him! I think it's really sweet! Good luck hunny! :)
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That is really cute. AWW. lol. I think saying yes to him wasn't bad at all. Because you guys are in love like you said. No one can stop you from whom you love. But, if you want to, you can wait til you're like 21 until you guys can actually drink. And/or maybe you guys should also wait til you're done with college or something. But, I don't see the big deal if you said yes to him, you two are in love and that is really sweet! You're boyfriend seems awesome and you seem very happy!
xoxo Kourtney
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Yeah if you are in love and you know its really something but just make sure you guys stay strong but i would have made it a promise like if he got you a ring instead of it being a ring to say your getting married make it a promise ring saying that you'll last forever and you'll eventually get married and you promise-trix
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Well of course you did the right thing because you said you love him ... so yes it is the right thing but if you just said yes to not hurt his feelings .. no that is not the right thing but ... i think you did the right thing by doing that ( ONLY IF U REALLY LOVE HIM BACK )
love Ashley ,~plz rate me~
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there's really no harm in saying yes because words aren't like a contract or anything. its good you aren't trying to get married right now though, because you might change your mind in the next 4-5 years. only time will tell if your relationship with him will still be at the same level in the future. peace out
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Kristen,
You're too young to get married! I don't mean that you might not marry him someday but wait till you're at least 23 to get married. You did the right thing by saying yes if you know he REALLY REALLY REALLY loves and you that goes to you too! Hope yall r a happy couple!
Good Luck,
Ali <3
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The fact that you said "yes" to this is essentially meaningless.
You're only 14 (yes, soon to be 15) - there's a lot yet to learn, a lot yet to experience. You're early in learning about what love is, and odds aren't good that this relationship is going to last. Not to say that it can't happen, but the odds are against you. And there's nothing wrong with that.
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Tough one! No one can really say it was wrong because its both of your feelings! But dont go arranging anything! If you ever feel you want to back out let him know you like him but marriage - you arent ready!
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Well, fact of the matter is... It probably wouldn`t happen like that. I hope you guys last a long time though... Just dont get your hopes too high... And if you start off like that, in the end, you could be really heart broken because of the words that have been said. ( thats how I was anyways ) But I think it`s awesome that you think you`ve found "the one" and he has too. I wish you the best!
megan.
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Well most relationships start off like that and then something happens, it may have been a little too early for him to ask the question, just see how everything goes during the relationship
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At 14 years old, you may have made your decision a bit too quickly. People change. Chanves are, by the time you and he are ready to get married, you'll both a changed an imnense amount. And 2 months? That isn't a very long time.
Do you really want to commit yourself to this guy for the rest of your life? Thats a very long time...
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Well, honestly I think ya'll are somewhat too young to be talking about getting married at the age you're at. I have had alot of freinds in the past who've though they were going to be with their boyfriends forever, and at the age of 15 and 16. But two months AT THE AGE you're at, is too young to tell anything. I would re-vise your awnser to that a little bit. More than likley this is the point ya'll are just getting started in a long-term relationship, which is AWESOME. But I would hold out talking about marrige so soon.
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