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Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: November 15, 2007
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is anybody having difficulties downloading music? cuz i dont know whats going i cant get any songs to come up with the artists im typing in and i even typed in common ones like backstreet boys and britney spears and still nothing.. what do i do? (link)
you might want to try shutting down and restarting. if that doesn't work then delete the program/programs completely and re-download. if it still doesn't work then i would try a different program. i have been told bearshare works well or ares.


I NEED SOME NEW SUMMER HAIRSTYLES SO BADLY. all i ever wear my hair is either down straight or down wavy. any hairstyles that are in right now? pictures would be nice too, please. thanks.

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p.s-my hair is medium-longish. about 4 inches past my shoulders. (link)
well you could wear your hair in a messy bun every once in awhile, or put it half up, or even in a ponytail. if you have bangs you can clip your bangs back while your hair is either wavy or straight and i'm sure both will look good.


i am a very shy person, even when i am around people i know i always feel like anything i say they are judging me about it! or that they are talking about me! i suppose its more that i am paranoid, but is there anything i can do to stop this!? please help its really embarrasing! (link)
i know how you feel and i know that sometimes you feel its better to just not say anything at all, but then again your around your friends so you should be able to say whatever you want. if you ever feel stupid just laugh it off and make everything out to be a joke. real friends don't judge you on the way that you act or the stupid things you say because in reality we all do stupid things, or say stupid things all the time. no one should treat you badly just because of something you say so just try to laugh it off and be happy and things will go your way. sometimes you need to just be around a lot of people a lot in order to get used to not feeling so shy anymore. a lot of people in this world judge a lot about everything especially if your in highschool but you shouldn't worry about it.. just act yourself and just remember that real friends won't judge you and if they do, you'll know to just find new friends its as easy as that =)


Ive been going out with my boyfriend since the beggining of april and he still seems to think i dont like him alot or that i dont wanna hang out with him. Weve been friends for over 3 years and i was at his house every day last summer. Byt he thinks im not going to be there with him alot this summer. Well, my mom and step dad are both going to iraq, which is where i live closest to him. And i told him the only way we wouldnt hang out is if i cant get a ride from my dads house. My dads house is five minutes away but he wont let me use my bike. So how can i convince him that, i do like him alot, i wanna be around him, and that im gunna try to hang out with him whenever i can?

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don't let up and keep on telling him that you care about him.. guys can be just as moody as girls sometimes but the thing is he needs to be told that he can also make an effort to come see you every once in awhile. maybe your dad will be willing to take you to his house once a week or you can walk and meet up somewhere, or even go to someone elses house and get a ride with a friend. if none of that works you can just talk to him on the phone or online a lot and maybe when you see him give him a gift or something to show him how much you care =)


I have a twin sister, and we are 2 minutes apart at birth, me being the eldest. My mom has always stressed to us that favoritism is highly inappropriate and rejected in a parent-child relationship, her being a victim of favoritism herself. But currently, I feel that secretly, my mom favors my sister more, and a lot of times I feel invisible to her. She rarely has time to listen and value my opinion on things, and this has caused us to grow apart.... What can I do to make my mom see and understand how I feel?

Thank you. =)
15/f (link)
I think one of the only things you can do is just to talk to her about it and tell her everything that is on your mind because in reality only seh can change the way she acts if you know what i mean. obviously you would have to talk to her when no one else is around and make sure she knows that you really mean it and you really care. i don't have a twin but i'm sure it can be difficult at times alwyas having to deal with another one of you (haha) but just think about it this way, your sister might even feel the same exact way and just hasn't said anything yet. i think sometimes parents 'favor' their other kid (usaully the oldest) without even realizing it. in all, your mom loves you both no matter how sappy that sounds so you should just talk to her and even though it seems like shes always busy try to plan a day of the week where just you 2 hang out or something, might help! good luck =)


well, i'm into the whole punk-rock scean. the real stuff (anti-flag, bouncing souls ect.) but anyway my friends aren't they think they are so cool because they listen to Jessica Simpson. So i've kinda grown away from my chick friends and started hanging out with guys but i need some chick friends around to help with the boy troubles and what not. But i can't have a conversation with them without them either getting mad at me or judging me. it really pisses me off. (link)
in my opinion, anyone who doesnt accept you for yourself isnt worth it. so i'd find some new friends that are into the same things you are or w/e and just forget about the other ones.. if they were true friends they wouldnt care about what you listened to or how you dressed.


I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice (link)
well for starters, you should start hanging out w/ girls that your comfortable with. just be yourself.. if any girl doesnt accept you for who you are then shes not worth it. dont worry so much about what they think though.. other than that i think you should be good to go.


ive been goin out with mi b/f 4 2 months almost 3 and i was wondering for valentines day if i culd get hm a cute card maybe a teddy bear that says i love you ? wuld guys hate if they get a teddybear ? wats relle sweet and cute to get them? (link)
i think it would be cute to get him one of those really big cards and a bear


my friend is 6 months pregnant and shes only 13 but i dont knw wot to do. i know i shudnt get involved but i'm the only person shes told and she has no intention of telling any1 else. her bf's a prik so he aint worth telling. i jus dont want sumthing to happen to her or the baby when i cud of helped by telling somebody. i dont want enyfin to happen but i dont want to loose a m8! (link)
for starters you should tell an adult.


ok i love my boyfriend and everything but whenever well be on the phone and hell have to eat or something,..hell say ill call you back in like 20 minutes...and hell be like i love you so much ill talk to you in 20mins babe i love you...but then hell acll me back in like TWO HOURS!! i talked to hmi about it earlier tonite and hes like well stuff comes up i either have to leave w/ my parents or have to do chores or something and then hes doing it again right now!!....hes not getting the hint!!! what can i do?? (link)
hmm well i guess he just has a busy life! you should try to talk to him about it.. you have to understand tho that he can't always have time to talk.. i'd call him or meet him in person n tell him how you feel.. you should try to make more time to hang out w/ eachother


Ok thre is this guy that i like but he is 18 know and i am 15. And i just found out that his girlfriend is prenget and i like him really bad. but i have know him for since i was little cause he and my uncle were good friends. We use to party together but that was the old days. And i don't know if i should tell him bow i fell. But i hope some one can help me. Michy (link)
Hey-i'd just be there for him and try to cheer him up because i'm sure when hes in a situation like that hes really heart broken.. u should just give him some time n eventually he'll get over her. when you feel comfortable you should go ahead and tell him!--good luck


ok well I'm in love with my best friend and tonight at the dance which finished at 12:00 well during like 9 he told me I'm gonna ask Maria out and he was so happy she said yes and like now I don't know I feel jealous because I've known him my whole life and never has he ever liked me and I'm so in love man I hate the fact he has a girlfriend I'm sad I have no clue wut to do should I tell him?...I'm a nervous chica (link)
im sorry =/ all u can do is just be there for him n be happy n just hope their relationship wont last haha.. but most of all be there for him--i think that since you guys are such good friends eventually he'll like you thats what happens to almost everyone.. but yah just be a really good friend for him especially when they break up so he sees that you really do care about him!!


i think i mite be a lesbian, i catch myself looking at gils as well as guys at school and when my friends come over when they sleep i cant help but think what it would be like if they come on to me, what would i do? HELP! (link)
i dont think your lesbian exactly.. i guess its normal to wonder sometimes?? haha i dont really know sorry =/


anyone have idea`s when there stressed.. or shitty mood and feel blahh how to cheer up.
any thing im out of ideas.. (link)
YES party-go shopping-hang out w/ friends-take a day off from things and just rest.. stuff like that!


ok my friend jessica has a HORRIBLE problem! she never stops sweating. even shes sitting down shes sweating. People usually sweat when there hot or doing physical activity but she sweats when shes sitting on the couch and watching tv. she was too embarased to ask this question online so i told her that i would do it for her (ima good friend lol) shes tried ALL diff deoderants and NOTHING can stop it. its only under arm sweating and its gotten so bad. please help her! thanks!

signed..
trying to help a friend! (link)
well maybe she should go to the doctors or something.. deoderant isnt really gonna do anything it just stops the smell


yesterday i fell off my bike cuz my chain broke and my hands r all scraped up and hurt is there n e thing i can eat or drink or do that will make it heal faster and school starts really soon and i dont want my hands to hurt cuz im in sports and stuff plz help (link)
well theres not really much you can do.. just rest up n everything n it will heal eventually! just get as much rest as you can n dont do much


i waz going out with this grl but then i went on vacatin. when i got back i got my freind to break up with her n the day after she called my friends when i waz there and i started callin her names liek i said she waz ugly n anoying n stuff like taht. i herd she cried for like a week or so. so now skool is back and i seen her and she got soo much hotter!!! i wana ask her out but i dont think she wud say yes cuz what i did 2 her so wut am i suposed 2 do !!?? (link)
lol well dont just ask her out cuz shes hot.. its all about the personality too


im having a sleepover and i need a theme.there will be 3 girls there and we r 14 so plz help wiv sum good themes i rate well (link)
you could watch movies-prank call ppl =P hehe- go on the cpu-go to someone elses house-go to the movies or mall-.. yah


OK...i went to "browse columnists" and i couldnt find myself!Is there something i need to know so that i can find myself cause i rly want to see how im doing!thnx 4 answerin if u can!xoxo (link)
no.. its ok cuz im not on there either lol.. if u wanna see how ur doing go to view feedback or whatever n u can see how ppl rated your advice!


It wont let me veiw my column! it just goes to a blank page like it hasnt loaded yet but it never loads! I want to see my feeback and everything. DOes anyone know why its doing this? Am i doing something wrong? (link)
hmm i duno.. try to contact an administrator like e-mail them.. if that doesnt work try to view someone elses column its probably just your internet.. if not--just try to make another column!




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