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BOYFRIEND
ok i love my boyfriend and everything but whenever well be on the phone and hell have to eat or something,..hell say ill call you back in like 20 minutes...and hell be like i love you so much ill talk to you in 20mins babe i love you...but then hell acll me back in like TWO HOURS!! i talked to hmi about it earlier tonite and hes like well stuff comes up i either have to leave w/ my parents or have to do chores or something and then hes doing it again right now!!....hes not getting the hint!!! what can i do??
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I think you should seriously talk this through with him. I know you have, but tell him that you want straight answers and not a mask of the truth. Otherwise you have two options, believe him and stick with it and get angry, or jus leave him, i say that like its easy but i know its not.... Or wot else you could do is call him back if he hasnt phoned, dont do this all the time or youll frighten him. But youve gotta ask yourself.. is a guy who lies to you worth the hassle and stress. Talk to him mainly
hope i helped
anthony
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After you talk you cant really do anything but talk some more. Just tell him that you would appreciate a small phone call saying that he cant talk long but just to let you know that he has something that came up-trix plz rate
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Im going to be honest with you. This sounds like a very similar situation my friend went through with her friend. OUr friend who loved to be on the pgone for aa veerrry long time would call my other friend, and she would always make excuses why she had to go. My friend is this girls friend..but she doesnt like talking on the phone like that. Maybe your bf doesnt want to talk on the pgone so much like that..so go straight out and ask "hey maybe we should talk less on the phone.." Its not that your bf doesnt like you..i just think maybe he doesnt want to be on the phone for so long. I hope i helped
-melissa
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How about instead of hinting you come right out and say what's grabbing at you.
For instance you could say "hey, sometimes when you say you're going to call back in 20 minutes, you don't. Maybe next time when you're going to have to hang up, you can call me back real quick to say 'It'll be a little longer than I expected'."
You could have him text message you when he is not going to be able to call back shortly... or just tell him not to put a time limit on it at all. Tell him to take his time or to just go and call you back when it's conveinient for him. He can always leave a message, and sooner or later you'll be available.
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Honestly, you shouldn't be sweating the situation. He probably just has things that get in his way from calling you right back. Atleast be happy that he calls, shit some girls bfs don't even call. Plus its good to have some space anyway. You guys don't need to be talking on the phone every second, soon enough you will have nothing to talk about and that's how young couples get bored with eachother and end up splitting.
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hmm well i guess he just has a busy life! you should try to talk to him about it.. you have to understand tho that he can't always have time to talk.. i'd call him or meet him in person n tell him how you feel.. you should try to make more time to hang out w/ eachother
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sorry to say..but stuff does come up! I find myself telling people the same thing. Maybe he just forgets to call you back...try calling him.
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Dear Boyfriend-trouble,
Why aren't you making the initiative and calling him yourself? Good luck.
♥Sarah
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