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I heard that the stuff in botox is a horrible toxin that can basically cause food poisoning... how come it helps people get the desired effect they want if its so poisonous? i dont understand how that works... wouldn't it make somebody look worse? more aged or something?
Yes it contains toxins but used in small doses such as botox.. its not as harmful.
Simple answer is...botox does bad.. and it causes good effects.
Botox blocks signals from the nerves to the muscles. The injected muscle can't contract. That makes the wrinkles relax and soften.
Its not a permanent action, and requires repeated procedures to maintain the desired effect.
Hope that helped!
I know it sounds gross but I don't want to embarress myself. So how can I dance on guys like really good. I have a big butt(no lie at all) thats why at the last dance a lot of guys wanted me to do that. I've done it before i just don't think it was GREAT. Please help the dance is tomorrow. I had no idea what
Youtube can be your friend!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUEt-ypKpSY&feature=related
(Need to know facts: I met his guy about two weeks ago, he is two years older than I am and I just moved into town.)
Alright so I just moved into my university dorm room and at one of the "meet and greet" parties I met this guy. He seemed like any other second year, trying to show off to all the freshmen.
Last weekend was my birthday so we went to a club and partied it up. By 'we' I mean my roomates, and such, including him. At the club my roomies and I were just celebrating my legal-ness and he comes over with the rest of the gang and says something like "group hug for the birthday girl!". Whatever, anyone could have said it right, but everyone else let go; he held on to my waist and started dancing with me. We walked home that night and we had a nice chat.
A couple of days later we were texting back and forth quite a bit. I was still in denial. We set up a 'date' to go to the gym. He was supposed to come over after class so we could walk over together. Two hours after we were supposed to meet, he texts me saying he went shopping and told me to call him when I wanted to go. I'm sorry but what the hell!? There wasn't enough time before I had my night class so he suggested he drop by after that class and we go until close. I reluctantly agreed and went to class. He somehow convinced mt to get out of clas early to meet him. Three hours waiting on a park bench in the cold kinda sucks. I decided I had had enough and went home. I got a call an hour later asking me to buzz him in the building where I live. I was really mad at this point but I wasn't going to stoop to his level and cancel last minute. After all, he DID come across town just for me. We ended up only having about 20 minutes at the gym so we had to walk home because they only give you a bus stamp if you stay for an hour. We had another nice chat, where at one point he offered his sweater because I was clearly cold in my tee.
When we got back to my appartment, all my roomates had gone nextdoor, leaving us the appartment to ourselves. (my roomates are sneaky like that) At this point I realised I DID like him so I just sat back and ignored the fact that I had waited for him a total of 9 hours that day. He stayed at my place until almost 2 in the morning, we had one of those 'omg' talks where you just want to keep talking because you're in the 'zone'. I really enjoyed it.
The next day, I was still a little frustrated by the fact that I had waited so long and he didn't even appologize. So I told him (through facebook mind you). He did however reply later on that day with a sincere sounding appology. We are supposed to get-together Friday night to watch a movie at my place.
Now, there are two questions I would liked answered.
One being, is there potential to him liking me because I want to tell him if there is any. I know that there is no way that anyone who doesn't know us both can tell me for sure when I can't even tell myself..lol but I'm just looking for an outsider's view.
Two being, do I pick a regular movie or do I chance it and pick a comedy/romance?
(If you require further details, I will be more than happy to add them in the extra section)
Yes there is potential to him liking you but for now i would just say cool out, and go with the flow. Its still early... 2 weeks, and yu have a lot of school left. Im a freshman in college to and my opinion would be to focus on school, and just for now... make friends. He is two years older then you and that doesnt mean much, but make sure you get the "full him" first, and see where it goes!
To your other question... just go see a hot movie thats out that you both wanna see... its plenty of them out.. and it will be something you both will enjoy :)
I need to make some friends. I used to have friends last year, but this year (sophmore), I just can't seem to make any or hang out with anyone. I stopped caring about my hair and myspace and facebook...stuff like that. Could that be a reason that people have stopped liking me? I just need to know a way to make friends and stand out from all the people like me. I don't want to be like everyone else and I want the girls that I sometimes hang out with to like me. These girls are the kind that guys think are sooo "hot" and "can't wait til they turn 18." They hang out with skater boys (i'm jealous) and are really really pretty.
My life pretty much just sucks in general :)
But help, if you can!
Yea, I think everyone goes through this at sometime or another.. i went through the same things myself.. my advice would be to spead yourself out a little.. just remember.. you can never have too many friends. Try striking up a convo with someone that you normally wouldnt, or taking a extra fun class.. or attending more school social things. The other columnist was right, you get out what you put in, but you have to put yourself out there and make yourself available ya know! Always remember to be yourself!
15/f ok so i really like this guy and i think he likes me back but he's just too complicated for me. we've never really talked before but just eyecontact and my friends tell me he always looks at me etc. and i used to date his best friend so i know him just a little bit but only talked once or twice. anyway im pretty sure he started liking me and i like him back. this is going on for over a year now. he's never had a gf and ive never had a bf. but he always makes me sad by his behaviour. i mean sometimes he notices me but then he just ignores me and makes me feel like shit. and i know hes doing it cos he wants to be cool but still. and basicly i know he's not that great and deffinetly not the best guy for me but i cant help liking him. im trying to get over him but i always think: what if it could be something AFTER ALL and im throwing it all away. you know what i mean? and i have my eyes on a nother guy who actually makes me smile a lot but i just dont seem to like him in that way. i dont get it, because i KNOW that if i like the other guy i'd be happy but i cant help liking HIM. i always seem to choose the guys who make me feel bad about myself and who are hard to get, and never like the sweet and kind ones :/
heeeelp
and please dont say that i dont really know him cos we've never talked. trust me we DO no eachother but i dont wanna spell it all out cos it'd be long. just trust me on this :)
You said you never really had a bf so i dont think this is a case about running to people bc you have low self esteem.. you just seem to go for the bad guys... which isnt ALWAYS a bad thing because they may portray that bad guy role to everyone else.. but to the people that take the time to dig a little further, they turn out to be the sweet and kind ones! i know.. but its crazy. SO I just say talk to him, i mean, you said you really havent and you never know what can happen from a simple talk! Just try it.. and if he still seems like a dorkwad.. then you'll know!
13/f
my best friends boyfriend likes me A LOT.
a couple days ago we were watching softball ***school thing*** and he played me a song. He said "listen to it". It was Far Away by Nickleback. I love that song. I didn't think anything by it. But today at lunch if he really felt that way and he said yes. So the song was in my head and i was listening to it on my ipod. "I dont like him i just really love the song." and my best friend got mad at me because i was listening to the song that explained his feelings. Please help me
My advice would be... to pull HER boyfriend over and tell him.. he is her boyfriend, and he isnt right for him to send you things like that. Then you need to pull her aside and let her know it was just a song (even if he has feelings.. forget them) it was just a song, and there are no mutual feelings behind them.. and assure her that it wont happen again. You dont want to mess up anything with your best friend over some guy... your 13! So try to take a little advice from someone a little older.. GUYS ARENT WORTH THE TROUBLE.. THEY COME AND GO BUT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS WILL STICK BY YOU!
does anyone know a song about A) a girl whos in love with her best friend and/or B) a girl whos in love with a gay guy
Its a song by Musiq and I think its called half crazy... go listen to it!!! or atleast see the lyrics
There are days I wish I never meet her, and I wish I never help her from her issues.
But for some reason I was lead to this path to meet her and help her, but why!?
I am in love with my best friend that I know for 8 years. And I am a woman who found out that I am bisexual. I had past relationships with men but they never work out and I never got over her. It’s hard when I try to deny my feeling of her when she is a touchy close person to me. She leans on me and teases too. I know friends do that but she can go too far on being close. She is still very close to me after I told her ho w I felt about her. She was shocked about it and she told me she is fine with it and will still be my friend no matter how I feel in my heart. She doesn’t feel the same way about me and she not ready for a relationship and she isn’t sure what gender she likes her self. I ask her why that is and she said she doesn’t feel any towards to men.
When I try to get over her I just can’t! I cry because I can’t get over her. What should I do?
I am moving to Hawaii with my family and my plan was to never talk to her no more so I can get over her. But she is my best friend and I don’t want to break her heart. What should I do if I see her with someone elus? I won’t handle it well I know it I just wish I can find out what to do.
You have to tell her how you feel. There was some chick I met that was in college.. we were kinda close, and i was STRONGLY attracted to her, but never told her about my orientation, and never told her how I seriously felt about it. She moved back home after school...we still keep up with each other, but I really regret not telling her. So my advice to u is... TELL HER! Its going to be hard but you have to tell her everything you feel. Maybe her teasing you..isnt just a game to her..maybe shes doing it for a reason! Sometimes you have to put some things aside and just go for it... you only live life once!
Sexy [from a guys point of view], acceptable in society if they are bisexual, acceptable in society if they are straight, and/or just plain wrong?
I think its sexy from any point of very if the girls are hot. I dont think its wrong. Some do it just as a dance.. others do it for more serious reasons...but hey.. if it floats your boat thats all that counts!
Does anyone have a good routine for waking up in the morning.As in getting ready for school
Time for hair
And make up.
From
6:00
to
7:00
And any good remedies for staying awake and falling asleep at night.
Mine doesn't seem to be working.
Its always better for your workout in the morning..so lets make extra time for that.. also getting your clothes ready the next b4 saves a lot of time.
5.30-6.00 -workout
6.00-6.15 -shower
6.18-6.38 -dressed/hair/makeup
6.40-7.00 -eat breakfast or if you dont.. this is 20 mins to put towards other things in the sched!
if a girl and a boy both wear a condom, doesnt that make it way likely yuo cant get pregnant? or can you not wear both
Its best to just pick one person to wear the condom. Since some guys see it as a hassle... let the woman wear it, and let the guy feel more "free". Like I said.. its best to wear only one!
i was talking on my cell to a boy i'm not allowed to date (but am dating anyway) and my parents now have the call records and i'm afraid they're going to call him, and find out i've been seeing him against their wishes. should i tell the truth (and end up grounded until i'm 60) or say it's someone else? i have no clue what to do next? help!
Tell your friend that if they (your parents) call him, either to not answer, or just tell them that he is a friend and yall two just talk on the cell. Its no big deal. If you tell them.. you might be jumping the gun, and confessing to them something that they werent even worried about. Thats like confessing to a vrime when no one thought it was you. Just relax, and see what happens next.. but dont turn yourself in!
MCalways
my friend was over my house she acts like a stud we switched cell phones for 2 day during them 2 day i got over 15 messages from her girlfriend saying stuff i dont even want to mention should i ask her is she gay or play like i dont know
sinceraly "cluless"
If she acts like a stud.. and you got messages from her "girlfriend" then you already know shes gay! lol
But when u see her again, i wouldnt come right out and ask her.. try somethin like.. "damn girl you got like 15 messages from so & so!.. so whats up with yall two?" Try and sound like you know shes gay, and you just want to find out about her and the other girls status. If you ask that way, you'll get your answer, and at the same time you wont wont freak her out by being attacking.
Hope I helped!
MCalways!
what is a wet dream? do girls and guys get them?
You can go to this site for " urban " answers
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=wet+dream
what is a snail trail
it seems reli strange askin but i think ii have an idea but i thought it meant one thing and my friends are makin it out to be something else n dnt wanna ask them cos they'll laugh lol
you can find some "urban" answers here
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=snail+trail
okay im going out with this guy
its great.
but like he wants to hang out everyday
and im the type that needs my space
like hanging out on weekends is great
and maybe sometime during the weekdays
but i feel like im too busy to hangout on
the weekdays...what should i tell him?
I think you just need to be upfront with him. You dont have to come out and say I NEED MY SPACE but one way or another your gonna have to tell him, or he'll drive you crazy.. its something that could ruin a good thing. If he wants to hang one day, just tell him that you have something home to catch up on and you cant hang that day, or tell him that your goin out with some of your other friends for a night out. Just tell him what you need to do... if things are going great.. then he should understand.. and not have a problem with you having a life!
Good Luck
ok well im 13 female.
i started high school already.well the point is that there is this guy...hes a 12th grader,cute,funny,and cool 2 talk 2.
We started talking because my friend wanted 2 get at him but he liked her as a homegirl. so she found herself a boyfriend and told me that me and him talk so good to each other that we should go out.And the thing is everybody asks me if thats my boyfriend and i say no but they don`t believe me because we are always together. n0w for the other part theres this other guy witch i like and he is just as cute,sweet,nice,and down to earth.well he tells everybody im his girl right...so he asked me to kick it with him on friday and i said sure but then the other guy asked me to go to the movies with him knowing that i was gonna go kick it with the other guy. i said sure to because i was just gonna spend some time with them right nothin serious.well the thing is that today in lunch me and da movie guy took a picture together because idk y but we did lol and the other guy got mad when he saw it on my myspace.I really hate to pick one because they are both great but i d0n`t kn0w what to do.oh and if this helps out da kick it guy even sings to me on the phone and i think that is so cute! s0 if you were me what would you do??im sorry for making it so long but yeah!
if you have a myspace add me at abelsandoval@sbcglobal.net thx i really need help on making up my mind and maybe there i can show you the guys=]
They both sound like great guys...but I cant help ya pick one! Thats your job! Just go with the one that you see the most happening with, like.. which one you think you could go far in a relationship.
Maybe just chill with both of them on a friends level, and get a better feel for who they really are, and it'll be easier for you to make a decison.
so for my advice.. i would say as for right now.. dont get caught up in a boyfriend girlfriend thing with either of them right now.. just do ya thing... keep it on a chill... and it'll get easier to find out which one is really for you!
Good lucky pimpin!
16/f
ok so this has never happened to me... I'm not one to act like this AT ALL.
I have the most amazing boyfriend(17) ever. He is perfect for me in every way.
I think about him every second of the day and at night.. I stay up for 2-3 hours thinking about him. Whenever I don't see him for a few days I miss him so much I cry (sad, I know).
Sometimes he'll drive across town just to see me for 10 minutes then, 1 minute after he leaves he'll call me just to tell me he misses me.
Every time I'm with him everything seems to fit just right (like a puzzle, he says). We are so comfortable with eachother it's unreal. I feel like I've known him forever even though we've only been dating a few months.
(he told me he feels the same about me)
What's going on with me? I feel like I'm going crazy!
this is a no brainer... I think you like your boyfriend a lot.. and in this case.. i think it would be called............
Love
I have to decide which person to hire for my company. One person has a lot of experience. The other has some experience. Obviously I should hire the first person. But the second person is struggling financially and has been for years. I don't know if it's up to me to end his struggling by hiring him or what. Who should I hire?
I cant really tell you who to hire, but obviously hire the one who has the most to offer. That doesnt necessarily mean the one with the most experience. Just pick the best fit for your position, and the one you will be the okay with picking. Live with no regrets!
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MCalways
It has been about three years now, and I cannot get over my ex boyfriend. I don't know what to do anymore. The last couple of weeks were perfect. I thought I finally got over him when we stopped talking for a while, but we started talking yesterday and I realized that I'm not over him. He hurt me so many times. He did really messed up things and I need to get over him. And I feel as though I'm getting there until he calls or messages me. I already locked up all of his things and through away memories. I need to get over him, what else do I do??
:(
Hmmm sounds familiar...
The best thing that i could say right now would be to tell him not to talk to him...because obviously you need a little more time to get over him. I remember i was in this exact same positiion and my friends would do everything to keep me from answering my phone when he called. Even tho its been 3 years apart... sometimes it does seem like it takes forever to get over someone.
Give yourself some you time... not seeing him, talking to him.. it will make a world of difference!