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2 great guys on the line
ok well im 13 female.
i started high school already.well the point is that there is this guy...hes a 12th grader,cute,funny,and cool 2 talk 2.
We started talking because my friend wanted 2 get at him but he liked her as a homegirl. so she found herself a boyfriend and told me that me and him talk so good to each other that we should go out.And the thing is everybody asks me if thats my boyfriend and i say no but they don`t believe me because we are always together. n0w for the other part theres this other guy witch i like and he is just as cute,sweet,nice,and down to earth.well he tells everybody im his girl right...so he asked me to kick it with him on friday and i said sure but then the other guy asked me to go to the movies with him knowing that i was gonna go kick it with the other guy. i said sure to because i was just gonna spend some time with them right nothin serious.well the thing is that today in lunch me and da movie guy took a picture together because idk y but we did lol and the other guy got mad when he saw it on my myspace.I really hate to pick one because they are both great but i d0n`t kn0w what to do.oh and if this helps out da kick it guy even sings to me on the phone and i think that is so cute! s0 if you were me what would you do??im sorry for making it so long but yeah!
if you have a myspace add me at abelsandoval@sbcglobal.net thx i really need help on making up my mind and maybe there i can show you the guys=]
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Hm, well I suggest spending two different days with the guys during the weekend and seeing which one you're tending to feel more and like more. And just imagine yourself in a relationship with them. Do you think you'd be happy, do you think they'd be happy? Can you see yourselves sharing laughs and hugging and everything and being a serious couple?
You just need to weigh out the options and see how it goes. Whenever you decide the guy you like more, just go to the other one sometime you're hanging out with him and nicely explain to him, you're sorry, but you'd really just like to remain friends, nothing more. Or just explain to the guy you choose that you are going to have guy friends, just like he's going to have girl friends, so don't get jealous whenever the two of you are talking ; it means absolutely nothing.
If you want my personal opinion, I would try and go more for the kick it guy, but if a guy sang to a girl on the phone, who wouldn't pick him, haha? If they both have similar personalities, then he's probably just as sweet as the other guy is, so he sounds like a pretty good match and a cool guy to hang with and date. But like I said, that's just my opinion.
So just hang out with the both of them, and see what happens and where things lead to, and then just explain to the other you'd just like to remai n friends, and nothing more.
I hope I helped.
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Contrary to the advice given by the first person the decision to choose between both guys...might leave you wanting more..
I say that because both men arent alike and there is somthing that of them posses that u really admire that the other doesnt..
Futhermore in a situation like that its left up too maters of the heart...hehe..you seem as though you are torn between two lovers ..give you self time appart from them both and then make you decision..Cus if u do go out with on and the other gets jealous then you'll prob realise that you want the one so much more than the other..
It sounds like wack advice but you should give it a try ..trust me if it bound to work
Tell me about it in the end okay!!
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They both sound like great guys...but I cant help ya pick one! Thats your job! Just go with the one that you see the most happening with, like.. which one you think you could go far in a relationship.
Maybe just chill with both of them on a friends level, and get a better feel for who they really are, and it'll be easier for you to make a decison.
so for my advice.. i would say as for right now.. dont get caught up in a boyfriend girlfriend thing with either of them right now.. just do ya thing... keep it on a chill... and it'll get easier to find out which one is really for you!
Good lucky pimpin!
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