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Member Since: October 9, 2006
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Last Update: November 27, 2006
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well do they or not?just wondering... (link)

No,they dont ..that is unless they have gas brains..lol and usually there with you or arround you for the wrong reasons


ok i went out with my best guy friend last year, joe is his name. he broke up with me after 2 days because he liked my best friend. (i know, what a homo) i forgave him eventually and now were back to being friends. well right now i like this guy cody. but lately ive been flirting with joe and hes been firting back. i dont wanna fall for him again because i dont want what happened last year to happen again. and i also like cody alot. i dont know what i should do!! help please!! (link)


Initally the answer is right infront your eyes...Dont block joe out of your life, and alothugh he may beg he's not worth it cause he could leave you once he'll surley do it again ..you desevre much more .. if you like cody be with him flirt do what ever ..Why go back to someone who broke your heart .?its time too move him on ive joe the boot he's nice yes but you could find better!! And from the way things are going you have :D


Caribbean Queen.


is so mean to me
but i still like him, no matter what.
I dont know what to do!
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Have you ever thought that he might just be intrested, but just putting up a front.
in situations like this when people are mean too you my best advice too you is to kill him with kindness Another alternative would be to ignore him after all thats the biggest insult!!:D

Caribbean Queen


ok so there this girl i like alot but she told me she liked me once && were bestfriend && we always flirt but i like her alot and im scared im fallin for her so what should i do?
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Why are you scared of falling for her..? If you really like her and you're scared of falling for her then some things definately wrong .Are you afarid that shes gonna hurt you? in a situation like this my best advice to you is too free your self, your mind soul and most importantly your heart.In that way you destiny is in full focus your eyes is on the prise how could you fail..?
There is absolutely nothing worng with falling for some one ..go for it. She might just be the missin peice in you life :D

Caribbean Queen.


Alright. This gets a little complicated, but here it goes.
I have a myspace account and one day, randomly, i get a message saying that I look familiar, etc... to this guy. Come to find out that my ex boyfriends cousins-fiance is this guys best friend. (you still with me?) I've been talking with him for the past 6 months or so. Messaging back and forth. He's planning on coming by me in a few months, then a friend and i are planning on going by him next year and then a month later he'll be back here again. i feel differently when i talk to him. i mean, it's a great different. he's totally different, meaning, that he's definitely Not like any of my ex's (which is definitely a good thing), he cares for me (he said it himself), and I was told by his best friend that whenever i'm brought up in conversations, he gets all flaberghasted and even starts stuttering when they talk about me. i think i'm actually starting to fall for this guy. now, my question is, am i stupid to think something could happen? i was never one to do the whole 'long distance relationship' but i actually want to. should i try or am i just
setting myself up for the biggest fall?

any advice wold be great! i rate! (link)


Firstly...Love has no boundries...let your innerbitions run wild..and so what if you fall in falling u feel stronger..you posesses more strength..follow our heart it will...be the best choice..:D


im pretty good friends with this guy and i like him and he knows it but i mean i seriously cant get over this. is their any possible way i can get him to fall for me? (link)


Hmm..contrary too the advice given by the other person, suppose you keep acting like a friend..?
and he thinks that youre his buddy..?Uhh soo not goodd..lol
I think you should tell him how you fell..but just be real with him not too mushy or anything..and if he's into you then he'll definately fall for you ..but remember true happiness comes from within not with out..

hope ive helped


ok well im 13 female.
i started high school already.well the point is that there is this guy...hes a 12th grader,cute,funny,and cool 2 talk 2.
We started talking because my friend wanted 2 get at him but he liked her as a homegirl. so she found herself a boyfriend and told me that me and him talk so good to each other that we should go out.And the thing is everybody asks me if thats my boyfriend and i say no but they don`t believe me because we are always together. n0w for the other part theres this other guy witch i like and he is just as cute,sweet,nice,and down to earth.well he tells everybody im his girl right...so he asked me to kick it with him on friday and i said sure but then the other guy asked me to go to the movies with him knowing that i was gonna go kick it with the other guy. i said sure to because i was just gonna spend some time with them right nothin serious.well the thing is that today in lunch me and da movie guy took a picture together because idk y but we did lol and the other guy got mad when he saw it on my myspace.I really hate to pick one because they are both great but i d0n`t kn0w what to do.oh and if this helps out da kick it guy even sings to me on the phone and i think that is so cute! s0 if you were me what would you do??im sorry for making it so long but yeah!
if you have a myspace add me at abelsandoval@sbcglobal.net thx i really need help on making up my mind and maybe there i can show you the guys=] (link)
Contrary to the advice given by the first person the decision to choose between both guys...might leave you wanting more..
I say that because both men arent alike and there is somthing that of them posses that u really admire that the other doesnt..
Futhermore in a situation like that its left up too maters of the heart...hehe..you seem as though you are torn between two lovers ..give you self time appart from them both and then make you decision..Cus if u do go out with on and the other gets jealous then you'll prob realise that you want the one so much more than the other..
It sounds like wack advice but you should give it a try ..trust me if it bound to work
Tell me about it in the end okay!!


sex before.

and I see the person I did it with "sometimes"
and sometimes I get really horny and think about our sexual experiences together.
Do you think he does the same thing???
And I know for a fact he hasnt done sexaul things with anyone else but me.

Guys might wanna answer thisss.... (link)


Contrary too your perfernce..lol
From a female's perspective nothing is wrong with thiking about your sexual expercience what the hell..you liked it right..?
If he hasnt done sexual things with anybody else then most likely his mind is gonna be thinking about you..But the other thing that you have the realise that u kno ..This is a man/boy and u kno their imaginiation tends too wonder ..but the end of the day when he thinks of you im sure he'll be smilling ...


I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions. (link)


Honestly it may seem a bit weird.But if theres a connection between you all ,you would automaticall forget all those minor details..love is not blind..y be self concious and besides you will get over it..
Best of luck

P.s>Dont you worry about what other people thing your happiness should be your fisrt pirority so let them hate..

Hope ive helped


Hello. I have lived with my boyfriend for a year. We have seperate rooms though because i have lots of stuff! anyway, hes 29 this month and i was thinking about doing something really nice for him. do any of you have any ideas? And should i get him a physical gift? or should it be a romantic gesture or a hot bath, with candles and rosepetals etc. Its our first special occasion together.
Also, he keeps bringing up marriage. How do i remind him tactfully that im only 16 and im really not ready?
Thanks x (link)

Firstly you have too figure out what he likes..
If it is that he is actually into the romatic stuff...then you could carry him out too his favorite resturant.Wear a sexy seductive dress after all..its his night and you gott too tease.
The after math..should definately include the hot bath,with the candels and rosepetals...Try also too wear some sexy lungerie underthe sudcutive dress and lay the rose petals from the room straight to the bath>toCreate an atmospeher of love but also one that screams sexuality.

About the marriage..
Do you honestly think you're ready for this.you need to reasure him daily that you always be at his side and the realtionship that you all share does not need a ring or a formal contract too make the bond stronger..

Hope ive helped..


Well My problems in my name. The situation is complicated but basically im in a long distant relationship, and i keep cheating on him. I love him so much AND NO ONE SAY I DONT BECAUSE I DO. i dont know what to do about it cos i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him but i keep cheating and its hurting him and me. What do i do (link)
okay.. i understand your situation. But one of the most imortant things you need too remember is thatlong distance relationships only work out to the extent you let it work i guess one of the reasons why youre you are cheating on him..

Futher more you need to ask yourself if you are really in love with him cause from my perspcetive if you were then you wouldnt be cheating on him...It sounds a little bit harsh i know..but you really need too rethink if you want your realtioship too work you have too free your innerbitons and focus your energies and what you want>And as you stipulated that is too love him..

Moreover i cannot choose what would be the outcome of your realtionship .I will leave it up too you to decide.And if you must follow your hear and leave the man youre cheating him on out..!!


Hey, i've been with my boyfriend for one year and things have been great except for the past month. I'm planning on telling him that i want to try and take a break bcause things haven't been going so well...today i was going to break the news to him but i think he knew it was coming and got very, very upset. He said that I was the one thing he likes in his life right now and that if i wasnt with him he doesn't know what he would do with himself becaus he's so upset with everything in his life. I feel so guilty trying to end things, but i just feel like things arne't working right now..What should i do? I don't wanna make him so upset, im worried about him. (link)
Hmm..Although u have raised some crucial points in your question..you must ask you self is this what i want..? You must also remember that happiness comes from with in not without and if he's understanding ..If he really wants this to work then time appart may be the best thing.Time to heal ..and strenghten the realtionship in the process..Do what is right follow you heart..




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