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I Keep Cheating But I Love Him
Well My problems in my name. The situation is complicated but basically im in a long distant relationship, and i keep cheating on him. I love him so much AND NO ONE SAY I DONT BECAUSE I DO. i dont know what to do about it cos i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him but i keep cheating and its hurting him and me. What do i do
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It's not hard, either break up with him, or stop fucking cheating.
Your bill will come in 4 to 6 weeks.
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Thats a hard one...QUIT CHEATING!! if you love him stop!and if it don't work and you keep cheating and you get married,think how bad it would be.
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stop cheating on him.
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Hey!!! Here is my advice:
I am sorry if this sounds rude. But if you were cheating on him then you do not love him. But anyway.... but anyway.. like I said if you truly loved him you would have NEVER cheated on him.
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okay.. i understand your situation. But one of the most imortant things you need too remember is thatlong distance relationships only work out to the extent you let it work i guess one of the reasons why youre you are cheating on him..
Futher more you need to ask yourself if you are really in love with him cause from my perspcetive if you were then you wouldnt be cheating on him...It sounds a little bit harsh i know..but you really need too rethink if you want your realtioship too work you have too free your innerbitons and focus your energies and what you want>And as you stipulated that is too love him..
Moreover i cannot choose what would be the outcome of your realtionship .I will leave it up too you to decide.And if you must follow your hear and leave the man youre cheating him on out..!!
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I notice that you do not say WHY you feel you keep cheating, or what the nature of it is. By that, I mean are you cheating with just one person, or is it a series of one-night stands, or something in between? Do you set out to do it, or is it something that "just happens"?
You will not be able to stop until and unless you can clearly identify why you are doing it, and take steps to solve that problem. And it is a problem that needs to be solved, not just because of the moral issues, but because you may be putting his life at risk. You could conceivably contract an STD and give it to him.
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I know long-distance relationships are really hard, but you have to think of who you want to be with more, him or other guys? If you love him enough, you're just going to have to try your hardest and back off of other guys and just keep reminding yourself of how much that'd hurt your boyfriend and how much you love him, and think of how it'd feel if he cheated on you with some girl. Maybe even communicate less with guys so you're in less situations with them where you can cheat. I mean you can like talk to them in school and on the phone and on the internet and everything, but maybe take some time from hanging out with them over the weekend or whenever or wherever you cheat.
If you still find yourself continuing to cheat on him, I would try and take a little break from him and see what goes on whenever you're really single, and see where your feelings and everything go and re-evaluate how much you really do love him and want to be with him. Because like I said, if you love him enough, you can work your hardest to try and stop cheating.
I hope I helped.
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I am currently in a long-distance relationship, so I know where you're coming from... However, you have GOT TO decide which is more important to you: Him or the other guys. I'm sorry, I know that's not easy, but it's basically your only option.
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thats so sad. and i believe you, i have had a long distance relationship at my age, 14. cheating just happens. i know its not as important at my age. but anyways, if you love him then you can stop cheating. you should try and be apart from him for a little, like a break. see how you are, how you act. then try and go to him, like a long weekend, spend time with him. see what feels better. but most importantly follow your heart
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