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alrite so i want this jacket really badly

http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12103&categoryId=12172&productId=2&langId=-1

but my mom said we just dont have the money this year. she said i could get a job to earn money for it. i can babysit my neighbors but if i ask i dont want to be like "i need a new jacket so can i babysit ur kids" cuz then they would feel they had to go out like EVERY weekend. i need help SOON

Why would you even mention the jacket to the neighbors? Just say you're looking for some extra cash, and that they shouldn't hesitate to let you babysit if they ever go out.

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Okay me & my boydfriend have been going out since 9/22. The relationship is great, we both love each other and everything.

But, when we makeout .. He moves his tongue way y too fast. I just want to tell him to slow down! I don't actually want to tell him verbally, how do I give him a sign to slow down while we kiss?

Bite.

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Well the guy i like has a girlfriend and i liked him for about a month and they were going out for about two weeks now, but i go to my brothers football practices and he stares at me and smiles.. and he knows i like him and my bother and him always talk about me.. i am soo confused i dont know if u likes me or if he is looking at someone else. what do i do to find out.. besides to talk to him?? Please help me!

What does it matter if he likes you or not? Until he breaks up with his girlfriend, he's offlimits, period.

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I'm a virgin and I want to stay a virgin until marriage. Don't get my wrong; this question is not about fighting perr pressure to change my mind. Actually, I'm worried about my friends. There are only 4 girls in my church youth group including me. The other three have all lost their virginity. (My youth group age range is 11-15 btw) One of them is a slut, mostly because she's gulliable and likes guys WAY TOO MUCH. Another one of them, my cousin, lost her virginity to a player, and now has fallen for another player, who is a guy in my youth group! He's the brother of the slut, and he's a manwhore, too. She's determined to make him fall in love with her, even if it means using her body to tempt him. She made a video for her of herself acting sexy and talking dirty. Luckily she hasn't given it to him yet. Now, outside my youth group... One of my long-time crushes (age 14) who also goes to church and was our 8th grade valedictorian... he's a teen father. He got his girlfriend pregnant. And she's only 14, too. So, I'm really scared. I don't want my friends to get STDs or get pregnant. I want them to have morals. Plus, if they are acting like this... is there anyone left out there besides me whose still decent? These people are Christians, you'd think they'd have some sense! But they don't! I'm already worried that I'm never going to be able to find a husband that hasn't been with another girl... Yet I'm so powerless because if I boss around my friends, they won't be my friends anymore. HELP! & Sorry this is so long!

You can't make someone not be an idiot or have morals.


Just keep your head above all of the shit.

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okay, so im having a party today
(14-15 year olds)
what songs should i put on my ipod?
nothing punk-- i've got alot of that already on there. lol.

If things get a little rowdy and you want them to leave, put on 10,000 days by Tool.

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What are some things guys do when they like a girl? Not like what they do to their girlfriend, but what they do to flirt with someone they like and want to notice them. Also, what do guys really like in girls. (Answer truthfully please)

Thanks in advance.

I love a girl that's not a moron and doesn't ask stupid questions.


You've got work to do.

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What are some good excuses to get a guy's number or screen name that you like?

"Hey, I forget to write the homework down a lot, so can I get your screen name and/or your number? Thanks."

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is so mean to me
but i still like him, no matter what.
I dont know what to do!

Maybe, you should set your Windows loggin to password protected, and make your password be typing random crap with your eyes closed, then shut down your computer.


Problem solved.

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there is this girl i know who makes her pictures look flawless perfect face and she really enchances herself without enhancing the rest of the piture does anyone know how she does it

xoxo
thanks so much

If she did it in Photoshop,she probably used the clone stamp. Do a google search to find a short tutorial on how to use it.

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how do they work exactly? i heard two diferent stories. one is:
1st: makeout
2nd: fingering and handjobs
3rd: oral
homerun/4th: sex

and i also heard
1st: makeout
2nd: feeling up eachother, just like boobs and ass.
3rd: oral or hands
4th/homerun: sex

can someone help me out with the truth of the bases?

You want the truth of the bases? I'll give you the truth of the bases!


Basically, and single either found a hole in the infield, was a liner to the outfield, or a blooper.


A double is either down the line, off the wall, or between the right fielder and center fielder or left fielder and center fielder.


A triple means you have legs. Either an outfielder screwed up or your name is Grady Sizemore, but somehow, you stretched a double into a triple.


A homerun is outta the park. Gone. Unless it's an inside the parker. Which is excluseivly for those that run like they just stole a VCR or an outfielder dove into a wall and the ball bounced half way back to the infield.


Fwa Fwa Fwa!

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well there`s this boy in my class and he acts like he likes me and everything but not he has a girlfriend, and i don`t know. I just thought that he liked me, but I guess not, I`m trying to get over him, but I can`t. What should i do? P.S: his girlfriend is mad ugly for him

If you ever say "mad ugly" again I will personally come to your home and spit on you, then take you to Saudi Arabia where I will tell the relgious police you relieved yourself on the Koran. See how you like those words now!

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Hi.

My sister told one of her friends about me, well he sent me a myspace message and I have no idea what to say back! I wanna do something cute and/or funny.

This is what he said;

Hey *MY NAME* whats up *SISTERS NAME* told me about ya and thought we could be friends if thats ok!

Whats should I say back thats funny?

"I eat babies. LoLz!"

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i believe i have an embarrasing problem and i hesitate to even ask it's so embarrasing.
it all started in the 6th grade when i was with my best friend, and we were laughing a little and i already had to go to the bathroom, and i peed in my pants. that's been three years and it still haunts me. lately, i'm terribly paranoid of going on myself and it only seems to affect me when i'm at school or taking a long car trip. for the past week or so, i've been telling my teachers that i'm about to throw up and that i need to go to the restroom immediately, but in reality, i just need to go to the bathroom. it wouldn't be so bad if i actually had to go once i got to the bathroom, but i would barely go at all. the longest i can not go at school is an hour [one class] and in some classes it's only half an hour. what can i do?

My friend knew someone that actually had a medical condition very similar to this, so I would talk with your doctor.

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one of my best friends has recently revealed to me that she has a crush on this boy. howver, we are seniors in high school, and he is only a freshman in high school. what makes it weirder is that my friends brother is a freshman too (he doesn't know she likes this kid). i know that age shouldn't matter, but i just feel the wholse situation is so awkward & weird. he isn't really "matured" yet, so it is SO strange. she keeps on talking about it & it just bothers me that she basically has a crush on a little boy. the kid doesn't even know she likes him, but she talks about him as if they are married. what should i do? am i wrong in saying this is sort of innappropriate?

It's not really inappropriate so much as uncommon, so I'd just keep your feelings to yourself until she gets over him. Which she will.

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Okay, so at one point, there was this guy that I was involved with for awhile, and he blocked me on line, and when he blocked me, I made another screen name he didn't know in case he blocked the ones he did...recently I had the idea to start talking to him on that sn to like, attract him in a way, get him to want the character behind that sn, and then once I know he likes (her), I'd suggest we meet, and it would be me he meets up with.
I know it's a lot of lying (sort of), and a lot of deceit, but I almost want to do it. Like, start fresh, in a way.
What do you guys think?
Btw we're in college...^^

He'll freak out when you two meet.


I would.

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I flirt alot with this boy, Adam. He told my friend I like him alot, even though I still had a boyfriend at the time. Since he was being so confident about it, I want to mess with his head a bit, leave him guessing and wanting more if you know what I mean. ;) Any tips on how to do this?

- "Playing Hard to Get"

I'll say it now. It doesn't work.

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So i gave my boyfriend a handjob and i got cum on my fingers but i washed it off and about 40 mins. later i masterbated and i got my period 4 days later and i read that even if you get your period you could still b pregant? do you think i am?

If you were pregnant, his sperm would have to be godlike.


"...a god-machine..."

-- Smashing Pumpkins

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14/f and i need guys to answer this. =]

ok...

when you're talking to a girl what do you like them to do, or just when they're around you.
what are some hints that let them know that you like them or they like you?

thanks so much.

I typically wink and lick my lips.

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Good afternoon,
Okay..in the begining it was all about him what he wanted too do what he wanted he cheated on me a coupple of times with various girls one being a stripper...ah mean after a year i turned too the only other person i cud trust my ex ..and then well we kissed and thats all and my boyfriend found out...oo well and well too realease his anger he choked me off in town ..ah mean it was a bit embarssing at the time and i forgave him ..but then as time passed he began too tell me more hurtfull things when he got mad and so i turned too another friend but this time the realtionship was different we werent intimate but if i alloweed it it would goo there
bascially my bf doesnt trust me for varyin reasons some i may have given himm,, he says i lie to my parents but the only reaason i lie to them is beacause that the only way i go and lime with him ..soo now i rly dont kno what too doo need ur advice!!!shud i move on and forget abouthim and what should i do about the other guy.. lost in love

CaribbeanQueen
Age:20
Female
St.Vincent and the Grenadines

I read the subject, and I already have an answer.


Stop cheating.

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ok so my friend spent the night with me for the first time 2 nights ago. and she was just admiring my earings, well today when i went to school she has that on and my shark tooth necklace. i said those are my earrings, and thats my necklace. and she goes "no my mom made me go to clairs with her". ok 1. she lied to me bkuz when i gt home i looked everywhere for them and 2. she stole from me. what mom "makes" their daughter go to clairs with her. not her mom, i know her mom. i am sooo mad at her, what should i do? i really want to tell her mom bkuz i really want to get her in trouble, please help, i'm desperate! thx...

Talk to her mom about something you want to tell her, then drop by their house and have a meeting with both of them.


"Yo whore, give me by crap back!"

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