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kissing
Okay me & my boydfriend have been going out since 9/22. The relationship is great, we both love each other and everything.
But, when we makeout .. He moves his tongue way y too fast. I just want to tell him to slow down! I don't actually want to tell him verbally, how do I give him a sign to slow down while we kiss?
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Bite his tongue. He'll catch on.
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If you truely "love" each other, then communication shouldn't be a big deal. You can probably "hint" to him by complimenting him - simply by saying you like it when he kisses slow. If he knows what you like, I'm sure he'll slow things down.
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i dont live in california i used 2 live there i just dont want anybody to no where i live
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well as i see it from the stand point of a dude you have 2 choices adapt to his style of make him switch to yours try kissing slow if this doesn't work say things like kiss me slowly of always if you 2 are close tell him you like to kiss slowly or ask him to try your way if all else doesn't work.
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don't try to coach him verbally, because he'll probably take offense and think of it as you being condescending. if he starts going to fast just pull away slightly in a teasing way. if he still doesnt get the message, you could try telling him things that you like specifically, but you have to be careful about harshness and timing. goodluck :]
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when you kiss him,just hold back a little bit.go slow but make it enjoyable for him.in my opinion,the slower the better.so play with his hair and kind of disract him a little bit.also try kissing his neck and his face to take his mind off your tongue a little.play with his lips using yours.do this and you will make your kissing more enjoyable and you will get it the way your comfortable with.good luck.=D
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Bite.
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There isn't an exact way you can hint something like that without actually telling him. Why not try and slowly kissing him and maybe he will get the hint by doing that. When his tongue goes to fast you just go with the flow but if you slow down he may catch on to it.
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